-Huxley, a famous British physicist
Certified public accountant certificate is a very difficult certificate. Most people who take this certificate around me need to spend 3-5 years, and they also need a less busy job to ensure enough study time.
Therefore, in my mind, most people who can pass the CPA exam are self-disciplined and smart because they can understand those complicated formulas and principles. Then, people who can be certified public accountants must be more powerful.
But Yan Jie broke my stereotype of CPA teachers, and I realized that this profession has its particularity, and sometimes smart people will play a good hand in a certain field.
Sister Yan recently talked to me about the midlife crisis. There are old people in the world and young people in the world, and she makes ends meet every month. She feels a lot of pressure. Last month, the child was ill in hospital, but he has not fully recovered. The mother-in-law who took care of the children was dizzy from time to time, and went to the hospital for examination and found that Xiao 1 10,000 was gone. She said that money is really not money now.
Sister Yan talked to us about her work before, so her identity as a certified public accountant teacher has always been a tall existence in our hearts. Unfortunately, it is a fact that you have excellent learning ability, and it is also a fact that you have no planning consciousness.
Over the years, Yan Jie has no other skills except a certificate. Because outspoken offended the leadership, let alone a promotion. A few years ago, I felt very comfortable and didn't think there was any problem.
In recent years, I found myself gradually marginalized in the company. Others got a promotion and a raise, but I lingered in the same place. Recently, the leader also hinted that she would quit her job as soon as she was old and go home to take care of her children, otherwise she might have been fired long ago if she had a certificate.
At the age of 35, she can't stand the toss anymore. She regrets that she didn't set a goal at the beginning and let herself be confused for so many years. In the end, she will face the situation that she may be eliminated by the company at any time.
I can't help but think of a passage in last year's Korean drama: "Leaders can only scold middle-aged people, because they are old and young, and they can't scold young people. Young people really dare to burden you! "
Life is miserable, especially for middle-aged women.
There are not a few people who are similar to Yan Jie.
A 38-year-old treasure mother beside me told me that she once left a message to a professional blogger, saying that she was in a fog when she was in college and never thought about making plans for herself. She is addicted to romance novels all day and often skips classes and fails classes. .....
When I graduated, I was confused. In a panic, I followed my family's advice and went to a state-owned enterprise as a clerk ... Now I am 38 years old and feel that I have accomplished nothing.
If time can go back, she won't spend it like before, so what if she regrets it now? There is no chance to go back and start over.
Many people may misunderstand life planning: Is planning really necessary? How many impetuous people can make reasonable plans for themselves? In case the goal of planning is not what you want, isn't it a white plan?
What is the significance of life planning?
In my opinion, planning is not to set a path for yourself at the beginning, but to set goals for yourself, so as to bring out hope, concentrate all energy and time, unite all actions around this hope and live a meaningful life.
It was a girl five years younger than me who touched my life plan for the first time.
She is a qualified middle school principal. But I failed in the college entrance examination and failed to enter the first-class famous schools in China. Some people feel sorry for the little girl, but they don't care: "Nothing, starting from a second-rate prestigious school, we can reach the height of a first-class prestigious school."
In her freshman year, the little girl won the highest scholarship from the school and became the man of the hour in many societies.
Sophomore, it is more like a duck to water to continue to get a scholarship and participate in various social activities;
In my junior year, I completed all the credits of my senior year in advance, and applied for an internship in an online company, during which I began to prepare for the TOEFL test.
After three years of triple jump, everyone marveled at the little girl's lasting explosive power, but she was surprised and said, "I really have no talent." The reason why I can have such a harvest depends on doing a little career planning in advance. "
It turned out that the little girl began to think about how to go in the future from the day she entered the university. For college students, there are three ways out in the future: one is to study abroad, the other is to study at home, and the third is to get employment.
"Different directions of choice directly determine different directions of efforts during college.
If you want to study abroad, you should accumulate more social practical experience, learn English well, pay more attention to and browse information about studying abroad, compare and choose schools and majors that suit you, and then make unremitting efforts around this goal;
If you want to go to graduate school in China, you should concentrate on studying professional knowledge, at the same time, know the professional direction and do more homework for preparing for graduate students.
If you want to get a job, while trying to master professional business knowledge, you must do more social practice in your spare time, choose a company with similar employment direction, and accumulate work experience and contacts for yourself ... "
When it comes to university planning, I totally listen to Kan Kan, a little girl in her twenties.
At that moment when I was confused, I couldn't help regretting infinitely-if I had such IQ and strategy at the age of 20, would I be like this today?
The little girl positioned herself as studying abroad. According to this orientation, the four-year course of the university was spontaneously shortened to three years. Now she is an intern in an internet company, and her English is very good. When the TOEFL score comes out, she will start to apply for foreign universities.
In our mediocre minds, planning should end here, right?
"What can I do? The employment direction and location of graduate students after graduation must be considered. If a man takes no thought about what is distant, he will find sorrow near at hand. Idle is not idle? By the way, why not do something with half the effort? "
Listening to the little girl's words, I thought I was in tears. When my life didn't improve, I often complained about others. Compared with little girls, if people who eat and sleep every day like me get along well, that is the real world.
Life with a plan is called life, and life without a plan can only be called life.
Today's life is determined by the choices made three or five years ago, and the life of three or five years is determined by today. But few people realize that we are creating a life in the next three to five years.
Therefore, it is necessary to make plans in advance and summarize afterwards, which is called resumption and memoir. Only by determining the direction and path in advance can we know which direction to work hard in the future. I didn't follow the crowd and do nothing in the torrent of life, but like Yan Jie, I felt regret when I was near middle age.
In fact, when writing this article, I also remembered my decision three years ago. Three years ago, as my passion and love for writing increased, I had to weigh the energy input between writing and work.
In the end, my passion for writing and sharing overcame my love for work. I want my future every day to be a state of concentration and study, and I want my words to be loved by more people.
So, I made a major decision, giving up two years of work experience in the business field and turning to the brand promotion direction in the enterprise to accumulate from scratch.
In the past three years, my work has made progress, my ability has been recognized, I have a sense of accomplishment, and my sideline income outside of work is also increasing. Most importantly, the continuous strengthening of writing thinking training enables me to continuously input and maintain the ability of continuous reading and information search.
This year, based on my love for life and food, I opened my second WeChat WeChat official account-Taste Spark.
Record the joy and emotion of every food I have eaten and share all the good things I have encountered.
Ma Si Noel, a famous psychologist, once said: The most beautiful fate and the most wonderful luck of mankind is to get paid while doing what you like.
I think, as I said in this sentence, when you find such a combination, when you get paid for doing what you like, you will feel full, happy and calm. And all this was brought about by a decision three years ago.
The starting point of life is ourselves, and the end point is ourselves. No one can do it for us along the way. If we don't set a goal for ourselves at the beginning and work hard for it, then we will bear the possibility of a mediocre life in the future.
It is only a moment that determines a person's life and the whole destiny. If you don't take the time to figure out how to spend the next few decades, you will have to bear the consequences in the future: muddle through your life and feel at ease.
Life planning is not as useless as we thought. A good life plan can help us give meaning to our work and life, and it can also help us get a steady stream of motivation.
A good life plan should not only consider the return of material wealth and the future direction, but also consider your future life and work from multiple angles and dimensions.
Psychologist Amy Winnisky said: People have three attitudes towards work-task, career and mission.
If you only regard work as a task and a means of making money, rather than a way of self-growth and self-realization, then you will feel that you have to go to work every day.
Once you regard work as a mission, then work itself is a goal, and you will enjoy and complete self-realization and growth. This job is no longer a part-time job, but a reflection of the value of life.
In fact, money, time and happiness are not mutually exclusive. They are all necessities of life. What we need to do is to find our mission first, and then give full play to our strength and devote ourselves to every moment. When your time is full of value, do you still need to worry about the result?
Always keep your promise to the future, and your dream will come true.