It’s really annoying when a naughty child rubs off. My four and a half year old baby wakes up every morning and urges him to rinse his mouth after brushing his teeth. He refuses to budge even after brushing his teeth. After rinsing his mouth, he urges him to urinate again. I had to urge it several times. Time is already tight in the morning. After sending him to kindergarten, I have to rush to work myself. Who knows that the naughty child doesn't understand your anxious mood at all. As I battled wits and courage with the naughty kid, I gradually figured out some methods and shared them with everyone. The last trick was super effective.

Method 1: I initially used the probation policy. I bought him some picture books that cultivate his sense of time and correct his procrastination, such as "Don't Procrastinate", "Thomas and Friends Time Management", "Put Mom's Words in Your Ears", and "Thomas and Friends My First Clock Book" . Talking about these picture books, they have a certain effect, but they return to their original shape within a few days.

Method 2: Hedong Lion’s Roar Policy. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I haven't established the role of a majestic mother in normal times. The naughty child is not afraid of me at all. After each yelling, not only did he not improve, but he also stopped what he was doing, wasting more time to argue with me. The final result was that my temples were throbbing with anxiety.

Method 3: So, I came up with the ultimate move. My kids like to listen to Uncle Kai telling stories. Every time after racing against time to pack up at home and go out, I would read Uncle Kai a story to him on the way to kindergarten. Once, after he was so procrastinating that I was so angry that my liver trembled, I ignored his request to hear a story on the way to school. I said, Mom asked you to rinse your mouth, and she told you five times, but you haven't done it yet. Now, if you ask Mom to open Uncle Kai and tell a story, you have to tell her five times before I will open it for you. Respect is mutual. If you want me to respect you, you have to respect me too! After saying that, the naughty boy was petrified. I have to say that this trick really worked. From then on, the naughty kid never dared to turn a deaf ear to my words.

Specific to the situation of readers, you can capture the games that your child loves and cares about the most, or it can also be his long-cherished toys, food, etc. For example, if you don’t listen to your mother now, and your mother asks you to do something, but you still haven’t moved after she told you five times, when you go out to play later, you will have to say it several times before I will take you out. It's late to go out and delay you from playing with your friends. Don't blame me! For another example, if your child is looking forward to going to the amusement park on Sunday, you tell him that if your mother tells him several times and you don’t follow through, then you also need to tell him several times about the amusement park on the weekend. If you go late and the amusement park is closed, you just You can only blame yourself.

Punishment is secondary. The important thing is that no matter what kind of punishment, you must tell him the following words: respect is mutual. If you want your suggestions and requests to be respected by your mother in the future, and If it is implemented immediately, then you must also respect what your mother said and implement it as soon as possible. If you respect me, I will respect you! This helps the child understand that his actions will have certain consequences. If you want to be willful, you need to bear the consequences yourself. On the other hand, it can also get rid of the bad habit of procrastination in naughty children.

Try it at home, remember to be gentle but firm.