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At 8: 21pm on January 4th, I was just about to write something when the house suddenly shook. I leaned over the bed and shouted for my family to get down. After about 2 or 3 minutes of shaking, we quickly got dressed (after all, it was nearly 2 degrees below zero outside) before running downstairs.

The residents gathered in the square downstairs breathed into their hands and called each other to report their safety. Wechat prompts and people's rhythmic stomping sound fluctuate with each other.

when I sent an earthquake notification to a wechat group, I sent it to the wrong person. It was a group with friends all over the country. I quickly quit, found the right group and sent it again.

Whether it's family, colleagues, friends or classmates, Hula Lala is information about greetings, the latest earthquake situation and the situation in various regions, and thousands of messages are beating.

The intersections in the city are jammed, and people want to escape by car, but there is nowhere to go.

After freezing outside for more than ten minutes, some people couldn't stand it and began to go home one after another. Everyone is holding a look of death-love Zha Zha.

the first thing when I opened my eyes the next morning, I quickly opened various WeChat groups, and there were hundreds of unread messages. I don't know how many people have spent another sleepless night.

after reading the information of each group roughly, I suddenly found that the group that I sent the wrong information did not have any reaction because of this information.

I thought, didn't the house sway badly in the earthquake of magnitude 4.3? At that moment, I can only pray to God for mercy and not despair. I'd rather be shocked to death than get dressed, so as not to go out and freeze to death. Isn't it helpless?

the answers are all yes.

but is this a thing?

for people in the earthquake zone, it counts.

for others, it is meaningless.

think about it. it may be a matter of life and death for you, but it doesn't matter to others at all. So don't think too much, it is the best reward for life to live your life in a down-to-earth and serious way. As Nietzsche said, every day without dancing is a disappointment to life.

2

Cece has been depressed recently.

it makes me wonder. She is a person who knows how to live, and she pays attention to food, clothing, housing and transportation. While enjoying life, you should also share it with your circle of friends.

Send a beautiful picture during the trip, a delicious meal on the dining table, a clean room, a child's grades and a gift from her husband ...

Originally, it was a relaxing and pleasant thing, but Cece was uneasy after she made a circle of friends, so she had to look at the dynamics every two minutes, whether she liked it or not.

It's a little awesome. We need to analyze why she didn't praise it. If you have comments, you have to reply quickly. Less praise, introspection is not the right time to send a circle; Much like it, sum up what is popular.

But gradually, Cece felt that the circle of friends was not as lively as before. No matter how difficult the dishes are, how extravagant the gifts are, and how excellent the results are, there are fewer praises and no messages. Cece doesn't like it in her heart. She thinks her friends are too stingy and give everything they have. How can they not attract everyone's attention?

Cece feels that the happiness index has dropped a lot.

after listening to cece's words, I know her cause: she takes herself too seriously.

in today's information-rich era, who has time to care about things that have nothing to do with them? Who has the energy to explore things that are useless to them? Her little emotions have no practical value and social significance. Who can always pay attention to them? Is there any reason to be concerned?

and cece doesn't understand at all that happiness comes from life itself, not from other people's praise and praise.

Cece stopped being depressed when she only used her circle of friends as a way to record her life, rather than capture her attention.

3

I haven't seen my friend Xiao Tong for a long time, and I didn't know that she was divorced until I went shopping yesterday.

During this period, Xiao Tong is busy looking for a house, cleaning up the house and moving. The children have to find a make-up class when they have a holiday. The most important thing is that the company has a large-scale activity, and the leader named her to write a planning case. She is so busy that she has to go to the toilet from time to time, not to mention that she has no time to eat.

I exploded as soon as I heard it: Is there such a leader? After such a big accident, I give you so much work? Besides, your colleagues, you are so kind to them at ordinary times, so why can't they help you if you have something to do?

Before I finished, Xiao Tong patted me: "Alas, alas, what are you stirring?". How do people know that I have something? "

"Why didn't you say something so big? There are so many things to deal with outside the house, and besides, your mood needs to be adjusted. "

Xiao Tong rolled his eyes at me: "What's the big deal? Don't say that you are divorced, even if you are terminally ill, how much does it matter to others? Grow up, okay? If you have time to cry for comfort with others, it is better to arrange your own affairs. "

After that, Xiao Tong mysteriously pulled out a piece of paper, which I saw was a promotion letter. It turns out that Xiaotong performed particularly well in this activity, which made her leaders who were already optimistic about her deeply satisfied. Therefore, the promotion and salary increase is a matter of course.

Xiao Tong's story reminds me of a passage on the Internet: Never expect others to feel the same way about your pain. You might as well die, but it's just your own business. Even if you get sympathy from others, it may contain frivolous emotions such as pity and perfunctory.

If Xiao Tong had let her pain overflow and hoped that someone would feel the same way and help her, her life would not have changed except praying for a few perfunctory words of pity. I'm afraid that the promotion letter is not Xiao Tong's name.

Xiaotong's wisdom lies in that she understands that her own affairs can only be solved by herself in the end, and she can ask for help, but she can't count on it.

So no matter what happens to you, the first thing to do, and the only thing you can grasp, is to do your best to do the right thing well.

4

I'm afraid nothing in this world can be called a "major event" except an event that can affect all mankind.

What happened to Brother Jiang, Tricolor Kindergarten and many other big events have all become the past tense? Although the victim still hasn't peeled off the clouds, "others" have already taken a new step and started a new journey along their own footprints.

every mature person should understand that 99% of what happens to him is meaningless to others. So don't expect to attract others' attention to change your situation, and don't expect to grab others' sympathy to enhance your strength.

all we have to do is occasionally raise our heads to identify the direction, and always bury our heads to achieve better ourselves. Give your life the color of live high, and live your own life with your own taste.

if someone is in danger, try to reach out.

no one applauds and dances alone.

the picture is from yike media mobile phone screensaver.