There are three reasons for this. First, the child is still young and does not know right from wrong. It is the right time to be naughty. Second, Huang Lei was a complete naughty bag when he was a child. He would not listen to any education. When Huang Lei It is normal for Shao Ai to be difficult to control. Thirdly, in the process of disciplining the second daughter, he did not increase the severity, resulting in the child not being afraid of being preached at all.

01. It’s the age to be naughty

Huang Lei and Sun Li have three children. The eldest daughter Huang Yici, nicknamed Duoduo, was born in 2006 and is now 14 years old. The second daughter is named Huang. Shaoai, nicknamed Duomei, was born in 2013 and is only 7 years old now. In 2017, the Huang family was blessed with a baby boy, whose name is not known yet. Judging from the ages of the three children, the youngest is still young. He has not yet formed a combat capability for such a small matter as "naughty", so he is not afraid of it. Of course, Huang Lei and Sun Li do not need to control them too much.

The eldest daughter, Duoduo, is already 14 years old, so she is naturally very sensible. Most children of this age know etiquette, not to mention that she is still a girl, so she is naturally much more sensible. The second daughter, Huang Shaoai, is just a child. She is at an age where she is ignorant of the world. She is full of curiosity about the world and has high energy. She has not yet formed the concept of right and wrong, so she will naturally appear naughty.

There is also a possibility that Huang Shaoai is competing for favor. The eldest sister Huang Yici is in her prime of life, and her family members will appear calm and attentive when talking to her. The youngest son often staggers when walking, which is the visual focus of the family. As the second daughter, Huang Shaoai sees these scenes in her eyes every day, and inevitably feels that she is not taken seriously. Then she uses quite naughty means to get the family's attention. I guess Huang Lei and his wife did not expect that such a young child would think so much, thus creating an uncontrollable situation.

02. Inherited Huang Lei’s naughty gene

According to Huang Lei’s own words, he was a hopeless naughty bag when he was a child. Other children thought about schoolwork and playing all day long. , delicious food, etc. When Huang Lei was a child, he thought about how to mistreat others all day long. For example, he would dig a medium-sized hole where there was soil and trick the little brother next door into the hole. He liked to cause trouble when nothing happened. Not only did he harm other people's things, he also never let go of his own things.

The good news is that when it comes to harming objects, he harms more other people’s objects. As the saying goes, reincarnation is easy, no one can be bypassed by heaven. Huang Lei's naughty character as a child was completely passed down to his second daughter Huang Shaoai. Now he feels that Huang Shaoai is very difficult to discipline, so he can't blame others, just follow his roots. However, don't be afraid that when Huang Shaoai grows up and becomes sensible, all the hardships will be over.

03. Not strictly controlled

Speaking of this, I think of when I was a child. If I was disobedient as a child, I would inevitably get a beating? Ten slaps from the dragon?, and more In severe cases, they also have to suffer a mixed male and female doubles fight. My upbringing was strict, and I was given a good beating if I made mistakes. As the saying goes, filial sons come from under the stick. When I grew up, I was very sensible and well-behaved. Let’s take a look at Huang Shaoai, the second daughter of the Huang family, and Huang Lei and his wife must be reluctant to spank their children.

Of course, I am not advocating spanking children. What I am talking about is stricter verbal education. If you really encounter a stubborn child, spanking is not impossible. In short, the second daughter of the Huang family is difficult to control. One of the reasons is that the control is not strict enough and the child does not know how to be afraid.