Gao Yuanyuan's intellectual beauty always looks perfect and advanced compared with the film and television circle full of childlike innocence and careless mistake.

I remember when I first saw her when I was young, I was shocked by her perfect facial features.

Falling in love with her is just her smile in an advertisement, and the bright smile is deeply imprinted in my heart.

For many years, I have been insisting on buying buccal tablets that she endorsed in the past. Every time the entrance is cold, I can recall her smiling face.

She was so beautiful that she was discovered by scouts in high school and started shooting advertisements. In high school, she made an advertisement and got her first income. It's 400 yuan.

For a student, this is a huge sum of money. After careful consideration, she chose to buy a "Walkman" for herself, and she had the opportunity to immerse herself in the ocean of music.

This happy moment brought many happy memories to her tense high school life.

At that time, she had filmed the high school girls in Spicy Love Soup. Too many people know her because of this work, but she never thought that she would become an actress in the future and embark on the road of professional actress.

Therefore, she has never made up her mind to become a "formal student" in the performance department of an art college. On the contrary, I chose to go to an ordinary university and study general majors. At that time, she just wanted to make the most comprehensive preparations for her future nine-to-five job.

Although she participated in "17-year-old bicycle" during her college years, she inadvertently created a literary goddess. Interestingly, unlike the designs of other people who deliberately create beauty, she chose to let nature take its course in her performance, and where to go is more due to listening to her inner voice.

Hearing many people praise her for her aura and being a good actress, she is not confident. After all, for her at that time, this performance can be said to be an attitude of "fans playing with tickets".

At that time, she had not made up her mind to become an actress. It was not until the night of graduation that a Jetta car sent her from school to a "studio" in Hebei.

After more than an hour's drive, she looked at the scenery hidden in the night outside the window and couldn't help thinking about the changes in time and space. What she didn't expect was that from that day on, as a non-performing professional actor, she kept repeating the scene of "going to the set by car" in her acting career for nearly 20 years.

She finally became a professional actress, although this profession has a huge contrast with her personality.

For others, a very simple thing is very difficult for her. She is not good at dealing with people. In the face of strange environment, she is silent except silence.

She went to Hong Kong to attend the film festival. In order to avoid dealing with people, she chose the empty corner. Standing under a dumb tree all night.

She feels that only in front of this dumb tree can she get peace and comfort.

At that time, she didn't know that she had inadvertently entered a higher level of life. In nature, getting the comfort of nature is a person's best growth.

02

In the film and television circle, where beauty and cheerfulness are not scarce, Gao Yuanyuan's seemingly casual "coldness" is also scarce.

The quiet character of loving reading endows her with a special classical temperament and a little freshness of intellectual beauty, which makes her an out-and-out "literary goddess".

This quiet personality is inherited from her mother, and it is also accompanied by poor communication with others. How to get along with others, she feels that she is lacking in learning.

Over the years, she has encountered many unexpected difficulties, especially her inability to communicate effectively with others, which makes her feel uneasy.

Therefore, in addition to work, she chooses to stay at home more often, even if it is reading an interesting book or a favorite movie. This is also the only decompression method that she can cure herself during the filming process.

Her mother has been silent for many years and devoted herself silently at home. Her mother never nags repeatedly. She is always quiet and busy with housework. I also like to face my daughter quietly during recess. They are both reading books.

Later, when Gao Yuanyuan was filming "The Dragon Slayer", which made her "the most beautiful Zhou Zhiruo in history", the difficult martial arts movements could not be completed all the time, so that the on-site director said to her, "Because of you, the shooting progress of the whole crew has been slowed down."

She is under unprecedented pressure, but she doesn't know who to talk to. In this way, she was once so stressed that she was bald.

She worked hard and pondered the details of every movement by herself. It was not until "Eternal Dragon Slayer" was broadcast that she was well received by the audience, which gradually eased her pressure.

This method of gradually healing oneself is very slow. But it seems to have created more time out of thin air, and the days passed slowly, giving her more time to slowly taste the nectar of life.

She never felt anything special about herself, although deep down, she wanted to be a special person.

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In 2005, because of her mother's illness, she spent nearly ten years, hardly traveling or attending various parties, and chose to accompany her when she was not working. Going back and forth to the hospital to accompany her mother to see a doctor, in order to understand her mother's illness more clearly and provide effective help, she had to grit her teeth and learn to communicate with everyone who had an intersection with her mother, and gradually became her mother's most powerful spiritual pillar.

Sometimes she is surprised that she has really changed. This new communication skill makes her different from her old self and taciturn mother.

The actors who debuted with her tried their best to take all kinds of plays, but she could only do subtraction. She knows that her mother needs herself more and can only do the most important things in her own time.

On the surface, this low appearance rate has affected her popularity and popularity, especially in making quick money, which seems to have missed a lot compared with her peers.

She took the initiative to do this subtraction, keeping her away from the whole entertainment circle, letting her back a little, and letting her see her inner thoughts more clearly. In short-term value and long-term value, she chose the latter.

The carefully selected repertoire won her many actresses in one fell swoop.

Who can say that it is not good to be quiet and restrained? Perhaps the scarcest ability in this era is the courage to resist impetuousness in silence.

After a long illness, my mother went to another world the year she got married in Gao Yuanyuan. After losing her mother, Gao Yuanyuan often thought of her mother on various occasions.

Seeing beautiful scenery and tasting new food during the trip, she was very sad when she thought that her mother would never have a chance to experience it with herself again.

With this yearning for her mother, she gradually found herself, and the trivial details in her life became more and more like her mother, so rigorous that she was a little paranoid.

In the past, she felt that her mother was always weak and the whole family was taking care of her. But after mom left, she found that dad always wore the wrong clothes, and the house was a little messy and could not be cleaned up. This family can no longer feed a plant.

Only then did she realize that this is the sense of life order that her mother has built up all her life, and it has become an important ability to teach her to deal with various problems in life.

Just as she finally chose to "hold your hand and grow old with your son", in her eyes, the best thing about each other is the sense of order and self-discipline in this life.

This sense of security brought her a sense of peace of mind, and let her gradually recover from the pain of losing her mother.

Most of the time, Gao Yuanyuan is deliberately looking for the memory left by her mother on herself, and she even sighs:

"I have two decrees, which originally bothered me, but every time I look in the mirror and see them, my heart warms up. It makes me look like my mother, which is really good. "

Mother's most precious gift can only be perceived after the baptism of time.

Fortunately, my daughter Gao Yuanyuan noticed.

She will objectively evaluate her changes: "But I am not like my mother in many places. I am no longer afraid to participate in activities and socialize. I am happy to make friends with strangers. I will travel everywhere and enjoy taking care of distant guests. "

The warmest love in the world is always given by my mother. It is a pity that some people may never realize this gift of life, and it is destined to be touched only by those who carefully perceive the texture of life.

As Gao Yuanyuan said:

"Maybe for a long time, it's not that I'm accompanying my mother, but that my mother is growing up with me. She shaped me, and her gift to me was to make me a person who is not entirely her, but close to her in her bones, a person who can take care of herself and others. A stronger and stronger person. "

? Please enjoy it after reading. If you can choose to pay attention, it must be true love!

Author Nini:

He has been a journalist for many years and won the highest award in the industry.

12-year-old handsome girl is a hot mom, a deep confidante, and a sincere and humorous anonymous reading promoter.

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