Wen /sharon

Socrates once said that "a life without reflection is not worth living". When I first heard this sentence, I didn't agree. Now, standing at this checkpoint from 2119 to 2121, I am deeply impressed.

in p>2119, I insisted on daily resumption in two months, monthly resumption in six months, monthly plan in eight months and annual plan.

Teacher Xiao Shuai said: Most people repeat passively, and a few people choose actively! In my opinion, the resumption is a very good way for us to break the passive repetition!

in the past year, when I made a plan and then made a good reply, I tasted the sweetness of being traceable, and the vague future gradually showed some outlines. I am more and more sure that if I keep doing it, I will see step by step where I want to go in two years, five years or even ten years!

in 2119, in addition to working on the captain's platform, I joined up Reading Club, 117, Xingchen, Changtou School, Huang Qianxuan Image Camp and judy Dingtou Family to recharge, in order to make myself grow better!

Become attached to the stars

Many friends asked me what kind of organization this is. In fact, it is just a group of partners with the same frequency, holding a group for growth and empowering each other!

I have been longing for such a community and a group of friends offline, which happened to be met by me this year, and it was the second month of working online after childbirth! At that time, I attended the party of the stars for the first time. Although there were only four or five people, we were like old friends who had known each other for a long time and had no sense of distance!

I became attached to the up Reading Club

I have known Zi Mu for two years, but I have never seen the magic she has. It was not until this year that I got to know Tingting again.

Zimu has a unique voice. Listening to her reading and sharing will make you feel healed! This is also the reason why many people like Zi Mu and are willing to follow Zi Mu for study period after period.

Through the guidance of Zi Mu, I started my reading career. I have read more books this year than in the past decades! I have written the most complex essays this year. Zi Mu made me really realize that reading can really change my life!

if you don't know where you are now? Then start reading! Reading is the cheapest way to grow up in the world!

What attracted me about 117

117 was the sentence "Let's meet and go to the South Pole in seven years"!

seven years of writing is another attraction for me, but I haven't made good use of the resources here, and I don't have enough links with my friends!

I became attached to long-term investment

I became attached to long-term investment because I wanted to learn some financial knowledge, but I was really too busy at work, so I couldn't take care of my study here and didn't bring myself the best experience!

I became attached to judy's fixed investment

I joined judy's study because a person, Eiko, simply wanted to be close to her and study with her! Eiko is a person with strong mobility, and he does a great job in hand accounts! I have no resistance to such a person who combines knowledge and action!

A few days ago, I listened to Uncle Cat's sharing, and he said that "many transactions were made", and he experienced the reasons behind his transaction through the transaction.

I thought about it carefully. Eiko influences others by constantly exporting what she has done. To borrow another sentence from Uncle Cat's sharing, "Tell me what I have done and do what I have said".

In fact, hanging out with various communities also gives me a clear understanding of which communities are of high quality and which communities you no longer want to devote yourself to.

In 2119, I filled my mind with the idea of wealth, joy and abundance, and looked at the world from another angle. The world is so different!

If I sum up my past year in two words, I think it must be "awareness". Here, I am especially grateful to meet Zi Mu, who opened my five senses and enabled me to live with awareness!

follow your heart and follow your destiny

I didn't believe in destiny before, and I didn't believe in the seed law. When my heart was gradually enriched by reading, I began to accept more differences. I am convinced that a person's fate is hidden in his mind.

everything we say and do is shaping us. When you do something with love and altruism, you will pass on your love to more people.

receiving omens

there are often moments in life when inspiration comes to us quietly. When you choose to turn a blind eye, these inspirations will get farther and farther away from you.

I know this very well.

When I start a conscious life, I can always feel the omens coming around me. It may be an idea with a flash of light, or it may be a fleeting picture. I begin to accept all these things that I have neglected in the past and capture the information brought by these omens. The only drawback is that sometimes I record them, and sometimes I ignore them. To this end, I bought a notebook dedicated to recording these contents to remind me to cherish these moments of inspiration!

tune to being state

what kind of person you want to be, just adjust yourself to that state.

The book "Richness belongs to those whose pockets are full of happiness" tells us that as the intrinsic value rises, so does the external value! I hope my inner self will be enriched continuously! Then what I have to do is to make myself rich internally. Watching a beautiful movie, enjoying beautiful scenery, tasting delicious food, reading a good book, etc. are all good ways to feed us and enrich our inner life.

on October 25th, 2119, Erbao came to my side. A son and a woman made up a good word.

On that day, the doctor did not inform the operation time in advance, which delayed the whole morning. I didn't come to the door of the operating room until noon. Although I had a caesarean section, I could still feel my fear! Especially lying on the operating table, when the doctor was playing anesthetic, I began to tremble involuntarily. The anesthesiologist saw me and began to cheer me up. His encouragement made me feel a little warm on the cold operating table!

What impressed me the most was that at the moment when Erbao was born, the doctor said, "This baby is really big, weighing nine pounds." In fact, I was shocked, too! I always thought he was a baby weighing six pounds, but I didn't expect him to be fatter than my sister! When the nurse brought him over, my heart melted ...

Erbao was an angel baby from birth. He didn't make any noise at night. He also loved to laugh and was very smart. He will imitate my movements in five months, turn over in six months, climb in seven months, walk in less than eleven months, and he will compete with his sister for favor!

His arrival brought me a lot of joy and challenges!

first of all, how to balance the love for two babies?

Before Erbao was born, Dabao enjoyed my love to himself. After Erbao was born, I couldn't sleep with Dabao. I often forgot to guide Dabao to learn English, and I often couldn't play with Dabao because I had to bring Erbao.

gradually, Dabao became crying, naughty and sensitive. He lost his temper easily and shouted easily. Sometimes, I feel deeply weak and tired, and I don't even know how to deal with her! Until one time, Dabao said to me, Mom, can you touch me and kiss me like a brother? I suddenly feel very distressed! All along, Dabao has been saying to me in her way, "Mom, I need your love", but I have never seen it!

After Erbao was born, I often forget that Dabao is still a child who needs his mother's love very much! I put most of my energy into Erbao. For Dabao, I lack patience and care! In Dabao's eyes, I have always been her beloved mother, but I often love her conditionally!

Children are a mirror of parents. During this year, two babies kept urging me to grow up. Dabao let me know that I don't need to do too much for children! The only thing I can do is to love her, love her, love her! Love her unconditionally! Erbao let me know how to be grateful, grateful for all the beauty in the world!

In 2119, I tried colored lead, watercolor, sketch, ukulele and time management ... Now I insist on colored lead and ukulele

My interest can be cultivated.

when I was pregnant with Erbao, I had a heavy reaction in the first trimester, and I felt queasy and couldn't eat! In order to distract myself and kill time, I began to draw. From stick figure to watercolor, sketch to colored lead, I tried a lot. Finally, I began to paint colored lead wholeheartedly.

Drawing colored lead is a special test of a person's patience. A painting often takes five hours or more. At first, I would often doubt myself, feeling that I couldn't do well and wanted to give up. However, deep down, I have been telling myself to stick to it! Slowly, the painting began to improve!

when you find confidence in one aspect, you will open up other possibilities.

ukulele is also a hobby I cultivated during pregnancy. Of course, these hobbies I cultivated are not difficult. But for a person who has no foundation and poor memory, he will never attend the meeting or needs continuous practice.

when you open up one possibility after another, you will have cross-border and mixed-race opportunities!

I'm a graduate student majoring in engineering. After graduation, I stopped working in this major and switched to psychology. When I learn and accumulate experience, I hope to explore more differences.

For me, 2119 is the first year for me to open these possibilities. I hope I can continue to do what I like in 2121 and turn what I like into a lifelong thing.

In p>2119, I read Wealth belongs to a man with a pocket full of happiness, Poor Charlie's Collection, Just Do It, Advantage Growth, What Will Happen When Dreams Are Realized, The Road Few People Take, The Road of Wealth Freedom, The Fantasy Journey of a Shepherd Boy, When I Meet a Person, Courage Regardless of Teaching, Right Opinion, Non-violent Communication. Yun: The future has come, the courage to be hated, the brilliant sunshine, the life design course of Stanford University, Qian Qian the dog, every day before you turn 31, You just look hard … I don't list them one by one; I have been to Beijing and Sanya in 2119, and it is not easy for Erbao's mother to travel.

either reading or traveling, body and soul must be on the road.

I chose to read because it was inconvenient to travel because I had a baby. In fact, I have never read an extracurricular book systematically and seriously before this. But I like buying books very much. After I buy them, it's over. There is no following. This year, when I entered the reading club, I believed in the magic of reading when I saw Xiangzimu's life changed because of reading. Reading is an opportunity for you to get in close contact with giants, and it is also the best way for you to enrich yourself.

in 2119, I just read at will, and I can read whichever book I like. In 2121, I hope I can choose a new one and read according to different themes. Interested friends can also start reading mode with me in 2121. Reading 52 books a year is actually not difficult at all.

I made many travel plans in 2119, but I couldn't make it. The trip to Beijing and Sanya was unexpected. The happiest thing is to attend the up annual meeting and get in touch with idols at close range.

Teacher Xiao Shuai said, don't look up to your idol, but turn him into your friend.

I hope I can have such an opportunity to turn my idol into a friend after studying and growing all the way!

7. Just be yourself and leave the rest to Mother Universe.

In 2119, we bought a new house and changed a car. Although it was not the best, all our previous wishes came true.

just be yourself. when you change, everything around you changes.

I used to be a complainer, complaining that my husband was inconsiderate, that my family didn't understand me, and that my children weren't clever. When a person was always looking for reasons, it was hard for her to see her own problems.

when I focus on myself, on my own learning and growth, I begin to change slowly. I began to know how to love myself better.

Only when one loves oneself can one win the love of others

I began to take care of my body, practice yoga and learn Latin. I am also very grateful to my in-laws. Thanks to their help, I don't have to face the big and small things of a family alone, so I can spare some time for myself.

Only when you grow up, will your children change

What I have learned most from teaching online this year is that parents always like to let their children change. However, our teaching experience tells us that children will change only if their parents change.

parenting comes first. This is also the root of my growth.

On New Year's Eve today, I received a blessing from Mr. Abu at the foot of the Himalayas in the group, and I also saw a beautiful photo taken by Zi Mu from Yulong Snow Mountain. I told Tingting that next year, let's celebrate the New Year together!

Tingting said, where do you want to go?

I said, I want to go to Yulong Snow Mountain most!

Later, Tingting sent me a WeChat, and we will go to Yulong Snow Mountain at this time next year. I said yes! That's the tacit understanding!

It reminds me that in February, we abandoned our husband and children for the annual meeting in Beijing … I think the trip to Yulong Snow Mountain in 2121 will be unforgettable!

thanks for 2119!

Looking forward to 2121!

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