Those days of sadness and wandering alone will eventually become your new blood and make you stronger.

- 1-

My good friend Xiao Pangmei from high school sent me a photo. In the photo, she has a bright smile, slim figure, short skirt and long legs, white and thin, and is very stealing the camera.

I'm a little surprised. You know, when I was studying, my chubby girl was 160 cm tall and weighed 140 kg. She is a lively little fat girl, otherwise she wouldn't have won the nickname.

None of our good friends believe that she can lose weight successfully. Who let her be a heartless girl? Always chewing hamburger fried chicken and shouting to lose weight.

Sometimes make fun of her, if she continues to be so fat, no one will want it. But chubby doesn't care at all. She always thinks that food is enough in life, and everything else is just floating clouds.

However, careful people can still find the loneliness inadvertently revealed in Xiaofei's eyes when he looks at the slimmest girl in the class.

I stared at her in the photo, which was a little unbelievable. I remember a saying on the internet that if anyone in the world has the potential to succeed, then the person who can make up his mind to lose weight is definitely one.

"Little sister, you have gone too far! How did you lose weight? " I can't help asking

After a while, she gave me a crying expression. In fact, it is nothing more than two principles. Shut up and let go of your legs.

During the time when she made up her mind to lose weight, Xiaopang got up at five o'clock every day to run five kilometers and jogged for two hours at night. She can stand and never sit, but she can sit and never lie down. The high-calorie fried food she loved before was also put in the cold by her, and all the meals were light, only seven minutes full for each meal.

In this way, I persisted for nearly a year, and my little fat girl changed from a little fat girl of 140 kg to a thin beauty of less than 90 kg.

I have to admire this perseverance. But when I asked her why the prodigal son suddenly came back from the cliff, the little fat girl suddenly fell silent.

-2-

After going to college, Xiao Fei's sister fell in love with a handsome senior in the same major. It took her a long time to make up her mind through psychological construction. She chose a good weather to send love letters to her seniors and felt uneasy.

Later, although the senior accepted the love letter, his frightened eyes and undisguised disgust on his face deeply hurt Xiaopang.

That night, Xiao Pangmei stood in front of the mirror and looked at the chubby girl opposite. Her heart was cold and she fell down on the bed and cried.

As a fat man, even love must be careful and humble to the dust.

Since then, whenever Xiaopang's sister lies still or eats snacks and desserts, her mind will unconsciously see the eyes of her elders.

Although the fat on your body can't fully represent yourself, your beautiful appearance will make others want to know your heart.

Everyone likes beautiful things, which no one can deny. Many people are trying to be better themselves. On this road, especially for girls, body management is an important topic that can not be ignored.

No one wants to hide in the corner and cry when they meet someone they really like.

Little chubby girl has lost weight, and she has grown up.

-3-

Bai Bangni said that growth is self-destruction and reconstruction.

It is a painful process to deny the past self or bid farewell to the past, but at the same time, we are also trying to become better ourselves and have a stronger heart.

We grow up slowly, and everyone will embark on this inevitable growth path sooner or later.

Through yesterday's narrowness and naivety, you will have a broader vision and mind today, and you will know a lot of truths you have learned.

You know you can't get the toys you want by crying;

No one will unconditionally accept your unreasonable troubles;

In the dead of night, you know that only by working hard towards the set goals can you not be submerged in the crowd. ...

You have learned so much and gradually become an adult, but I know last night was full of tears and whispers of pain.

Growing up will inevitably be a little painful.

-4-

Pain is an opportunity for people to grow and change.

We grow up slowly, from children playing with mud everywhere to adults who shuttle through the crowd and wear mature clothes. We have experienced more people, some people are proud of the spring breeze, and some people are complacent.

We are miserable, we are lonely, and we are confused. We stared at the light outside the window in the middle of the night, and there were thousands of termites biting in our hearts.

Maybe the person you love doesn't love you anymore, and your former friend is now a passerby. Your roommate will ignore your love and even slander you behind your back.

Maybe you have encountered difficulties in your study. The road to postgraduate entrance examination is very long and difficult, and your colleagues secretly put a stumbling block on you.

Maybe you didn't eat all day today, so you went home at night and took a sip of water, sent a message to your mother "I'm fine" and fell asleep. ...

But no matter how much pain we are suffering now, we should remember that those days of sadness and wandering alone will eventually become your new bone blood and make you stronger.

After all, who hasn't cried in the middle of the night