I don't know when marriage is no longer a necessity. Around us, more and more people are starting to be single. Some people have not met fate for many years, and slowly no longer have expectations. Some people see through marriage and lose confidence in their feelings. People come and go, flowers bloom and fall, and finally give up the original innocence after the wheel of years.

I recently read a question and answer in the newspaper, which made me very worried: how many friends born after 1980 are still unmarried? You guys okay?

I am also born in the 1980s, and I know this generation is not easy. Once we, the mainstream youth, wanted to be prosperous, unforgettable, excellent and vigorous. Today, everything seems to be calming down. Call us big brother (big sister) after 90, and call us uncle (aunt) after 00. It sounds awkward, but there's nothing I can do.

Fortunately, in this series of questions and answers, I seem to feel a kind of light. The post-80s expressed their feelings with the most chic words. Years have wronged me, but I still want to live freely! Below, with these natural and unrestrained words, once again stirred our hearts:

1, 1987 The rabbit passed by and Wang was single. He read a lot of books and heard a lot of truth. He doesn't want to settle down, so he has a good life!

? If you don't look back, you won't live the rest of your life.

2. After 80s, the single king is engaged in wedding planning, planning weddings for others every day, hoping to plan a wedding for himself one day.

? I look forward to having my own love!

3, divorced for three years! Ex-derailed domestic violence! Sometimes I want to find a boyfriend when I am lonely, but there is no suitable one! Alone! Freedom!

? Tired, painful, scattered, forget it!

4. My son 10 years old. He divorced for many years and never remarried. He felt that marriage was no longer necessary. My parents won't get married. They all have children anyway. It's great to do what you like, be free and live a stress-free life!

? The original is quite good!

5,87 years, divorced for 9 years, son 1 1 year. He never remarried. In recent years, he has traveled many times by himself. He likes traveling between Shan Ye, walking on the road and wandering alone!

? After leaving you, I fell in love with vagrancy!

6, height 162, Aries, working, cheerful, filial. Ha ha laugh ... I have so many advantages, why can't I find anyone? What a strange phenomenon!

? I am Zhong, the princess who was missed!

In 787, the rabbit was unmarried, but her parents had given up. She was also told by rural neighbors that the old girl who could not marry had changed the bed in my room, with red quilts, red sheets and a big double bed. I was dumbfounded at first sight, and I really felt like seeing a wedding room. I can understand my parents' feelings, but I still want to find a boyfriend who can get along well. After all, there is still the rest of my life. If two people are unhappy together, it is better to live a happy life alone. I'd rather be single.

? I'm still waiting, waiting, waiting!

Drift at 8,85? .. still have to believe in love and hope that the person who can spend the rest of his life will appear as soon as possible!

? Come on, come on, come on!

9. I have only been in love once. As a teacher, I am too busy with my work, have little contact with the opposite sex, and have traditional ideas. I always thought I'd get married after talking. I have been single until now, and I usually like food, baking, calligraphy, various handicrafts, travel and houses.

? I am so cute, why doesn't anyone still love me?

10, single in 1987, unmarried. Last year1February, I posted an article about being single. However, I still have some feelings and changes about this epidemic. I used to resist marriage, but now I can only say that I will try my best to get in touch with the right person. Say it again-never make up. I'm a Libra, and I'm usually inactive. If one day you look good or your brother takes the initiative, it may be different! Hahaha!

? Before the disaster comes, I want to have one more relative! Want to have a rely on!

1 1, I have been single, but I feel fine. Marriage is the natural way for lovers to get married. I don't want to get married for the so-called chanting and expectation of my seven aunts and eight aunts With that person, I will live with him all my life, without that person, I will live all my life. As long as that person will appear, I think it's okay to wait a few years. I'd rather be arrogant and single than get married. Mentality is the most important thing, and the first thing is to make yourself better.

? Your appearance is so chic, and your writing is so touching!

12, unmarried and single, from Henan. After college, all the girls were robbed by others. Alas, a man abandoned by the times ...

? What a pity to miss it by accident!

13, I am a rat, my hometown is Gansu, I used to work in Shenzhen, I talked about an object, and I worked in Jinan after separation. Being single all the time is really worrying about the second half. I don't know where my half is. Find someone who is good to you this year and get married.

? Marry a good man, though not from the heart.

14,87 rabbits feel that their lives are particularly bad. He has been single for various reasons, and he hasn't met anyone who fits his three views better. Let it be! The epidemic has passed, work hard, then improve yourself and take care of yourself and your parents.

? In fact, my life is not easy either!

15, around 20, and I pushed many introductions. At that time, I felt that I was still young and I was in no hurry. At that time, I had a special dream, that is, to find someone as tall as me, so I kept picking and choosing, but finally I didn't meet a girl who was 1.8 meters tall. When I was in sports school, I had a crush on a little senior sister, as tall as me, but I dropped out of school that year because of illness. I didn't reply later, maybe I didn't receive it. Until four years later, I took four pieces of bacon and asked the coach for it. I went to see her again a year later, but it was too late!

Suddenly I am 27 years old, and I am in a hurry. I talked about a sister-in-law relationship that is a dog, and it is a second marriage. A year later, I got married under great pressure. Everything was fine before marriage. After marriage, she changed 180 degrees, and various contradictions broke out behind her. Coupled with the serious disagreement between the three views, I finally left. Divorced for almost three years, has been a person. I'm afraid I invested too much in my feelings before.

? The right person missed it and the wrong person made a mistake. What can I do?

16, this is the first time I've watched it in the park for such a long time, and it's almost 3 12. I'm unmarried. I'm actually looking around to see if there is anyone suitable for me. You said you wanted to fall in love, but our time is no longer suitable for falling in love. You say you want to get married, but you don't want to get married, fear, fear. Sometimes I thought I would be single forever. Divorced after 90 years. I'm not married. In fact, I just don't want to wronged myself, want to fall in love, and want to go through such a process. I want to be spoiled, to be distressed, to be cared for, and I am still a child at heart. Don't want to compromise, don't want to reconcile. But I'm also worried. God, will I be like this all my life?

? In fact, I am so worried that I have been single!

17, a single mother, has experienced the betrayal and vicissitudes of marriage, and now she has a good life with her children. People may not be smooth sailing in life, but they should have a good attitude, be good at themselves, be self-reliant and confident …

? When the sea turned into a mulberry field, I decided to live alone!

18 and 20 13, because of the betrayal of a third party and their strong personality, they chose to divorce. What failed was not getting custody of her daughter. Borrow money if you have no money, work hard and try to find opportunities to support yourself. After six years of hard work, I have my own shop and bought my own house in my hometown. I think I should use two people to run a family, not each other.

? I am a weak woman, but the pain you gave me made me strong!

19, I have been single for five years unconsciously, and there are more singles around me in 90-92, but those born after 93 are married and have children. Who would have thought that time would pass in a blink of an eye ... The reason is that I am old and have no emotional intelligence, and I feel that people are impetuous now, and there are too many people to confide, and I have entered the 30 camp with trepidation. Everyone says I'm 28 years old. But seeing that all my friends around me are single, I began to feel particularly anxious and doubt myself. 30 years old, no family, no relatives. I feel sorry for living, eating and sleeping alone for many years. In order not to worry my family, I pretend to be calm, but my heart is empty, half empty ... and I sincerely admire those who are still living a happy life!

I hope I won't disappoint everyone who has feelings, and I hope I'm no longer afraid to run a love, have a marriage and family, and have a son and daughter who will come to the world soon!

? Although life has deceived me, I still love life.

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Everyone has their own story. There are so many stories about the post-80s generation that I can't finish them in my life. From these words, I feel a kind of free and easy. Some people are trapped by love, some people are hurt by love, some people have experienced storms, and some people have seen prosperity. Years have wronged them, but they are still strong!

At the end of my single life, I summed it up: I don't want to wronged myself, I long for love!

It's all wrong to think wrong, because marriage is to be wronged, while longing, while hurting, while loving.

If you say yes, it's all right. Being single is not a sin. Everyone should live for himself, as the article says: with that person, you can live with him for a lifetime, without that person, you can live for yourself for a lifetime. As long as that person will appear, I think it's okay to wait a few years. I'd rather be arrogant and single than get married.

How many post-80s friends are not married? You guys okay?

People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is full of ups and downs. This matter is old and difficult. I hope people can live together for a long time.

Fate, who can tell?

I hope the people I meet cherish it, and the people I haven't met love themselves. This article is dedicated to all post-80s compatriots. I hope you meet the right person as soon as possible and have no regrets in this life! In the rest of your life, may you be treated gently by life!

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Introduction: A post-80s generation who loves thinking, writing, life, reading and growing! If you like this article, welcome and enjoy it! Your support is my greatest blessing!

The above is related to the single rabbit in 1987, which is about the sharing of marriage. After reading the final destination of the 87-year-old rabbit marriage, I hope this will help everyone!