0 1 Calm yourself down.
Everyone has his own self-esteem.
Being rejected will definitely make you feel sad, especially by someone you like.
I loved Ta heartily, but Ta refused mercilessly, which made everyone sad and angry, and some people even became depressed from then on.
Depression for a while is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you have been depressed.
You know, no matter how sad, angry and depressed you are, you can't recover the situation of "rejection"
Since we can't change the status quo, we should calm ourselves down, adjust our mentality and get rid of the quagmire of depression and pain.
Life goes on, and the warm sunshine is waiting for you to feel.
Analyze the reasons
As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success.
I have to admit that being rejected is also a failure and an emotional frustration.
There is nothing to be ashamed of. Facing failure is also a kind of courage.
After calming down, analyze the reasons for failure, sum up experiences and lessons, and improve your own shortcomings.
The next time love comes, it won't repeat the same mistakes.
Generally speaking, the reasons are as follows:
1.TA has someone you like.
If TA really has the right person, and explicitly rejects you, it shows that TA is a devoted person.
Such a person will not be shameless if he steps on several boats. TA deserves a beautiful love in his heart.
If you pester me again, it will only increase TA's dislike for you.
2. you are not TA's type.
As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Everyone's family, education, life and work experience have created different world outlook, outlook on life and aesthetics.
What you like, others may not appreciate; What you don't like may be valuable in the eyes of others.
Very unhappy, you just don't happen to be TA's type, which is normal.
You don't have to worry, blame yourself or even lose confidence in yourself.
Believe that you are you, your unique self, you have your unique charm, and there will always be people coming for you in this world.
I don't know you, and I don't like you more.
In this world, "love at first sight" to "love for life" is a minority.
Many times, the so-called "love at first sight" is only a temporary strong visual impact, which is difficult to last. It usually ends with "one beat and two parts".
"Love for a long time" is actually much more reliable than "love at first sight".
The more you contact, the more you naturally know, and the more secure you feel.
Over time, each other will have more opportunities to have love.
Some people, who are insecure for various reasons, will not easily say that they like you even if they have a good impression on you, because TA doesn't know you well enough.
Unfamiliar you are dangerous for TA.
At this point, TA needs time to get to know you. I know you well, I know you well enough, and I feel safe, so I will relax my vigilance against you.
Such people, once they like you, will give you all their love wholeheartedly.
What should I do?
1. When TA has someone she likes, please try to give up.
You know, besides this tree, there is a whole forest waiting for you to choose.
Great youth should not be wasted on a hopeless tree.
Try to get in touch with others, and you will find that the sun still rises in this world without anyone.
No one is destined to be unique.
Time will gradually dilute people's emotions. One day, you will find that TA is not so important in your heart, only occasionally.
Your tears can also be shed for others.
2. Take back and make progress, starting with being friends.
If TA doesn't have a favorite yet, and the reason why TA refuses is that you are not the type that TA likes.
You can try to start with friends, get close to TA and get to know TA better. At the same time, constantly improve yourself and let yourself shine.
Let TA see your fine quality, your elegance and Excellence.
Unconsciously, you became close friends, enjoying each other and sharing happiness and troubles together.
If you can't put TA down in your heart at this moment, you should summon up the courage to express yourself again and give the other party a chance.
A generation of Qiong Yao girl Ruby Lin and veteran cadre Wallace Huo are also spinning around. After ten years of friendship, they finally chose to hold hands and entered the marriage hall, and later added their lovely daughter "Little Angel". Now they are happy and harmonious. They are perfect examples from friends to lovers.
However, if you are rejected again, please put it down. You are really not TA's type.
Let's start the next paragraph.
Letting go at the right time has fulfilled TA, in fact, it has also let go of itself.
3. Improve yourself and make yourself better.
Someone once said that you can't change anyone, the only thing you can change is yourself.
When you focus on managing yourself, you will naturally forget the pain of rejection.
At the same time, as you become more and more outstanding, according to the law of attraction, you will gradually gather equally outstanding people around you.
Perhaps, at that time, you have quietly attracted others and started your journey of true love.
04 written at the end
Life is a journey, with happiness, loss and hesitation. When feelings encounter rejection and failure, please don't give up on yourself and let yourself fall into the quagmire of self-pity.
You need to show courage, face yourself, examine yourself, get rid of negative emotions, constantly improve yourself, and greet the next stop of love with the best attitude.