1. A good mood is created by oneself

We often cannot change other people's opinions, only ourselves can be changed. A bad life does not lie in other people's sins, but in our bad moods. The golden key to making life better is not in the hands of others. If we give up our resentment and sighs, a better life will be within our reach. Subjectively we want to live a good life, but objectively we do not have a good life. The reason is that we always want to wait for others to improve our lives. Don't expect to change others, be the master of your own life.

2. Do what you should do with your heart

Life is so short, who wants to waste it? A wise philosopher once said: Someone scolded me on the street; I didn't even look back, I didn't want to know about this boring person at all! We don't want to hurt others, and we don't want to be influenced by other people's criticism. We should follow our own wishes and learn the skills first. Especially when you are a teenager, you should go all out to learn your skills and don't get distracted.

3. Don’t always be in trouble with yourself

Learning to appreciate yourself is equivalent to having the golden key to happiness. Appreciating yourself is not self-admiration, appreciating yourself is not being self-centered, appreciating yourself is not Being self-narcissistic and appreciating oneself is not about being complacent...Give yourself some information, give yourself a little happiness, give yourself a smile. Why worry about not having the happiness in life? Always celebrate the holidays by yourself and learn to find a happy mood.

4. Live a relaxed and happy life

If you don’t blindly compare with others, you will be leisurely and contented. If you don’t set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you don't be harsh on yourself all the time, you will live at ease. If you don't always find fault, you will be relaxed.

5. Only when you like yourself can you embrace life

Being blindly arrogant and self-respecting is a life of pride and ignorance, and blindly giving up on yourself is a life of negativity and pessimism. It is more difficult to understand yourself than to understand others, and it is even more difficult to like yourself than to like others. With healthy and appropriate self-esteem, you will be extra strong in the face of setbacks. Don't lose yourself to the temptation of the outside world, don't deny yourself because of temporary setbacks, always evaluate yourself objectively and calmly, and always praise yourself with optimism.