Many people have read the book Rich Dad and Poor Dad. The author of this book is Robert Toru Kiyosaki.
This book mainly tells: Robert Toru Kiyosaki has two fathers, the "poor father" is his biological father, an education official with higher education; "Rich Dad" is the father of his good friend. He is an entrepreneur. He has not graduated from high school, but he is good at investing and managing money.
Kiyosaki followed the life path designed for him by his "poor father": he went to college, served in military service and participated in the Vietnam War, and spent an ordinary early life. Until 1977, Kiyosaki witnessed the unemployment of "poor dad" who worked hard all his life, and "rich dad" became the richest man in Hawaii.
Robert Toru Kiyosaki resolutely pursued the footsteps of "rich dad", stepped into the business world, and got on the fast train to get rich.
Kiyosaki used personal wealth stories to show that "poor dad" and "rich dad" have completely different views on money and wealth.
The poor work for money, and the rich make money work for themselves.
From this book, we can see that excellent dads all have a common trait: self-discipline! Self-discipline makes life, and self-discipline makes a good father. In our real life, many examples tell us that being a good father depends on self-discipline.
Self-disciplined dad is a master of time management.
Stefanie is now the financial director of a multinational company. When asked about the reasons for her career success, she said it was mainly because she had a self-disciplined father who was a master of time management.
Yan Zi is 25 years old this year. In her memory, from the time she was born, her father was the alarm clock at home. The father made a strict timetable for himself and his daughter. There will be rewards for doing well, and penalties for not doing well.
When Yanzi was in junior high school, the school was far from home. She had to take her father's car to school on time every morning. Once, because I got up five minutes late, my father drove away by himself. Yanzi took several trains to get to school, and she was late. When she came home from school in the afternoon, her father made her stand for an hour.
Since then, Yanzi has a strong sense of time in everything and never delays.
Yan Zi's father is the technical director of an enterprise. He is usually busy at work, but he always finds time to spend with her. In many families, the father mostly acts as the shopkeeper of cutting, but Yan Zi's father never lets his father love be absent. He made himself spend enough time with his children by self-discipline, and didn't delay their education because of his busy work.
The castle of love takes time to build. As the ancients said, if the son doesn't teach, the father has made a mistake. Be a good father no matter how busy you are. The role of father in educating children cannot be underestimated. It takes enough time to accompany the children, and self-discipline allows the father to arrange the children in his father's schedule when he is busy.
Self-disciplined dad helps children get rid of internet addiction.
There is a child, Ding Ding, who fell in love with the Internet when he was 8 years old, and his academic performance dropped from the first in his class to the last.
Many parents can't figure out why their children like surfing the Internet so much. The main reason for children's internet addiction is lack of self-discipline. In this magical and illusory world of the Internet, there are many novel things everywhere, which requires strong self-discipline.
What parents have to do is to distract their children. Tintin's father accompanied Tintin to climb mountains, swim and play ball in a planned way. After a long time, Tintin was no longer obsessed with online games.
Dong Qing's father gave her a devil's education. If education is regarded as a 20-year marathon, Dong Qing's father turned his daughter into a butterfly by self-discipline.
Ye Shengtao said that for children, grades are not important, but the most important thing is subtle family education.
Everyone is born with inertia, and the father is the source of children's self-control. Self-control is a psychological delay in satisfaction. Self-discipline is an important ability in life. A father should set a good example for his children. A self-disciplined father will have a self-disciplined child.
Spend adolescence by self-disciplined reading.
When the child is in adolescence, a large number of hormones gush out of the body, which makes the mood very unstable and the body begins to change. Children are soft-blooded, immature, impulsive, and will be solved with their fists if there is a slight contradiction.
At this time, if the child can't restrain his emotions, something will happen that he regrets. In order to solve this problem, in many countries, children will choose to do a lot of reading, so as to help children pass adolescence smoothly.
In America, children read 14 books every semester. The famous writer Wang Chunmin once talked about his own experience. When he first left home to be a teacher in Taipei, he was always bullied by others because of his young age. Besides, he always hides under the covers and cries at night. Fortunately, he eased his mood by reading a lot of books. Reading is the foundation of education, and adolescence is the best time for reading. It will be a great pity if we miss this period. As Yan Zhenqing said in Tang Dynasty, the lights are brighter in the middle of the night. It is when people study, black hair doesn't know how to study early, and white head regrets studying late.
Fathers should have their own reading habits, so as to cultivate children's reading habits. Only in this way can children spend their adolescence safely and make them healthier and more stable.
Rely on self-discipline to exercise and improve academic performance.
Plato once said that in order to make mankind have a successful life, God provided two ways, education and exercise.
There is no doubt that exercise can exercise. There is also a scientific basis for sports to improve academic performance. Exercise can make people feel happy, increase blood flow in the brain, and promote the nutrition of hippocampus, thus helping to remember.
After investigation, it is found that when people exercise, the body will produce dopamine, serotonin and norepinephrine.
These three neurotransmitters are all related to learning. Dopamine is a normal emotional substance, and the happiness that humans usually feel is caused by dopamine.
With the increase of serotonin, people's memory will become better and the learning effect will become better. There are many antidepressants on the market, aiming at preventing the recovery of serotonin in the brain, making more serotonin in the brain and making the whole person's mental outlook look better.
Adrenaline is also directly related to attention. More secretion can enhance the child's concentration and make the child feel happy.
A survey found that the school was divided into two groups, and mathematics was arranged in the second class in the morning or the eighth class in the afternoon. It was found that the students in the morning group studied better, more than twice as well. Why? It turns out that the nerve conduction substance after morning exercise is still in the brain, so in the second class, the child's attention is more concentrated, but it is exhausted in the afternoon.
Poor dad or rich dad, excellent dad is a self-disciplined dad.