Life is getting more and more developed, and people are getting lazier and lazier. They are used to having their mobile phones around and staying in front of computers, so their life circle is getting smaller and smaller.

With the popularity of online chat software, all the 6-year-old uncles and aunts and 12-year-old children will use chat tools such as WeChat and QQ.

The popularity of chat software should have facilitated better communication between people. Of course, chat software itself has also achieved this goal. Nowadays, communication between people is very convenient. Just pick up the mobile phone and you can contact the person you want to contact.

However, we have to admit that with the popularity of online chat software, people's communication circles are getting narrower and narrower.

Friends meet less and less, and less and less people go shopping and walking together, and less and less people go out for a cup of tea and coffee together. If you have something, you can chat on WeChat, and if you have nothing, you can click like it in your circle of friends. Even if you borrow money, you can use WeChat and Alipay to do it for you.

With people's dependence on chat software and narrower life circle, more and more people are accustomed to staying at home, which is why there are more and more young people and men and women of marriageable age who are single.

So, how can single men and women expand their life circle?

1. after work, establish hobbies, instead of living a two-point and one-line life.

I am a person with a wide range of interests. Besides writing, I also like photography, travel, food and fitness.

It is precisely because I have a wide range of hobbies that I have more friends. Including the makeup artist in the photography building, including some travelers and gourmets.

since last year, I have been keen on fitness. I met two little sisters in the gym, and now the relationship has always been good. Besides going to the gym together, I often make appointments to go shopping and have coffee together.

It is because of my hobbies that my life circle is wider than many people around me. It was also because of my hobbies that I met my current husband, who was keen on writing at that time and he was my reader.

2. Go out and take part in some activities and parties.

a few years ago, I went to a wine tasting party, and because it was a little boring for a girl to go, I took a little sister with me. My little sister is single, and she looks quite symbolic. Going to the reception is also a scenic spot.

Because at the reception, besides some wine merchants, there will also be reporters and magazine editors. I was working in a magazine at that time, so I was lucky enough to be invited here.

On the way, a man handed my little sister a business card. My little sister said politely, "I'm here with a friend. I'm sorry."

The man said, "Never mind, you can keep your business card. Can I add your WeChat?"

After the reception, because the man and his little sister added WeChat, they often chatted with each other. Within half a year, my little sister told me that she was in love with the man she met at the reception.

3. On weekends, you can join some nearby circles or sign up for a weekend interest class.

Enrolling in interest classes can not only expand your life circle, but also improve yourself. As we all know, when we study, we have the most friends, because we will get to know the students around us through necessary channels, and so will the weekend classes, and we will inevitably get to know like-minded people around us because we study.

If you are not interested in signing up for interest classes, you can also try to add some nearby circles, such as WeChat group, such as walking around the nearby circles on idle fish.

After my friend Xiaojun got a dog, he added a WeChat group through a nearby circle. The group is full of young men and women who have dogs living in the same district. Because they are all dog lovers and they are not far away, we often get together on the grounds that dogs are playing together.

For example, when a dog has a birthday and a puppy is born, everyone will take the dog out to play together. Food, play and car rental are AA, so the consumption is not high.

In the past, Xiaojun was a special homebody. It was because of his homebody that he bought a dog. On the one hand, he had a companion; on the other hand, he occasionally took the dog for a walk so as not to stay at home moldy. However, after joining this circle, Xiaojun almost quit the house, with more friends and more cheerful people.

4. When you have enough time and economy, you can travel.

Traveling can relax people, broaden their horizons, and let people see the outside world and the cultural stories in other places. If you travel with a tour group, you will meet some new friends because of four or five days or even five or six days of contact.

Jia Jia is a tour guide of a travel agency, and her current husband signed up for a tour.

In My P.E. Teacher, Wang Xiaomi and Mark got to know each other when they traveled to Sanya at the same time.

Although traveling costs a lot of money, you don't necessarily have an affair.

what I want to say is that when you like traveling and the outside air, you can quit your house. Maybe you may not have an affair, but you will relax and broaden your horizons. When you are no longer at home, your "affair" will come sooner or later.

Some people may say that it doesn't matter if the life circle is narrow. You can have an affair at home, such as visiting Mo Mo, exploring with a brush, and using WeChat to find people nearby.

I don't reject these softwares and tools. After all, they do bring people affairs and more friends. It's just that the network is the network after all, and the beauty of the network is always hazy.

Get out of your inner circle, get to know more people face to face, and get in touch with more people. Through actual meeting and observation, you will know better whether the person in front of you is a liar or a good person. Is it worthy of contact and communication, or is it different from each other?

Get out of your inner circle and expand your life circle. Even if there is no affair, it is not worthwhile.