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Children always complain that their parents don't buy toys for themselves. What kind of psychology is this?
In reality, there are not a few parents like Ma. Their children use "noisy" as a bargaining chip. In the eyes of these children, as long as it is loud, exaggerated and unreasonable, parents will give in and get what they want. Children don't know right or wrong, they just instinctively pursue a better life. Obviously, it is good that parents can meet their requirements.

Parents' mentality is also understandable. After all, their pride, no matter how unreasonable, is just tinkering around the edges. A netizen said that children are nothing more than toys and snacks. How much is this worth? If he wants it, why not buy it for him? Why bother when you can solve problems with money?

Most children will be psychologically unbalanced after being asked by their parents to "share", and even derive the wrong idea that "mom and dad don't love me", thus resisting sharing even more.

In fact, for parents, in the face of children's reluctance to share toys, they should maintain the most basic peace and patience, communicate with their children first, and analyze the problem from their own perspective when educating their children.

In the process of urbanization, many rural left-behind children spend very little time with their parents. Parents who work in cities actually feel guilty about their children who stay at home. They will ask doctors how to help their children grow up better.

We know that most children have no resentment towards their parents, but they will have deeper feelings for their parents with the barrier of space. They are very much looking forward to their parents coming home. Very few children will leave their parents for a long time. Because unlike other children, being pushed out by classmates at school or joking between classmates will cause children to complain about their parents. They will complain or feel abandoned. But this is not real resentment. Complaining is a superficial phenomenon, and the deeper reason is that children are eager for their parents' affection.