He said he likes to cook delicious food, but he has never been in the kitchen once in a year.

He said he likes to travel, but he has never gone out for fun in the past few years.

She said she likes to dance, but she hasn't danced once in the past few years.

... Is this really like it?

Or just say you like it.

1. I also had a lot of likes, but now that I think about it, maybe they were just words.

Two years ago, I met a friend who writes calligraphy. His calligraphy is super good. I have written about him in articles more than once.

Every time I see the calligraphy written by him, it is vigorous and powerful, and I want to collect every piece of calligraphy.

His calligraphy inspired my love for calligraphy. Maybe I can also write well. I have always thought so.

After having this idea, I started buying brushes, ink, ink butterflies, copybooks, paperweights, etc. I bought everything I needed to practice calligraphy.

After I had everything I needed, I found calligraphy videos on the Internet and practiced with them. My calligraphy friend also gave me guidance. As a result, within a month, I never touched the brush again.

To this day, these things are still piled up in an inconspicuous corner of my home. They must have accumulated a lot of dust now.

So I no longer dare to tell others that I like calligraphy, because I just say that I like it, but I don’t want to work hard for it and stick to it.

I attended a sharing meeting a few days ago and met a friend. My first impression was that she was beautiful, so beautiful.

I am a beauty person, especially when it comes to beautiful women, so I went up to her and took the initiative to get to know her. Later I discovered that this beauty was not only beautiful, but also a talented woman. Her calligraphy was amazing.

I looked through her Moments and Weibo and found out that she really likes it and practices calligraphy at home every day, whenever she has free time.

No, the Chinese New Year is coming soon, and she has even handwritten a lot of Spring Festival couplets to give to her friends.

This is what I really like.

I admire people who know what they like, and of course, people who know what they don’t like are even more amazing.

Like me, I used to like to follow trends. I always thought that what others liked might be what I liked too.

When I really tried it, I realized that it was just other people's likes and did not belong to me.

We all hope that we will like many hobbies that sound particularly high-end, but in the end, we find that we only like them verbally.

2. I have a friend who loves dancing.

Love is actually a scary thing. The more a person loves what he likes, the more he will cherish it.

She cherishes every opportunity to dance. Diligence can build a person. She is a typical example.

She has her own job and runs her own hobbies at the same time. Dance does not respect national boundaries. She dances with Chinese people. When she meets foreigners, she dances with foreigners. There is a language barrier, but there is never a barrier to dance. She has always been

Communicate with them through dance.

She likes to dance and has a lot of sparks with dance, and her beautiful figure can be seen in many performances.

What a wonderful thing it is to be so focused on what you like.

I used to see her dancing so well, and she followed suit and signed up for a dance club. Thinking about how much I had contributed to the dance club, after paying the club fee, I never went there once.

3. More people say they love traveling. Most people should have the dream of traveling around the world, and I do too.

But there are only two people around me who really make me think they love traveling. One is a former colleague and the other is a current colleague.

Both of them are girls, but they are always on the road.

There is a kind of life where you can work from 9 to 5 or travel around the world.

They are fully qualified to be the spokesperson for this sentence. On weekends, they travel around, and if it lasts for more than three days, they go to farther places. In the past two days, my current colleague is still planning to go to Sri Lanka after the Spring Festival. Now she is watching

Air tickets.

I have always admired her heart for traveling around the world. This kind of love probably comes from the bottom of my heart.

There are some people who have said they like to travel since they were young and try their best to prove how much they like it.

For example, since I met Xiaoxi, she said she likes to travel, but she basically stays at home and watches Korean dramas on weekends.

The same goes for Xiao Fei. He has wanted to travel around the world since he was a child. At every party, he would say, "The world is so big, I want to see it." However, the dormitory was so small that he stayed in it and slept there.

4. Don’t just practice calligraphy when you see others doing it.

Don't just follow others when you see them dancing.

Find what you really like, it will help you grow and understand yourself better.

Saying you like it doesn't necessarily mean you really like it.

But everyone may have gone through such a stage and thought they liked it very much.

As a result, many years later, those favorites have been sealed in memories.