Everyone has different pursuits. For example, the older generation has developed a character of hard work and thrift since they were young. They are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives, but in their own eyes, Come, they are very happy, because they regard this virtue of diligence and thrift as a kind of glory, so we cannot look at other people's life pursuits with our own ideas. We must learn to respect others, as long as we feel happy, Don't judge other people's actions arbitrarily.

?Each of us is an individual, so we all have our own opinions when it comes to needs, personality, and other aspects.

Although many people have certain requirements for eating and drinking, in the eyes of some people, they do not think this is a sign of happiness, and they will also live a very happy life, because the definition of happiness is very broad. , each of us will have different ideas, so as long as we think we are happy, it is fine. All I can say is that it depends on the situation and what makes them reluctant to eat or drink.

If it is because you really have no money, no ability, and the conditions do not allow you to eat and drink, then I think you will definitely not be happy. People in this life are not just for getting, but also for something. Enjoy it, otherwise it will really be very tiring;

There is also a group of people who have the conditions to eat and drink but are reluctant to do so. The fundamental reason is because of saving and considering their children. They are essentially happy. , not caring about material enjoyment, but more about spiritual happiness! Maybe it will. Happiness comes not only from food and clothing, but also from family and love.

Don’t worry about living frugally throughout your life, but who can guarantee that your children will treat them badly? Maybe when they get older, they will be filial to them and let them enjoy their old age in peace? Wouldn’t you be very happy then?