Yuanyuan had some fresh feelings when she first went to school, but after a long time, she gradually refused to go to school, and her mother was very anxious about it. As it happens, when I met Mei Jia's mother, I started talking. Mei Jia's mother said, "First ask Xie Yuan why he doesn't want to go to school." Yuan Yuan's mother said, "I know. First, she is still attached to life in the garden and not used to primary school life. Second, she encountered difficulties at school, and the teacher left too much homework, which made her feel scared. " Mei Jia's mother said, "When you know the reason immediately, you should come up with a targeted solution. The key is to cultivate the garden. First of all, let the children taste the fun. Moreover, we must cultivate children's self-confidence. " After listening to Mei Jia's mother's words, Yuanyuan's mother really thought of many ways, such as showing Yuanyuan the texts she had learned, then praising and encouraging them to improve her garden, and taking Yuanyuan to the park on holidays to make her feel comfortable and not feel too stressed. & gt Sometimes, when the results of the unit test in the garden are not satisfactory, the mother does not scold, but helps her analyze the reasons from the child's point of view, encourages the child to bravely overcome difficulties, and makes the garden establish confidence and determination to do well. After a period of hard work, the garden began to feel right and its academic performance was greatly improved. & gt& gt