Recently, I watch dramas every day and watch them with gusto. A classmate of a university professor helplessly said to his wife who was watching "The Legend of Miyue", "Can't you watch something nutritious?" I also follow "The Legend of Mi Yue". I watched it before and admired Mi Yue. She has the charm of a little girl and the feelings of a man. She is a wonderful woman. I re-read it recently and got new feelings.

In fact, "The Legend of Miyue" is very "nutritious" for topics that I care about, such as parenting and food. Peach blossom soup, rock sugar, snow pear porridge, lily and white fungus soup, the king, queen, eighth son, and doctor in the play talked about it endlessly, as if they were watching a health program. Don’t we also have the same meal as the king?

Another highlight of "The Legend of Miyue" is parenting. Your Majesty’s country and country are determined by the quality of his descendants. Isn’t it the same for ordinary people like us? After all the hard work, who doesn’t want their children to have a bright future?

For a long time, there have been different opinions on the heavy topic of education. I have summarized the general principles for successful child rearing: being a good person is the most basic condition for an adult. 2. Do good deeds and do things that are meaningful to the world. Third, have goals, focus on what you do, and don’t give up until you reach your goals. Fourth, you have skills and ways to do things well, and you must have various intelligences and abilities.

But it’s not easy to actually operate it!

In the real world, what should you do if you are a good person and encounter a bad person? How to deal with blackmail when doing good deeds? The most difficult thing is the goal. There are many things that many people have never understood in their entire lives. How to teach them to children? As for skills, there are so many people teaching them, and they are all available in books and online, but I don’t know what to follow.

Mi Yue has some words for Ji'er: do it according to your heart. After all, let it go. Don't limit your children with your own opinions. This is what Mi Yue did, and Mi Yue's mother also practiced this on her. But the prerequisite for this is: don’t have too high expectations for your children. If your expectations are high, you won't be able to let them go. The queen hoped that the prodigal son would be favored and ascend to the throne of the prince as soon as possible. She looked forward and backward, overthinking, and the child did not know what to do, which was self-defeating.