What to talk about when eating with girls

What to talk about when eating with girls. Many boys have the courage to ask girls out for dinner, but they feel that they can't find a topic, which makes the scene very embarrassing. Let's share with the boys what to eat and talk about with girls, hoping to help everyone. What to talk about when having dinner with girls 1

1. Places of interest

What places of interest have you been to before? She is happy to answer this question and will not be wary. In order to make her talk, please ask her to introduce you again. As long as you are a loyal listener, she will soon have a good impression on you. At this time, you can take the initiative and ask her where else she wants to go. If she says that so-and-so has always wanted to go, your chance will come.

2, surrounding food

I believe that most people are foodies, and they have no resistance to eating this thing at all. Two people who meet for the first time can talk about the surrounding food, and the topic is relaxed and simple, which is easy to narrow the distance between them. If you can find food that interests each other, it will make you talk endlessly.

3. Hobbies

Like collecting stamps. Singing or dancing? Do you like sports? What music do you like to listen to? You have to ask these questions, otherwise how can you know her hobbies? And she also wants to show herself, why not do it?

4. childhood ideals

Let's talk about childhood ideals. This is a very interesting topic, which is both relaxing and enjoyable, and can enhance feelings. However, don't hold on to the conversation. Let her talk. The happier she speaks, the more you will have a chance.

5. Talk about interesting things you have experienced

Both boys and girls like interesting people and listen to something new. No one wants to be with a sad person all day long for something he has never experienced. Therefore, when chatting with a girl, you should intentionally tell her some interesting things you have experienced in order to attract her attention. But you can't just talk on your own, you should also give the woman a chance to speak, so that she feels that she is equal to you, so that she will be more willing to chat with you. What to talk about when having dinner with a girl? 2

Question fragment:

Recently, I met a girl who really wanted to socialize. We are colleagues, but we just couldn't find anything to talk about with her. I finally got her WeChat, and I added her friend, but she didn't refuse. However, WeChat can't talk to her. I think I'm usually talkative, and my friends think I'm easy to get along with, but I have nothing to say with her once. Is there any way?

Help suggestion:

When chatting with girls I don't know very well, there are two things I suggest you never do: one is interrogation, and the other is joking.

Some boys find that girls are cold and will keep trying to throw questions. Then I slowly found out how I changed from a state of "I can't talk to the other party" to a state of "the other party no longer replies to the information". If you continue to work hard, you may eventually become "completely blocked by the other party." Other boys will think that the other party is unresponsive, so they should just say something light and funny. If you are good at making jokes, then this is no problem. However, many people are not good at joking, and they will eventually annoy each other unconsciously.

In fact, it's probably time for you to admit the truth: when you can't find a topic no matter how hard you try, or say a few words, the other person becomes silent, which is actually a sign that the woman is not interested in you. Of course, you can always change the topic, of course, you can always beat about the bush to understand her interests and people, and then try to find out the topic she is interested in. With such efforts, there may be several topics that can attract the attention of the other party. But this attention is probably not too long, and the two will return to a state of silence in a moment. In a word, she is just not interested in you.

There are no people in this world who can't talk, only people who don't want to talk.

If a girl is not interested in me, no matter how to find a topic, the other person may be cold. Even if you want to call or wechat, the information you come back is likely to be much said by yourself, but the other party only answers one or two sentences occasionally. Otherwise, it's just a few words, and the other party will say that they are going to take a shower or go to bed. But on the other hand, if girls are interested in themselves. Even if I finish the topic, when I'm embarrassed and don't know what to do, the other party will think of a bunch of things to talk about. And she will be curious about me, want to know everything and be willing to tell me everything. It will even become that she has more questions and I have fewer questions. Therefore, whether there will be an ice-breaker or not has nothing to do with whether I can chat or not.

as for not joking around, it's also very important. Many boys say that girls don't laugh and ignore themselves, so should I make a joke and say something humorous? My own experience is that humor is sometimes a gift. Some people can make plain things funny and attractive. Congratulations, please make good use of this talent! But people who don't, if they pretend to be humorous, may be even less funny, or even make a thing more boring or even vulgar. If a girl has no response to herself and makes jokes, it is usually a big deduction. So please be careful about your ability to tell jokes, and be more careful about the scale of your jokes. So please be careful not to make these two mistakes. But not making mistakes is not enough to change this situation.

How can we completely solve the problem that we can't talk about

My suggestion is to try these points (in no order, you can choose any execution): cultivate the ability to talk about life topics. The other person is not interested in himself. The first thing to think about is of course whether I am really not good at chatting. If the topics are boring? Or just say hello to each other? Or talk about topics that girls are not interested in (such as your work, games, animation, etc.)? If so, then at least cultivate topics that ordinary girls will be interested in, such as movies, restaurants, film and television news, celebrity trends, idol dramas, new novels, etc., at least those popular topics should be known a little. If you are good at all these things, and the other person still doesn't talk to you, then at least you can be sure that it's not the topic, but that the woman is not interested in herself.

the other party doesn't want to be involved with us, and the key is often that they have their own shortcomings (we don't have the value that the other party craves). So please don't blame the woman for ignoring others, think about how you can improve first (of course, I have to admit that some values can be strengthened, and some are really helpless). But at least we should find ways to make some changes in our external and internal conditions, and strive to enhance our connotation and value. Of course, it takes time to accumulate. In the long run, we should strive to cultivate broader appreciation, know more people, improve our socio-economic status, and make ourselves more ambitious and open-minded. This is actually helpful for chasing girls or improving social value in the future.

How to judge the enthusiasm of girls chatting with themselves

The performance of wanting to chat with you

Long-term eye contact

Research shows that eye contact has great power, which can make two people close and trigger people's feelings about love-that's why people use intentional eye contact as a way of invitation. If you want to know if the other person wants to continue chatting with you, look into her eyes. If she also makes eye contact with you from time to time, or her eyes look around and look at you from time to time, and she is smiling, it means that she is very interested in the conversation between you.

small moves

both men and women will unconsciously make subtle adjustments to their body language in front of the people they are interested in. The most common action of women is the gesture of "fanning the wind", playing with hair and clothes from time to time: grabbing a handful of hair and playing around your fingers, or constantly sweeping your cheeks with a handful of hair, or rubbing your wrist and pinching your neck. If she is interested in you, her' sitting posture will also be inclined to your side.

She will create conditions for the chat to continue

If a girl really wants to chat with you, she will constantly extend from the old topic to the new one, and actively seek the common interests between you, and if possible, she will also take the initiative to invite you. At the same time, you will also reduce the sense of distance between each other, and this pleasure is shared by both sides.

reluctance to continue chatting

When chatting face-to-face, when you ask a question, she will reply, cherishing words like gold

She will have nothing to say to you, only simple answers like "hmm", "yes" and "right". Or, you want to start a chat with a chat. You say "It's so hot today" and she says "Yes, it's very hot." ..... There is no doubt that these short answers are the terminators of the topic, and such a chat is not pleasant.

If Sister Paper doesn't want to chat with you, her eyes and actions will be impatient.

In her eyes, she suddenly stops looking at your eyes, but looks at the floor, looks around, looks at her watch, brushes her mobile phone, or starts to be in a daze ...

In her actions, she will stand or sit still and listen to you. Or tighten and shrug your shoulders; Or cross your hands on your chest (I will see what you do); Or touch your neck, touch your collar, and buckle your nails; Or seem to be very upset, painting on paper; Or she will turn around and stop looking at you, or slowly away from you; Or, start yawning because your topic can't interest her.

Listen to the other person's tone of voice

If she shows a tired and weak appearance, her tone is lazy, her speech speed is slow and she looks boring, nine times out of ten she is no longer interested in the chat content; In other words, your words made her unhappy, and she was suppressing her anger and trying to keep smiling; If a talkative girl suddenly doesn't want to chat with you, she will question and refute everything you say until you find it boring.