Let's see. Of course, it's a few girlfriends who are holding a group to support the elderly.
I saw a movie called Sunshine Sisters Amoy before, and there was an impressive sentence in it: "There are some people who walked barefoot in your life, smiling, neither short nor long. But it is enough for you to experience happiness, appreciate pain and recall your life. "
They are not your lovers, but they know you better than lovers. They are not family, but sometimes they can give you more warmth than family. They are friends.
I wonder if you have ever thought about where you want to be when you get old? I've never thought about this problem carefully before, and I always feel that it's just like most people, one house, two people, four seasons. If I'm lucky, maybe I'll get a cat and a dog, and the children will go home occasionally and have dinner together. Some people say, I hope you can have someone to eat, drink and have fun with when you are old. What is the most desirable old-age life? It's just that someone is with you, playing cards and chatting. Let's dance or have a tea party in the evening. If the weather is fine, go out and take some beautiful photos together.
It was not until I saw a period of "Home for the Aged for Five Single Sisters" broadcast by Dreamweaver some time ago that this was my dream retirement life! !
The story begins with five sisters. These five sisters are all from Sichuan, and their average age is about 55 years old. They all have one thing in common-single.
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The first two members of the girlfriends group, Sister Cai and Sister Hu, met in 1996. A year later, they met Sister Ji, and the "iron triangle" friendship began. Although they were not family members, they were as close as family. If you have nothing to do, let's get together and travel together. Life is very comfortable. So in 217, three people together, since they are all single, it is better to live together. But when making a decision, they found a problem-three people are too few! Because all three aunts are Sichuanese, they all like to play mahjong, and three people living together can't make up a table of mahjong. How boring it is. So they decided to "bring people in" halfway. In this way, Sister Li and Sister Song joined the "girlfriends group". Coincidentally, the two sisters are also single, so everyone's ideas and life concepts are very similar. It didn't take long for five people to become good friends, and they all said that they were "like-minded". This sentence still makes sense now.
"Since we want to provide for the aged, we must find a place with beautiful scenery and fresh air. Stay away from cities, tall buildings, smog and exhaust. So in order to find the best place, five people will drive out and step on it if they have nothing to do. As early as 217, they almost traveled all over Sichuan.
When passing by a place called Songpan County, several aunts were moved. It's far away from the hustle and bustle, beautiful scenery, grasslands, snow-capped mountains, lakes ... you can think of all the scenery here. Living here, you can see the vast grassland and blue sky when you open the window in the morning, and it's good to ride a horse and walk around. The residents here are simple, kind and enthusiastic, and they will have a sense of belonging here. However, there are still many problems when the United States returns to the United States and really wants to live. Because it is too far away from the hubbub, many infrastructures here are not perfect enough. Not only is there no supermarket canteen, but even health centers are far away. Life, in addition to poetry and painting, still needs daily necessities, so they set out in full gear and planned to visit further places.
They drove from Sichuan to Yunnan, and finally, they came to Lijiang.
Lijiang is a place that everyone is familiar with. Here, "every family has water and every family has flowers", which is a paradise that many people yearn for. Every family has water, flowers, antique buildings and modern living conditions. Everyone wants to live in such a comfortable life, so in the end, after careful consideration, everyone decided to set the old-age place in Lijiang.
after choosing the address, they began to look for their favorite house. There are many courtyards in Lijiang, and they chose this house in a thousand ways. The difference is not bad: it is located on a half slope with a large space of 52㎡, with a wide view and a panoramic view of the ancient city. But to say yes, it is also quite bad: it is old, broken and rotten.
However, the aunts still had a bright future, so they gritted their teeth and bought it and asked someone to rebuild the base house. However, this rough house, no matter how you look at it, feels like a farmhouse or a factory building, which is always far from your home, so several people decided to completely transform the yard after discussion. Although five people have the same personality, everyone has their own ideas about where to live, so they found the program to seek the help of the designer.
""I don't want to walk, so the elevator is necessary "
" It would be better if I had a private kitchenette "
" It's best for each room to have a style, so everyone can take turns living "
" I am allergic to ultraviolet rays, and the room should be sunny but not too fierce "
" I want a bigger cloakroom and a gym to play ".
Generally speaking, this house needs a lot of effort in both the general structure and the detailed design. Here is the moment to witness the miracle-
The first entrance is a big yard. Is the dream yard, the yard is full of flowers and plants, there is a veranda, full of dreams, the afternoon sun is particularly warm, basking in the sun, chatting and tasting tea here are excellent, if it rains, it doesn't matter if you can't go out. In the corner of the room, there is such a tea room. "When I am free, I sit under the eaves and hear the rain hitting the window."
The overall color of the room is mainly warm, giving people a warm feeling of home. The large French window in the living room allows people to enjoy the scenery outside the window at any time.
a simple and bright restaurant, you will feel happy if you have breakfast here.
There is also a large open kitchen, which is enough for my sisters to cook here. The integrated cabinet in the kitchen also hides a huge storage space.
There is a partition between the dining room and the living room with a fireplace: in winter, we surround the fireplace, bake a fire, hum songs, and live a fairy life.
Next is my sisters' bedroom. The bedroom on the first floor is connected with the courtyard, so the scenery is very good.
every window in the room on the second floor is a scene, and the trees, sunshine and good scenery outside the window are all brought into the room.
There are two rooms connected by a balcony. Standing on the balcony, you can reach out and see the green leaves and the breeze. The so-called "years are quiet" is like this.
There is also a small retreat garden on the second floor, which is small in area, but full of happiness. It is excellent to care for flowers or stay in a daze. Isn't it happy to find a favorite city and hold a small courtyard together with three or five friends?
In fact, "group support for the aged by girlfriends" is nothing new. Whether at home or abroad, there are many such stories. The five older sisters, who are over 5 years old, have no fear of birth, illness, death, or short-term difficulties in their parents, and some are just laughing and laughing.
In fact, their lives are not smooth sailing: their families don't understand not being married; The cold shoulder suffered when divorced; It's hard to raise children alone ... but it's here, at this moment, that they decide to leave everything behind and live for themselves.
compared with them, we are more tired now in the city. In fact, I envy them very much. They have a rich spiritual world and can do what they want smartly. Although we can't choose the way to be born, we can choose the way to grow old. Work hard, be confident and calm, be nourished by life, be surrounded by love, do what you like and live the life you want. This is happiness.