Xiao Jing should have married a woman by now, but the wedding was not held as scheduled because of the pranks and jokes he and his family played on the wedding day. Afterwards, the man decisively chose to break off the marriage. But at that time, Xiao Jing didn't think it was her fault, because she felt that this man was not generous enough, didn't know humor, and couldn't stand jokes. It was not until some time later that Xiao Jing recalled her behavior at that time and felt that what she and her family had done was really inappropriate.
Because of family reasons, Xiao Jing dropped out of school very early, and later went to work in the city with her relatives. In those years of working, Xiao Jing also talked about her boyfriend. At that time, their relationship was very strong, but Xiao Jing's parents disagreed. To this end, Xiao Jing openly took her boyfriend home to let her neighbors know that they were in love, so her parents had to agree. Just when the parents were forced to agree, the man began to hesitate and the relationship between the two began to have problems. Finally, it broke up in discord.
Xiao Jing went back to her hometown after breaking up with her boyfriend. After this incident, Xiao Jing is also willing to listen to her parents and have an honest blind date at home. But because of what happened before, no one asked Xiao Jing to propose. A few years later, Xiao Jing became an "old girl" in the eyes of others. Later, under the introduction of distant relatives, Xiao Jing's marriage was settled, and the man's family was not bad, but the boy's personality was a bit strange and moody.
Xiao Jing got to know each other through the matchmaker. Two people just go through the motions, and the decision is made by both parents. A few days later, the matchmaker took the man over and paid the bride price, so the marriage was settled. Xiaojing's parents wanted their daughter to get married soon, so they didn't take the bride price seriously. Under the lobbying of the matchmaker, the bride price was set at 80 thousand, and the three gold were counted separately. After the wedding date was fixed, the two sides began to prepare for the wedding.
In the blink of an eye, the wedding day arrived. Because the two families were far away, the man's wedding procession arrived at the bride's house early, and the bride sat in the boudoir step by step and finally waited until the man got on the bus. At this time, the groom walked to the bride's boudoir surrounded by the best man.
Hardly had I reached the door when my family stopped me. The groom knows in his heart that they have come to ask for a red envelope. The groom handed the prepared red envelope, but the bride's family still didn't leave. At this moment, the bride's voice came from inside: "We have a custom here. The groom must drill his crotch before marrying the bride. The groom drills his crotch to show his obedience to the bride. "
Hearing this, the groom's face was a little unhappy. He patiently explained: "drilling the crotch is a bit too much. Today is a big day. How can you do such a shameful thing? " In this way, the man refused the unreasonable request of the woman. At this time, I heard the bride's voice again, and her voice was obviously angry. The bride said, "If you don't drill your hips, I won't marry, and I will come as promised."
When this was said, the man's temper also came up. He immediately replied, "You don't have to threaten me like this. I will never drill my crotch. " The two sides were deadlocked for about half an hour, and the groom was impatient for a long time. He immediately called the wedding procession back and shouted at the bride's door: "You don't have to come out, I won't marry, and I'll break off my marriage another day."
After listening to Xiao Jing's story, Uncle Qiang immediately told Xiao Jing that it was her fault. Not to mention whether "hip drilling" is a local custom, but as far as this action is concerned, it is a great insult and a sign of disrespect for people. On the wedding day, this wonderful request is estimated to be placed on anyone, and it will also be this reaction.
Marriage is something to celebrate, and there are some ways to celebrate it in many places. Some people say that the more violent the wedding, the deeper the feelings of the bride and groom. However, countless facts have proved that unrestrained "marriage" will only make the wedding deadlocked or even impossible. Therefore, Uncle Qiang advises everyone here that when joking or playing practical jokes at the wedding, you must know how to be moderate and never hurt others' self-esteem. No matter what kind of jokes, they should be based on respect, especially marriage, otherwise we will repeat the mistakes of Xiaojing.