Recently, Cecilia Han's "director incident" caused a heated discussion on the Internet, and articles from various media platforms and public websites flocked to her ... During this period, I saw a very good article, analyzing that she was "the pride of a gentleman".
Later, I saw such an accurate and ironic sentence in the comments: her low-key is to let everyone know that she is low-key
This sentence, but let me smile. ...
A long time ago, Cecilia Han was once a female star I admired. At that time, a long hair, singing "Snowflake", like a pure and sweet girl, was the "goddess" in the hearts of many otaku women. Since her debut, she has not had a scandal or kissed, which seems to have deepened people's good impression of her low-key and "getting out of the mud without dyeing".
However, in recent years, she has frequently appeared in various reality shows, trying her best to express herself and show her talents: showing grandpa, dubbing, acting, English and technology, and now showing her directing skills ... She deliberately twisted the "low-key" persona she painstakingly built into a "high-key" persona to show off, which ruined my good impression of her and her accumulation over the years.
I don't know where I read a sentence to the effect that really beautiful women don't take part in beauty contests, and truly talented people don't show off themselves.
Of course, a person who really wants to keep a low profile will not preach the low profile of Ta everywhere.
Perhaps, the more you lack, the more you want to show off.
As Yi Shu said, "A lady with real temperament never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell others what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no inferiority complex. "
Since the establishment of WeChat circle of friends, almost everyone of us has lived in a circle of friends. Every day, people punch in to study and set up "Xueba"; Some people bask in Hanfu, delicious food and luxury cars, and establish a "superior" person; Some people enjoy babies, husbands and mansions and build a "happy" person. ...
There is always such a person in life who wants the whole world to know what he has. In the circle of friends and daily life, there are many such people who show off that they can own brand-name bags, how much their lovers love themselves, how excellent and talented their children are, and do everything possible to let you know what he has. ...
In fact, on the psychological level, a person will show what he lacks.
Freud's psychological defense theory, called complementary projection, is to fantasize that you have characteristics that you don't have, so as to relieve self-tension and fight against inferiority.
There is a kind of exquisiteness, living in a circle of friends or online. They get satisfaction by showing off and think that they are "rich and have face". This is what many people say, "The more a person shows off, the more he lacks." .
20 13 I entered wechat, and I have my own circle of friends. Looking through my circle of friends, it is really less recorded and published every year. Today, my circle of friends is a horizontal bar. Although there is nothing in it, my life is full and I don't need to share it with others. My heart is full and I don't need to talk to others.
In my opinion, I am rich in heart, stable in this world and determined to be calm. I don't need to make friends anymore. I rely on my so-called "superiority" to win people's favor and admiration. I don't need to satisfy my vanity through friends' praise and comments.
Because I don't envy other people's lives, let alone their recognition and praise, I just want to live my own life and "enjoy myself", and I don't need to win the virtual prosperity brought by "all fun".
Those who are really low-key, like legends, never leave any trace. Just like Ke Li, the author of Du Lala's Promotion, in those years when she became popular, there was not even a photo of her on the Internet, and she only accepted an email interview from a reporter.
People are born human, don't be arrogant, let alone sell yourself short, work hard silently and move forward with tenacity. I think this is the true nature of low-key.