1. generally cast a net, focus on training, associate with multiple boyfriends at the same time, choose the best among them, and find the one that suits you best. Miss Du is 26 years old. She was born in the countryside, and her family is not very good, but she is very beautiful. She hopes to change the status quo and live a good life through "marrying well", so all her boyfriends have good conditions. At one time, she had three boyfriends at the same time. She arranged her time reasonably to avoid these men meeting. She was a very good "master of time management". Boyfriend A is the owner of a musical instrument store. He often takes Miss Du to high-end places, eats all kinds of delicious food and buys all kinds of high-end cosmetics. He meets her material needs. Boyfriend B is a handsome boy. He is handsome and handsome, and he looks like the star Hugh. Together, they are like a pair of golden couple, who satisfied her great vanity. Boyfriend C is a poet. He is full of emotion, sentimental and romantic. He often writes her love poems and shows her the stars and the moon. When she is with him, Miss Du feels unprecedented happiness. After all, paper can't contain fire. Even if Miss Du is careful, things will come to light. On that day, her boyfriend C bumped into Miss Du and her boyfriend A shopping. He was very excited and made a scene. The influence of this incident was very bad. In the end, Miss Du lost three boyfriends at the same time. Miss Du's desire to find a suitable partner as soon as possible is understandable, but the way she takes is very undesirable. She "cast a net in general, focusing on training", hoping to choose the best among the best and find the one that suits her best, only to find a dead duck and draw water with a sieve. 2. Cheat to eat, drink or even cheat money, in this way to meet their own material needs and get economic benefits. Miss Cui is 23 years old. She used to work in a factory, worked as a shopping guide in a shopping mall for a while, and worked as a sales girl. She felt that her work was too hard and her income was small. Later, she started to use her brains. She makes friends through social software, and she cheats on food, drink and even money under the guise of falling in love. This trick has been tried and tested. A few months ago, she met Mr. Zhao, and they talked for more than half a month. Miss Cui came to him on her own initiative. She offered to live at Mr. Zhao's house, but Mr. Zhao didn't understand, and he agreed in a daze. Since living in Mr. Zhao's house, Miss Cui has done nothing. She eats Mr. Zhao's food and drinks Mr. Zhao's, and asks Mr. Zhao to buy her a mobile phone, clothes and bags at intervals. In more than two months, Mr. Zhao spent more than 2, yuan on her. At the same time, Miss Cui was not idle, and she became intimate with several other men. She made up all kinds of lies to cheat them and asked them to give her a red envelope. Miss Cui's trick was finally discovered by Mr. Zhao. Miss Cui was taking a bath that day, and her mobile phone lit up. When Mr. Zhao turned it on, he found that a man had sent her a birthday red envelope from 52 yuan. Mr. Zhao was furious. He had just given Miss Cui a birthday a few days ago, and he also bought her a set of cosmetics for 85 yuan. He looked through Miss Cui's chat records, and as a result, he found that Miss Cui was in contact with three other men at the same time, which made him unacceptable. Later, Miss Cui voluntarily returned some money, and she moved out of Mr. Zhao's house. Since then, the two have parted ways. Miss Cui is an "emotional liar". Instead of earning money by her own hands to support herself, she is attached to a man and achieves the purpose of satisfying her material needs by cheating men's feelings. Her practice is not flattering. 3. Solve loneliness, find excitement and feel different love experiences. Miss Li is lively, cheerful, sweet-looking and slim. She is a lovely beauty. He met Mr. Chen half a year ago, and they lived together after two months of dating. Mr. Chen is an IT man. He earns a lot of money and often buys various gifts for Miss Li to make her happy. However, he is very busy at work, and overtime is common. Usually, he has little time to spend with Miss Li. Therefore, Miss Li spends most of her spare time alone. At first, she watched TV, followed the drama and brushed her mobile phone. After a long time, it would always be annoying. Later, she got mixed up with several little sisters. They watched movies, went shopping and shopped together. Soon, the little sisters all had boyfriends, and she became bored again. Some time ago, she began to visit bars frequently. She felt that noisy music and lively atmosphere could relieve her loneliness and kill boring time. That day, she was drinking alone in the bar, and a man named A Qiang took the initiative to strike up a conversation. A Qiang was very talkative, and they became familiar with each other in the long run. A Qiang has opened a garage nearby. Speaking of it, he is a small boss. When he was young, he had been to many places and seen a lot of the world. He told his story about Hu Kan, and Miss Li admired him very much. After that, they often dated, and A Qiang took her to play around. They had fun and talked about everything, and their relationship quickly warmed up. Miss Li obviously has a boyfriend, Mr. Chen, and she is ambiguous with A Qiang. Mr. Chen can meet her material needs, but he has no time to accompany her. In order to relieve loneliness and seek excitement, she contacts A Qiang again. She hides the truth from these two men, and she feels different love experiences from these two men. Miss Li's practice looks very clever, but it is very dangerous for her to do so. Once she is found to be easy to get into trouble, it is very necessary to get rid of this ambiguous relationship as soon as possible. With the development of the times, people's ideas are changing, and many young people have some misunderstandings and deviations in their feelings. It is a very serious problem for girls to associate with several boyfriends at the same time. We have always stressed that we should be single-minded and serious about our feelings, which is related to the happiness of our future life and the happiness of our marriage. At the same time, the behavior of dating multiple boyfriends deviates from the original intention of love, and it is also an act of playing with fire. If we are not careful, it will lead to fire, which is very undesirable. Girlfriends associate with multiple men at the same time. 2. Enjoy the excitement. Some women associate with multiple men just to enjoy the feeling of excitement. One-on-one love may be boring for her. At the same time, when you associate with multiple men, you can appreciate different loves. At this time, you can't be sure who a woman really loves, and maybe she doesn't love anyone. I just want to enjoy this process, and the hidden relationship can also reflect her true psychology. Once a woman has this kind of behavior, it is difficult to let go, which is not only exciting but also fresh, which will stimulate women's desire to conquer men, so if a man finds something wrong with his girlfriend, he must find out what is going on. 2, like ambiguous women sometimes like to engage in ambiguity with the opposite sex, maybe there is no definite relationship between two people, but ambiguity is constant. When a woman has an ambiguous relationship with multiple men, it means that she has entered the ranks of playboys. Such a woman has no sincerity, and she is addicted to this ambiguous relationship, and she does not cater to or refuse. At this time, men often have a sense of conquest for women, so women who like ambiguity are undoubtedly playing with fire. 3. Some women have a strong vanity. She likes all good things, but a man can't satisfy her vanity, so she will come up with a way to associate with multiple boyfriends at the same time. Such a woman is also called a gold digger. She values money more than feelings, so some women stay with you for money. Besides you, she has many "boyfriends", all of whom are born to satisfy her vanity. Girlfriends associate with multiple men at the same time. 3 I. Id-Explain that I hope that the so-called ID is the original self, which means that I am short and long. It is the performance demand caused by human beings in the process of permanent livelihood evolution. This includes the hope of livelihood and the hope of body feeling. A very simple example is that when we are hungry, we want to eat equipment, and when we have hope, we want to explore friends. The most important thing to develop the id is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and to release my own hopes. It follows the principle of real-time eating, drinking and enjoying. In traditional society, women's position is relatively low. It is impossible to hold tasks during pregnancy and breastfeeding, so we have to rely on men. According to the above criteria, they are expected to have more men to support them. This is enough to introduce that women's demand for materials and men is remarkable and has existed since traditional society. The reason why some women seek multiple friends is a pattern of "ID" demand. They enjoy high salaries, and they are considerate and provide more money and materials, which are in line with their original strengths. Two superego-moral constraints human beings have evolved into a gregarious animal, which is also our very basic livelihood needs. When it comes to gregarious living, there will be gregarious living, that is, the social system created now. People's actions will be influenced by this situation, and at the same time they are bound by the law of gregarious living. The beneficial laws about this social situation have been preserved. Although women are eager to get more men to supply materials under the urging of the id, because of the influence of the current situation, men do not allow the rest of them to enjoy friends with themselves. This will make women's hopes go up in smoke, but it will not affect their performance needs. Now social laws and moral constraints are gradually caused, which is also the standard recognized by human groups. People obey these rules, which leads to the "superego" in their understanding. Social laws and moral demands in different periods are different, for example, in the old society, men were able to have multiple friends, but with the development of society, this situation was not allowed. However, since ancient times, women can't have multiple friends, so many women have a jealous physiology, which probably becomes women's pursuit of "superego". Now, "loyalty between couples" has become a kind of moral pursuit, which is also the expression of our "superego" understanding. Third, the self-the check and balance between the id and the superego. After reading what I said above, I believe that my friends have seen that the former is to release our hopes, and then the latter is to restrain our hopes. Under these two checks and balances, the "self" is produced. That is to say, our usual actions are the result of the checks and balances between "ID" and "superego", which is the "ego" that follows the actual norms. Back to the actual existence, so every one-sided action is different, which is the result of the struggle between "superego" and "id" Some actions will be directed at the id, while others will be directed at the superego. When the "id" strength has the advantage, it will be more concerned about the one-sided demand. If the strength of "superego" has an advantage, it will be interpreted as obedience, and the moral character is also very noble. These actions are also manifested in love. There are countless "superego" people who are dedicated and serious, and they are relatively strong. They are more able to restrain themselves and will not do work that violates morality. If the "ID" is stronger, these people will be relatively selfish and philandering. They pay more attention to their feelings in their subconscious and rarely consider the rest. If a girl has two or more boyfriends at the same time, they tend to pay more attention to their own needs. The request for social laws and morality is not addressed. In their understanding, "ID" is far stronger than "superego". Conclusion: As a whole, "ID" and "superego" exist continuously, and they are bound to each other, and neither side will dissipate. People's actions are the consequences of their actions, and women who seek multiple friends are mostly "id" surpassing "superego", thus causing such physiological needs.