1October 25th is my birthday. The preset scene is that I have lunch with my family. At dinner, my husband and I sat in a western restaurant, enjoying the romance of the waiter from appetizer-red soup-side dish-main course-side dish-dessert. My husband and I waved red wine at each other and said it was nice to meet you! (This is not the plot of an idol drama. 1 It's because I think life needs a sense of ceremony, and 2) I have never had a good birthday. )

Second, the conflict:

The reality is that I am very anxious. The reason for my anxiety is that in the leap of my career, I have been wandering repeatedly between pride and depression. This special day was not accompanied by delicious food, flowers and the excitement of my best friend. Instead, relying on the annual planning report and a smiling face, I silently called my husband's first accurate consultation online. Even though my mother cooked a table of delicious food, my husband always comforted me. My fighting spirit made me realize that only change can let go of my pride and fear, so I went out.

Three. Action:

After lunch, my husband and I took a break and went to the first gathering of the "Distinguishing Changsha" family. I heard Julia's voice in the parking lot and immediately thought I was in the right place. What a warm and powerful staff, I entered the pumpkin on the second floor and stood at the door waiting for us. When I arrived at the classroom, Julia gave me a big hug. Next, I met my best friends Xia Hong, Niannian, Cathy, Dai Yang, Chen Chen, Yus and Duan Qun. When I met you, I met beauty! Grateful for the encounter in life.

Fourth, the result:

Through the sharing of small cards, balance theory and career development, I examined my gains and feelings in June 1 1.

(1), made a decision: let me know clearly the most important thing at this stage;

(2), hone a kind of mind: from the length of life to see the status quo, everything is the best arrangement;

(3) Get some warmth: Some problems are common and there must be four solutions.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) enlightenment:

When we say hello, we often say health and happiness. In my opinion, this is simply the true meaning of life, although obviously, many times we turn a blind eye. What do I really want to reduce our happiness in pursuit of success? Maybe it's not clear enough now. I want to use two formulas to help me find the answer.

(A), happiness = ability-expectation

Insist on lifelong learning,

Professional line: through the clover model, we constantly iterate the curriculum system of internal trainers and chain store management, create our own excellent courses and projects, and enhance our influence.

Management line: the strategic and forward-looking requirement of integrating human resources and enhancing training value. Close to the business and enhance the influence of training.

Health = exercise+mentality+entertainment

Exercise: punch in at least four times a week at the gym and take three private classes.

Mentality: calm down and believe that you have the ability to get happiness. From the perspective of the whole life, everything is the best arrangement.

Entertainment: Learn flower arrangement cultivation and cultivate sentiment.

From the end, health and happiness are 1, otherwise they are all 0. Believe in beauty and embrace happiness.