I think colleagues can also become friends. The key is to meet the right people. In my work, I always meet people who have the same aura as me, although they may not all become that kind of people. They are very close friends, but it is still okay to become ordinary friends who can have dinner together. After all, work is not easy, and it is not bad to be able to complain together every day.

In fact, people are all mutual. Some people think that there may be competition among colleagues, and they may make small reports and so on. But if you regard work as just a job, there will be no relationship between people. The relationship between you and others is much simpler. If you are sincerely nice to others, the other person will also feel it. Therefore, being nice to others as much as possible in the workplace is also a good way to make friends. You should be sincere when dealing with colleagues at work.

Colleagues help each other and care about each other. When he needs your opinion, don’t blindly give him a high hat; when he encounters difficult problems, you should do your best to provide assistance, and It’s not about watching indifferently or even adding insult to injury; when he offends you unintentionally and forgets to apologize to you, you have to forgive him with the attitude of “the adults don’t care about the villain’s faults”.

Treating each other sincerely between colleagues can increase mutual trust. Emotional exchanges between people are mutually exclusive. Harmonious feelings are exchanges of experiences, sincerity and sincerity. Only when we meet each other sincerely can we be in harmony with each other. Sincerity is a truth. The natural emergence of the heart can directly move the other person, resonate and communicate with the other person's true inner emotions, and only then can we get along more harmoniously.

Let me give you my own example. When I first entered the workplace, I drank a lot of poisonous chicken soup. I always thought that the workplace was all about intrigues. It makes me walk on thin ice in interpersonal relationships in the workplace. This is the main reason why it is difficult for me to become friends with my colleagues, and it is also the true thinking of most people.

Although this way of living is very tiring, it is very safe for me. In this way, I walked a long way in the workplace, until one day, I met Xiao Mao. Xiaomao is one of my superiors. Once I had difficulties at work, he took the initiative to help me and wanted to be my friend. I thought he had other agendas. I was wary at first, but as time went by, I discovered He had no other intentions, he just thought he could talk to me. As time went by, I gradually let down my guard, and eventually we became friends who talked about everything.

More than ten years have passed, and now we are still good friends. Looking back on our friendship for more than ten years, I understand a truth. It’s not that colleagues can’t be friends, but that you don’t want colleagues to become friends. Your colleagues can be your best friends if you want to.

In the end, regardless of whether we can become friends with our colleagues, we must first do our best and make ourselves stronger first. Whether it is ability or understanding of this society, only when we become stronger can we get rid of work. Limit, when you have fewer rewards for your work requirements, the more you can make real friends among your colleagues.