Do you know whether the relationship between husband and wife is good or not depends on these points?

01 A good couple can chat together.

There is a hot search topic on Weibo: "A couple cannot speak more than 10 words a day. How do you live like this?" More than 90% of netizens' replies under the topic said: "It's unbearable." Indeed, marriage is about growing old together.

Living on the ground, without communication and communication, is like living alone in a silent world. The feeling of powerlessness is terrifying just thinking about it.

Fans, Sister Yang, confided in the backstage: After more than 10 years of marriage, they finally got divorced!

In recent years, every time she happily wanted to chat with her husband, he mostly didn’t respond to her words. He would either say “um” or “oh”, or he would focus on playing games.

Normally, apart from asking Sister Yang "what to eat today", my husband has basically nothing to say, let alone expressing his love to Sister Yang and asking her for her welfare.

Guzi said: "The mouth is the portal of the heart." Being silent to your lover means putting your lover outside the door of your heart.

How can an unmotivated couple survive in the long term? Therefore, when looking for a lover, you must find someone who can talk to you.

Father Zhou and Mother Zhou in the popular TV series "In the World" like to communicate and chat with each other very much. Especially after finishing the trivial work of the day, before going to bed at night, they have their own "night chat".

The couple talked about their respective lives and interesting things around them.

When it comes to the emotional point, Zhou’s father makes it difficult for Zhou’s mother, and he understands it deeply.

It would understandably say to Zhou's mother: "Thank you for your hard work." These simple homely words hide the couple's mutual care and thoughtfulness, which also created their long-lasting emotions.

Couples who can talk about anything together make their marriage less likely to be awkward.

Liu Tong once said: A comfortable relationship is when you talk about any topic and the other party can continue the conversation. It is not because the other party is knowledgeable and talented, but because the other party is interested.

I still pay attention to the content of your chat; the things you care about are also the things I value.

A loving couple means that I like to listen to everything you say and I am willing to talk about it. I am not afraid of hardship or annoyance.

02 A good couple can eat together.

Literary writer Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Emotions begin and fade away from the dinner table." If we can't even eat together, the marriage may be over.

Couples who are good at marriage management will integrate love and romance into three meals a day.

When Mr. Cai Lam was asked about the secret of love with his wife at the silver wedding anniversary party, he said: "The key to our being able to stay together all these years is to eat together." Cai Lam and his wife both

We love food and often go shopping together and cook at home together.

Cai Lan once said that once he leaves home, he can't help but think of his wife, especially the dishes she cooks.

Precisely because they could eat together, the two people fell in love for a lifetime.

In fact, being able to eat together refers not only to the meal, but also to the affection in each vegetable.

You serve me soup and I serve you vegetables.

You accommodate me and like to eat white flour, but I understand that you like to eat rice.

It doesn’t have to taste the same, but the heart is connected.

Mr. Lin Qingxuan once said: "Romance means spending time eating slowly, spending time drinking tea slowly, spending time walking slowly, and spending time staying together until old age." Spend time with the person who truly loves you.

Only by eating well with each other can you spend your days together.

Entertainment industry couple Huang Lei and Sun Li have also made dining the "most romantic thing" in their marriage.

Sun Li loves food. In order to make all kinds of delicious food for his wife, Huang Lei turned himself into "Chef Huang". Their married life has also become a good talk in the industry.

In fact, love and dining are the same. If you like a dish, you are willing to eat it for a lifetime; if you like a person, you are willing to stay with it for a lifetime.

A good relationship between husband and wife is rooted in oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and blooms in romance.

The loving couple, in this porridge and rice, their love lasts forever.