Nowadays, with the progress of society, women are becoming more and more independent. In many industries, women are as qualified as men for important positions. They are highly educated, self-reliant, and enterprising. But it is this kind of Many excellent women are emotionally unsatisfied. They always want to find a partner who has the same conditions as themselves and speaks the same language. However, they are accidentally left behind, and thus become what others call a "leftover woman" or a "leftover woman". Fighters left”. When a woman is over 27 years old and has not yet found her partner, gossip from people around her and pressure from her family will follow, and she needs to be mentally strong enough to face and endure it.

In fact, leftover women do not want to be left behind. In addition to having high vision, strong women, and bad luck, some women who become leftover women have been hurt by love and had an unforgettable love. That was the beginning of happiness, but it turned into a nightmare. From then on, I didn't dare to touch my feelings anymore, for fear of being hurt again. It’s not that this kind of leftover girl will never love again in this life. As long as there is someone who understands her and slowly unties her heart, she can completely start a new relationship. If you observe carefully, the person who finally gets married with the leftover girl is often her age. An older "uncle".

So what is the charm of "uncle"? Cause more and more women to fall in love with him? A 31-year-old "leftover woman" told us from her personal experience.

My name is Keiko, I am 31 years old and I am a primary school teacher. In the eyes of others, I am a combination of contradictions. On the one hand, I paint a warm picture of a world full of love to students, but on the other hand, I stubbornly believe that this world is full of love. There is no true love in the world, so even though all my friends around me are getting married and having children, I still remain single and vow to remain single to the end.

The reason why I don’t believe in love stems from my broken love. In my sophomore year, I met my ex-boyfriend Ajun at a dinner party. He was handsome, romantic, and would often put his arms around me in high-profile displays of affection on campus. At that time, I was very innocent and didn't care about material things at all. At that time, Ajun only had 600 yuan a month for living expenses. I was worried that he would not have enough to eat, so I often gave him my meal card. In the middle of winter, I saw him wearing only an autumn coat, so I knitted him a warm sweater. Except for classes, I stayed in the dormitory and worked hard. I tried my best to share the joys and sorrows with him, and even made plans to follow him back to his hometown after graduation.

We followed each other like shadows during those two years, and my classmates all envied me for finding true love. But as graduation approached, I waited for him to break up. He met a girl from a well-off family on the Internet. Together she can solve work problems. Arjun asked me to forgive him. In order to save a few years of hard work, he could only give up love. I couldn't believe that two years had passed in exchange for his heartless words. We originally loved each other so much, how could he treat me like this. From then on, I wrapped myself up in armor and never allowed the opposite sex to enter my heart. Even when my family urged me to get married, I refused to change my original intention.

I devote all my energy to teaching. The classes I have taught over the years are all top classes. Many parents thank me. When some people learned that I was single, they enthusiastically introduced me to a partner. He is a high-quality man with good overall conditions, but this is not my ambition, so I refuse them all. Apart from work, my biggest hobby is food. During the holidays, I stay at home and cook to reward my stomach. In my opinion, only food has warmth and can bring me a sense of security.

One rainy day, I went to visit a student’s home. I learned that his parents were divorced and he was living with his father, Akai. It was meal time, so I had a simple meal there. It was just ordinary vegetables, but I tasted something different. I found that the kitchen was fully equipped with cooking utensils. Akai must be a person who loves life. The rain was too heavy and he couldn't leave. We sat there and talked about some children's problems and exchanged some food experiences. It turned out that we had a great time chatting.

Akai is a very stable and self-disciplined man. He said that he has never found a suitable partner for remarriage, so he would rather be single than settle for another life, and he cannot bring harm to his children. After that, we kept in touch frequently, and I would also visit his home as a guest. Although neither of us said the word "like", we could feel it in each other's eyes, and we fell in love. Although I knew that he was divorced and had children, and he was 6 years older than me, I found in him that I still had the ability to love. I waited only for his appearance, and finally we came together.

Keiko’s experience is not unique. Many women don’t want to get married, but they just don’t feel safe in the men they come into contact with. The uncles have gone through vicissitudes of life and have rich experience in life and emotions. They can give women rational guidance like brothers. Moreover, the uncles are mature and stable, know how to cherish, are tolerant, and can arrange and take care of everything. When a woman is with him, It feels more relaxed. Once a woman develops trust in her uncle, it will soon turn into dependence. In fact, whether it is a leftover woman or an uncle, as long as they are in love and understand each other, then this kind of combination is the most suitable, and they can still reach the other side of happiness.