I believe we have all heard this saying, don’t do porcelain work without diamonds. In short, you should take on as much burden as you have the ability to do. Don't try to make yourself look fat, as this may lead to bitter consequences.

Actually, most people in reality like to make themselves look fat. In the final analysis, it is a matter of face. For example, there are people who are clearly not in contact with each other, but still call their friends and talk over drinks.

Some people may be confused. At this time, is survival or face more important? But for some men, face is a very important thing. They cannot lose it, let alone lose it and be stepped on the ground.

My cousin is a person who is obsessed with saving face and suffering, and he also likes to show off his face and pretend to be fat. I remember one year when I came home, he was driving a car and wearing a suit and leather shoes. It looked like he must have made a lot of money.

But the real situation is shocking. According to his cousin, he lost more than 300,000 yuan in business this year. He borrowed a car from a friend to support the occasion. Who told him to save face?

It would be fine if he directs and acts by himself. The key is to cooperate with him to perform. This is what makes people crazy and collapse. He told a lie and had to use more lies to cover it up. Sincerely Don't want this.

I especially understand my cousin. A man has good face and strong self-esteem. If he doesn’t want to be unable to hold his head up in front of others, he has no choice but to make a bloated face and pretend to be fat. He can only bear the pain in his heart by himself.

Actually, I have also committed this problem. I just got married at that time. In order to please my father-in-law and mother-in-law, I always pretended to be fat. Even though I didn’t have much spare money in my pocket, every time I went to visit, I would not do anything. If you dare to go empty-handed, you must prepare a "small gift".

At first, my wife didn’t say anything because she didn’t know yet, and she was very happy. She thought it was very heart-warming that I was filial to my parents. It was not until after the incident that she learned that I was pretending to be fat, and her face changed. She was very angry and blamed me for hiding it from her.

My wife, who has always disliked cheating, is serious about it this time. I can feel her anger. It won’t go away in a short time, nor can it be cured by just coaxing her.

She said to me with a look of disgust, "Husband, you look so ugly when you pretend to be fat!" If other people say that about me, and irrelevant people say that, I won't take it seriously, but I felt very uncomfortable when I heard my wife say this.

I thought she would understand me and feel sorry for me, but I didn’t expect that there was still a misunderstanding. I had no choice but to reply lightly, "As a man, I have a lot of helplessness."

Since then, I promised my wife that I would get rid of the habit of pretending to be fat, and I would never boast about anything I say, and be an honest person. Fortunately, I kept my word, otherwise my wife would have ignored me till now.

Afterwards, I chatted with a few friends, why do men like to smear their faces and pretend to be fat? The feeling is really hard to describe. All said and done, it was nothing more than a matter of face. We didn’t have enough money, so we had to make up for it with aura.

To be honest, I quite admire those who pretend to be rich even though they have no money. They must be very strong inside and have a strong psychological quality to be so calm and calm.

Although men are under great pressure and have a lot of helplessness, as a person who has experienced it, I do not advocate disguising oneself and pretending to be fat. This is a kind of self-deception, which is harmful to others and to yourself.

There was a colleague in the department who loved to show off and talk about how extensive his connections were. One time, there happened to be a project that needed connections urgently. He immediately said that it would be covered by him, and there would be no problem.

Seeing that he was so confident and confident in what he said, we believed it and gave up looking for someone to build a bridge. But when the time came, he still couldn't get through it, so he confessed to us that that friend, I'm just a friend of a friend, I'm not familiar with it, so I'm sorry that I can't help.

At that moment, all of us were very angry. We were being treated like monkeys, and we finally realized the sentence "Not all sorry can be exchanged for nothing."

Because of his personal behavior, our entire project was "aborted". The company finally decided to dismiss him and never hire him. He has brought the blame on himself and ruined his future.

It seems that there is still a price to pay for pretending to be fat. If you don’t want to cause a tragedy, please correct it as soon as possible to prevent such behavior from happening. But old habits are hard to break. Once a person's habit is formed, it is not easy to completely change it.

But it’s not impossible, just think about it and put down your face. The reason why men do this is not because of their pride, but because they like face, but their strength cannot keep up, so they have to pretend like this.

It is not necessarily a good thing for a man to have good face, but it would be disgraceful to have to show off if he has no strength. The behavior of pretending to be fat is really disgusting. Not everyone can be easily deceived. They have a transparent heart and can see through your disguise, but they just don't want to tell you.

In fact, people who do this are also very tiring themselves. After all, they need energy to maintain and pretend. If you have that energy, it is better to use it to improve, improve your strength, and be yourself calmly. The eternal way.