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My friend said happily: My husband is the best!

I listened and said: there is no best husband, only the most suitable husband.

She thought for a moment and repeatedly said yes.

? Suitability is the most important thing in marriage. I often see women as beautiful as flowers. Maybe there is a short and fat ugly man around me.

? Look at Xiaogang Feng, Xu Fan and Xiaogang Feng. Two front teeth with a tasteless face. Is it extremely ugly?

? When Xiaogang Feng recorded the food reality show "Familiar Taste" on Zhejiang Satellite TV, he told Xu Fan the first disgusting confession: "I am very lucky to marry you."

? Xiaogang Feng described Xu Fan as a "decontamination powder" and said that under the training and management of Xu Fan, he developed many good living habits.

? He is willing to get, willing to Xu Fan willing to play. I like being controlled by the woman I love.

? "Although I usually ignore her (Xu Fan's) feelings on the surface, I always keep her good feelings in mind."

? Xu Fan said, "I thought he didn't know me well enough. Now I think he knows me best. "

? What a classic speech.

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? Women often complain that men at home don't wash clothes and mop the floor together, and don't pick vegetables and cook together. He is as busy as a dog, but he sits comfortably on the sofa, watching TV and playing with his mobile phone.

? I have to say, this is what you want.

? I sometimes cry foul with my friends: We are a man who works outside and goes home to wash clothes and cook, which makes us look like adults. The friend smiled: that's what you are willing to do!

? Think about it, too.

? It is said that husband and wife are well matched and complementary. One is diligent, the other is lazy; One is rushing and the other is slow; A romantic room, a shy wooden room; One is nagging, and the other is silence.

The initial choice is based on will.

After marriage, everyone wants to change each other at first, but in the end they turn themselves into each other.

? This kind of marriage will last.

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? Plato said: the most regrettable thing in life is to give up what should not be given up easily and stubbornly adhere to what should not be adhered to.

In marriage, there is no right or wrong, only tolerance and understanding. The willingness to fight and endure hardships reflects this tolerance and understanding.

? If one day anyone doesn't want to, they will quarrel endlessly and even fight. The boat of love and marriage will capsize, and not only one person but both sides will fall into the water.

? The story of the famous Socrates and his wife is well known, so is our great writer Hu Shi, who is the founder of the New Culture Movement. In fact, he married Jiang Dongxiu, a woman with little feet in the countryside. Which of the two men doesn't want to fight and suffer?

So now I think that a long-term marriage is a state of willingness to fight and suffer.