Among the boys I meet, many people can talk at ordinary times, but only when I meet the girl I like, my brain will be blank and I don't know what to say. In fact, in the initial stage of getting to know girls, there are still many rules to follow in chatting. I will teach you these rules below.

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First of all, before chatting with girls, we should first understand some basic principles of WeChat chat, which will enable you to communicate with girls better. The first point is about the way of chatting. Don't use continuous questioning, which is what we often call auditing (avoid auditing when chatting).

If so, it will be difficult to continue chatting, the atmosphere of chatting will be very dull, and girls will slowly ignore you.

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Second, learn to actively open the topic of chat, don't expect girls to always cause topics, so what you say about me is not a good communication, learn to take the initiative.

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The third point is to learn to be simple and not to use some complicated ways to cause girls to talk. Some people like to chat with girls a lot on WeChat, opening more than N topics at a time, which will make girls uncomfortable and it is not easy for her to answer, so it is also important to simply chat.

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Then, after we know the most basic chat methods, I will teach you which topics are better when chatting with girls on WeChat (choose the right topic in chat). Chat topics are divided into several stages. The topic you talked about when you met for the first time is different from that after you met. The topic needs to be upgraded and upgraded, so that you can become more and more familiar. Let me first introduce the topics that are suitable for chatting when you first met in the early stage.

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The third-party topic is a very easy topic for girls in the early stage, so what is the third-party topic? It is a topic that has nothing to do with you or her, such as what movies have been released recently, the weather, the gossip of stars, concerts, etc. These are all third-party topics, such as:

Boy: I saw a great movie recently, and XXX acted very well?

Girl: What movie?

Boy: it's XXX. Have you ever heard of it?

Girl: Well, I know I've been talking about going to see my best friend. How's it going?

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Boy: The hot summer in early autumn is finally over today.

Girl: Yes, or is it comfortable in autumn?

Boy: I like to drive in go on road trip in autumn and bring a bunch of snacks?

Girl: That sounds interesting. I also like going out to play ~?

Boy: Where have you been?

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Conversations like this are very suitable for you to communicate in the early stage. It is easy for girls to pick up, and you can also use third-party topics to lead to more topics.

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Talking about hobbies is a topic that can quickly expand your communication and familiarity in the early stage (increase familiarity by talking about hobbies). For example, you can ask each other what they usually like to do, such as cooking or traveling, which is a good chat topic. Everyone has his own hobbies, and basically most people have a wide range of hobbies. You don't have to worry about the silence caused by the fact that your hobbies don't intersect with each other at all How do you start the topic of hobbies, like a simple "what do you usually like to do"?

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Boy: What do you like to do?

Girl: I like shopping, watching movies and traveling with my girlfriend! ?

Boy: That seems to be a channel ~

Girl: Really? What do you like to do? ?

Boy: I like traveling and food best. I've always wanted to go to Japan recently.

Girl: I have been to Japan ~ the kingdom of eating goods.

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After the girl answers, you can choose to continue the topic or talk about yourself. For example, after girls talk about their hobbies, you can talk about what you usually like to do. I believe that when you talk about your love, you will know each other better.

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There is a survey on women: but 63.4% of women said that they like to talk about horoscopes with men (most girls are interested in horoscopes), so horoscopes are a very good topic for girls.

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Although horoscopes and fortune-telling are not very accurate, they can provide guidance for people. Instead of regarding the constellation as "superstition", it is better to regard the constellation as "entertainment" and treat it as an interesting, safe and absolutely silent topic, which everyone can talk about in the communication between men and women. I suggest you spend 1 hour reading the introduction of 12 constellation, find out what constellation you are, observe other constellations, and chat with girls to start talking about constellations.

Boy: I think your message should be Scorpio?

Girl: Yes, and you? ?

Boy: Our constellations are more compatible. Guess what?

Girl: Pisces? ?

Boy: Did you guess right?

Boy: I know Scorpio better?

Boys: Scorpio girls are kind and self-motivated. Generally speaking, they don't lose their temper. Is losing your temper a big deal?

Girl: You are absolutely right. I usually don't lose my temper. . .

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Talking about food with girls is definitely an infallible topic. Few girls can resist the temptation of food now. You talk about food with girls not only to have a good topic to talk about, but also to pave the way for the next date (talking about food can create invitation opportunities). Just flip through a few girls' circle of friends and you will find that food is definitely the highlight.

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Boy: (food picture)?

Girl: Wow, is it delicious?

Girl: Shit, send me this in the middle of the night?

Boy: Ha, ha, ha, just got back from dinner with friends. It tastes great! ?

Boy: Do you like this spicy food? ?

Girl: I like spicy food very much?

Boy: You are obviously a sister in Nanjing, so you love hot fund mutation? ?

Girl: I just like it. Hot pot is my favorite.

Wechat can start with the topic of food, ask girls what they like to eat, talk about Cantonese food, talk about nearby restaurants, and have any special discounts and other activities. If girls like spicy food, then Sichuan cuisine and Hunan cuisine are topics that you can exchange, and Japanese cuisine and western food are also popular with most girls, so it is also a very good choice to start with food.

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It is human nature to like traveling, especially for girls. It seems that everything in life can be related to travel. For example, go out to play when you are in a good mood, and go out to relax when you are in a bad mood. Only when you are on the road can you feel countless new things in the world and inspire new inspiration. Therefore, it is definitely a good topic to chat with girls about travel in the early stage of WeChat chat (chatting about travel can interact well with girls). For example, you can first look through a girl's circle of friends to see where she has been, and then start traveling after you have a basic understanding:

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Boy: I see you have been to Urumqi?

Girl: Yes.

Boy: Nice trotters on the eighth floor (smirking)?

Girl: Ha ha ha. Have you ever been there?

Boy: I want to eat, huh?

Girl: Well, baked buns are delicious, too?

Boy: I found that we all like the same food (chuckle)

Then share with each other which city has delicious food and fun. Some particularly romantic places can make you talk. Preparing some travel photos and sending them to each other can also make girls feel that you are a person who loves life and is willing to share.

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When you don't know what to talk to a girl, you are actually a good topic (learn to find a topic from yourself), because you can cover a wide range of topics, such as your usual hobbies, interesting things at home, including your work, childhood stories, your friend's favorite song at school and so on. The key is that you dare to talk about yourself. Some boys are afraid to talk about themselves. This is not good. Learn to find a topic from yourself.

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Boy: I find that I am less and less like Pisces?

Girl: Why do you say that?

Boy: Pisces is more romantic, a little introverted and fond of fantasy?

Girl: What has it become now?

Boy: I feel that I talk a lot now, and I have been acting directly in fantasy time before (snickering)

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Everyone likes to talk about themselves, whether it is a boy or a girl, so we should learn to find topics from each other, but finding topics from each other is not for auditing. We can start by expressing our feelings, such as hair style, clothes and accessories. Remember not to praise a girl's beauty, but learn to comment on details (learn to praise a girl from details), for example, you can comment on her cool head and exquisite earrings. So girls are very willing to take such a topic. You can also talk about your feelings for her. For example, you think she is very lively, like the little sister next door. In short, it is a good choice to find a topic from each other in the early stage, which can quickly make you feel familiar.

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Boy: You are well dressed. Is the bag the finishing touch?

Girl: Nothing, just mix it casually. I'm embarrassed to say it?

Boy: Random collocation is so effective. I think I often read fashion magazines?

Girl: Not bad. I used to pay more attention to this. I think you are good at wearing it, too?

Boy: I dress more formally and have been complained by my friends (bad smile)

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Many boys think that chatting with girls on WeChat will be obscene or even blacked out by girls. Actually, it's not. I know that many girls are very open and optimistic about sex and have a high degree of acceptance. In fact, chatting with girls can directly induce their sexual awareness, thus increasing the possibility of having sex with her. When talking about sex, you must have a positive attitude (when talking about sex, you must have a positive attitude) and think that sex is normal. If you can't let it go, girls will feel unnatural.

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Boy: I think your picture is a little plump?

Girl: Nothing. I'm still fleshy.

Boy: girls are a little good at eating meat, but they are more shy about sex?

Girl: Do you like girls with meat very much (shy)?

Boy: Of course, it's good for you.

Before opening this topic, I suggest that we can start from two aspects. One is to send some funny expressions. For example, Tintin with a V-shaped finger is a good example, and then we can observe the girls' reactions. Some girls with high acceptance may respond to you with similar expressions, so that we can naturally cause sexual topics. The other is to share your views and attitudes towards sex. Just like the case just now, introduce sexual topics from photos of friends circle, but don't talk about sexual topics in the early stage (don't talk about sexual topics with girls in the early stage of chatting), only if you are familiar with girls.

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Emotional state is also a good topic. If you want to get to know girls better and make your relationship closer, you can talk about their emotional state, but directly asking how many times you have been in love before will make the other person uncomfortable. Let's start with when is the longest time you have been in love. Some girls may say 1 year or half a year. You can continue this topic of opening your feelings and talk about yourself. I believe talking about feelings can make you feel comfortable.

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Boy: I feel that you have a lot of love experience?

Girl: No, just two?

Boy: Which one impressed you the most? ?

Girl: The second one was young when she said the first one, and she didn't know anything. ?

Boy: Is the second one your classmate? ?

Girl: Yes, but we are not in the same department. We met at an event.

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In addition to the topics I introduced above, you can also choose topics through the girl's circle of friends (choose topics through the girl's circle of friends) to see which photos are more in her circle of friends, which is also a good starting point.

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Know her hobbies: everyone has several hobbies more or less, and there are always clues in the circle of friends. For example, the girl you like has traveled to many places, which means that maybe she likes traveling very much. The girl you like has shared a lot of chicken soup for the soul, which means that she should like reading.

What are you doing at the weekend: When you look at your circle of friends, pay attention to the photos you look at and the corresponding time period, and know where the girl you like will go and what she likes to do at the weekend, so when you ask her out at the weekend, you don't have to worry about taking her, just follow her usual route.

Any love history? Sometimes there will be interaction with other people in the circle of friends, not only with friends, but also with (ex-) lovers. From these developments, we can know what kind of boy she likes, when the last relationship happened and why it ended.

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Learn the cliche: observing the circle of friends is more passive. If the girl you like doesn't like making friends, don't be too sad. Learn the platitudes in daily chat and ask more things you want to know.

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