mental performance

Scorpio people are cold in appearance, enthusiastic inside, curious and discerning. They are naturally attractive to others, and they exude vitality and charm. Although Scorpio is born with the ability of reasoning and understanding, he can see through the problems he faces at a glance, but his intuition is more acute, so he often does not play cards according to the rules. He likes to face difficulties, not because he has a special hobby for the difficulties themselves, but because he wants to know how he will react when facing difficulties. Be innovative, bold and like power. You should always restrain your excessively strong will and tendency to act alone. Arrogant personality and impulsive behavior are easy to establish enemies, and you should be more tolerant of other people's different ideas and styles. He is an outstanding talkative person, very popular, shows an orderly spirit and keen diplomatic skills, and can easily get what he wants from his friends, so he may easily be spoiled and become self-centered.

Scorpio's view of love (1)

I don't know how to show love

Scorpio has a clear view of love, and it is very graceful and measured when expressing love.

do you have such experience? You really like someone, but he has no feelings for you. So, you have become very good friends. You care about him and know him, but you won't bother him with love.

This kind of friendship between confidants or intimate buddies is a very precious friendship shown by Scorpio. When you are not sure of the other person's wishes, it is not that you don't know how to express your love, but that you don't want to rashly cause others' anxiety or trouble; When you are sure that the other person has no will, you can sublimate your love into appreciation and care. Scorpio is really different.

It's just that such noble friendship can't be fully understood sometimes. Maybe his lover or your lover will wonder, are you really just friends? Won't it interfere with his or your love? I think you should also carefully consider the feelings of others. After all, under Gua Tian and Li, it's hard to be clear and turbid.

If he is uneasy but reasonable, you might as well let him have more contact with your opposite sex confidant and dispel his doubts. If he is very suspicious in nature, you have to sublimate your friendship to a higher level-caring for each other without having to contact more.

Love is the feeling and communication between the two sides. Since you value the feelings of people who don't love you, how can you ignore the feelings of people who love you?

master the sense of propriety and grace, and your lover and the confidant of the opposite sex will feel your difference.

It's really one of the happiest things in the world to look at you in the right eye

. The most fascinating thing about Scorpio is its eyes. No matter whether it is a man or a woman, it can reveal the fascinating magic. Who can forget Aaron Kwok's cool and handsome eyes after being splashed with a glass of water? Who can resist Sharon Stone's breathless eyes in "The Sixth Sense"?

Not only these two, but also Brigitte Lin's trademark eyes in Dong Fangbubai, Cui Taijing's sweet eyes when singing, Richard Burton and Charles Branlant Johnson ...................................................................................................................................... Of course, your eyes also have extraordinary charm. When you think you are looking at him right, I think he must have noticed it, and there are a lot of deer bumping into each other in his heart.

so, you will soon know how he feels about you.

generally speaking, your charm is hard to resist. However, there are also some people who don't appreciate it, or who have a heart and a strong will, and may turn a blind eye. I wonder if there is a chance to continue to develop, and you will soon find the answer.

I want to remind you to control your discharge intensity properly. If the other person is a novice lover or an infatuated seed who loves fantasy, when your radio waves are too strong, he may be overwhelmed at once and fall into a dream he imagined, which is unfair to him and very troublesome to you.

when you look at your eyes, you should see clearly, think clearly and express clearly. Making friends? Is to enjoy the fun of meeting? Or are you willing to continue dating? Don't let him expect too much and be more disappointed.

First love

First love is a mystery, and people outside the door are full of fantasies and longings. Especially in Scorpio, you have already planned your travel priorities and necessary places; Although, you know nothing about the scenery inside.

If it is the first time for your first lover to step into this, of course, everything will be chaotic, but you will try to cooperate with each other and feel surprise and joy together.

This is a perfect combination, because Scorpio, the first love, often over-expands the right to love and puts love in the top priority. Because of love, you can't look at other opposite sex again; Because we love each other, we should report each other's detailed daily whereabouts; Because of love, we must share all the details and privacy of life; Because you love each other, you should try your best to satisfy each other's feelings of "love" and not teach each other to be disappointed.

If both parties are first love, maybe you can go all out with such enthusiasm, and you will find the scenery you expect in Scorpio.

However, if he has been in love several times, he knows that some of the gardens of love are real beautiful scenery, and some are mirage, which does not exist at all. He knows how to keep himself in love, so he won't follow your fantasy blindly. So you got lost in the forest, and I don't know if you found the wrong companion? Or is your plan unrealistic? In this way, the first love journey ended in confusion and desolation.

when you are in love

it will make you hard to swallow in the end; If you wear the same clothes every day, no matter how beautiful the clothes are, you will be bored and others will be bored. Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world, but it still can't escape this law of diminishing marginal benefits, and even produces the consequences of extremes meet. Therefore, you should know how to let go and how to receive when you are in love.

If you give him more time to be alone, it will be precious to be with you. If you give him more space to seek the goal of life, his love will have the effect of charging and amplifying.

you must have heard the saying "parting is better than getting married": you must have heard the winner deeply thank his partner for giving him the most space and tolerance at many award ceremonies. You should learn to master this skill of "holding the right balance". Scorpio's love is like fire, please remember, just give him light and heat, don't burn his eyebrows and confidence. A while ago, there was a Taiwanese song called "The deeper the love, the more condensed the heart". Although I don't know much about the content of the words, this title is very suitable for describing a phenomenon in Scorpio love syndrome. Why do some scorpios "the deeper their love, the more condensed their hearts"? The most important reason is the uncontrollable possessiveness.

If you are madly in love and let your possessiveness expand with the growth of love, your love will become more and more intimate, so that you and he can't breathe, and of course your mood will be condensed. Just like asking you to eat the same dish every meal, no matter how delicious the food is, it will make you hard to swallow in the end; If you wear the same clothes every day, no matter how beautiful the clothes are, you will be bored and others will be bored. Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world, but it still can't escape this law of diminishing marginal benefits, and even produces the consequences of extremes meet. Therefore, you should know how to let go and how to receive when you are in love.

If you give him more time to be alone, it will be precious to be with you. If you give him more space to seek the goal of life, his love will have the effect of charging and amplifying. You must have heard the saying that "parting is better than getting married": you must have heard the winner deeply thank his partner for giving him the most space and tolerance at many award ceremonies. You should learn to master this skill of "holding the right balance".

Scorpio's passionate love is like fire. Please remember, just give him light and heat, and don't burn his eyebrows and confidence.

is it okay to win love with a horizontal knife?

If you are faced with a trigonometric exercise, and you are the third party or intervener, will you win love in the end? I think you should ask yourself first.

first of all, are you morally defensible? If they were originally a happy and matched couple, or even a happy family, no matter how much you love him, he will have a good impression on you. I think you will feel uneasy when you face your conscience.

second, do you really love each other? You should not only consider whether your love for the land has reached the point of no hesitation. Also want to recognize whether he also has such a strong determination for you? In the eyes of others, your love is quite negotiable. Do you have the knowledge to bear the external pressure?

Third, if you stand firm in morality and love, please think again: Is it worth it? Is it absolutely necessary? His empathy will certainly have many peripheral effects on you: the incomprehension of relatives and friends, the mental pain and real trouble when he broke up with his original half, the trouble of readjusting to life, etc., each of which may make your pure love fall into the secular mud at once. You must have seen or heard the story of a third party waiting for a lover to break up with the original half, right? Please consider whether these troubles around you are worth it.

Many people are very unkind to the third party and even label it vicious. In fact, as a participant, the pressure to bear is great. If you are just emotional and lack foresight, the situation is worrying. However, foresight is the characteristic of Scorpio. I hope you can give full play to this characteristic and evaluate it carefully.

when he doubts your loyalty

if he doesn't love you, he won't care if you are loyal to him? Now, you should feel a little sweetness in your heart.

I have great confidence in you in Scorpio. Maybe you will take part in accidental amusement on some occasions, but it is not easy to cheat emotionally.

but you have a trait that I don't quite agree with. You like to see others anxious because they love you, and uneasy because they love you; In other words, you want to see him anxious and anxious to prove that you still have the most love from him.

It's probably driven by your jealousy, paranoia and possessiveness. Scorpio seems to have a tendency of mental abuse.

So you can't help revealing that some people have a good impression on you, and you can also show that you appreciate some people if you have nothing. This is stressful enough. Especially when there is gossip or misunderstanding outside, you deliberately look chic, just denying that you have anything wrong with him, but refusing to explain it clearly. On the surface, you think you are behaving correctly, so why should he make a fuss? But underneath, you deliberately want him to be jumpy. If nothing happens to him, not only do you not appreciate his rationality, but you may even lose something!

I seldom see a Scorpio person who is willing to give his lover a 1% guarantee, even if his heart belongs to him, he doesn't want people to sit back and relax. Alas! You are really like a bad cat teasing its prey. How long will that poor little mouse suffer?

When love hits a bottleneck

Recently, many investors are trapped. Many people originally chose pre-sale houses with great value-added potential, and sold them when they were ready to cover them, which was too profitable. As a result, the gas is too weak now, and there is no hope for future value-added. In addition, the property rights cannot be transferred, and a large amount of project funds have to be paid every month. It is really a dilemma and miserable.

if your love is in recession now, it's probably just like these investments, right? You have paid so much, and your feelings are too deep to turn back, but he just can't give you a reciprocal response. Although you are not optimistic about the future of love, you can't give up easily. You are not willing to waste your hard work like this, and you are afraid that you will lose more money if you continue to spend it. This is really another kind of "trap".

has he always insisted on keeping his own space? Is he still unwilling to settle down? Does he still want to promise to enter the marriage stage? In Scorpio's love, these conditions are all important reasons for the dilemma. There are differences in the nature of personality, and there is also the trouble that the progress of love can't be synchronized. Both of them are bottlenecks that two people must work together to break through.

So, when you are unwilling to give up, you should adjust yourself appropriately besides communicating with him.

Scorpio will not give in easily, but you must weigh the priorities: lose this relationship? Or spend your whole life unhappy? Or make some adjustments to find the happy time of falling in love with him again? I think the answer is clear to you.

When the old lover looks back

I think the old lover looks back for you in Scorpio, and his chances of success are slim.

let me explore the possibility of accepting an old lover from three aspects.

In the first case, he left you, and I think it's hard for you to forget the harm he caused you. If you had taken drastic action at that time and let him taste the lesson he deserved, it would be even harder for you to resolve the knot in your heart.

in the second case, you ask to break up and he gets hurt. In this case, you won't believe that the other person really let bygones be bygones and really loves you again. You couldn't accept his return because of the shadow you couldn't shake in your heart.

the third situation is that we broke up because of other objective circumstances. Usually this is the most likely situation to get back together. However, Scorpio is not like you, and you will blame him for not being strong-willed at that time and not having the courage and perseverance to bravely confront the environment like you. You still have a deep grudge against him, and the chances of getting back together are slim.

so, he may have miscalculated. I want to remind you not to be too cruel to your old lover, especially not to hurt him with a disdainful attitude. The old lover came back to see you, and I don't think his recent situation is very satisfactory. Perhaps, the blank in love or the frustration in life has hit him hard. Even if he was abandoned by you in the past, he has made some achievements to prove himself to you, and his heart is fragile.

doubt about love

I don't want to say that you are "suspicious" in Scorpio. I would rather say that you are extremely interested in exploring secrets.

You don't like that he keeps secrets from you, especially love, and you don't like that he has an ambiguous or awkward attitude towards you. "Does he love me or not?" When you have this question, you will try your best to get to the bottom of it, so I don't have to worry about it for you.

I think I'm more worried about his feelings. If every time you trace it, it turns out to be a mistake, how do you explain it to him? The facts may be traced clearly, but every action shows that you don't trust him, and that you have no resistance to groundless and aimless rumors.

You think honesty can maintain our feelings. However, if he thinks that trust is the most important foundation, your paranoia has been a very destructive factor. Every time you pursue too much action, it will make him doubt your trust and reduce his change by a few points.

In addition, I remind you that when you have doubts, you might as well communicate with him directly and listen to his opinions first. Don't secretly carry out evidence search activities every time in order to avoid spooking. The information obtained from this secret investigation often gives you preconceived ideas, which leads to serious misleading. < P > Sometimes, love is not seen before you believe it, but seen after you believe it. You should try it in Scorpio.