In China, there has always been a tradition that filial piety is the first of all virtues. Letting parents have grandchildren as soon as possible is also a way for children to be filial. However, with the change of people's ideas and the introduction of foreign cultures, more and more people have joined the Dink clan.

Ms. Zheng, a neighbor, and her husband are Dinks. Both of them have high academic qualifications, and their work units after graduation are also quite good. At first, because they both enjoyed a free and unique life, they planned not to have children after marriage. Now they have been married for more than 30 years, and they have never had children.

According to Ms. Zheng, not long after she married her husband, her parents began to force them to have children in various ways, but they all tactfully avoided it. I think that couples can live happily without the bondage of children and without worrying about all kinds of trivial problems brought by children.

But with their growing age, all kinds of Dink's contradictions followed. Perhaps it is to see that the peers around him have sons and daughters, and the couple's love period has long passed, and the husband began to change his attitude. I mentioned to Ms. Zheng several times that I want to have a child. Because she is old now and unwilling to have children, Ms. Zheng has always disagreed.

Although they still live under the same roof every day, the relationship between the couple has deteriorated. When they get home, they all play with their mobile phones separately and don't interfere with each other.

In fact, there are still many people who choose to be dinks. As the passion of their wedding fades, they will not have children to accompany them in the future. What is their middle-aged life like?

The first batch of "double income without children" is entering the ranks of middle-aged and elderly people. Do they regret it?

1. Some people feel deep remorse.

When I was young, many people still yearned for the Dink family. After all, there is no bondage of children, which means that the time after work is entirely their own, and couples can live a romantic world as they please.

But when people reach middle age, especially when they see that many relatives and friends are almost all children and live a very happy life, they will naturally be envious. But it is usually difficult for women to get pregnant after 40 years old. Therefore, under normal circumstances, there will be feelings of regret, and the disputes between the two at home will continue to increase, and eventually they will even divorce.

2. Some people always insist on Dink.

Some people have thought it over before taking the road of Dink. They know what kind of life they want and will stick to it. Although they are happy to see the life of others taking care of their children, they can also see the hardships of others taking care of their children.

In contrast, they enjoy a carefree and free life. Some dinks even formed a small team and planned to support the life of the elderly together in the future. On the whole, they still live a happy and comfortable life.

It doesn't matter how you live.

These people are more Buddhist, and they may be more inclined to live freely. If they feel that life is ordinary and want to raise children, then they may give up Dink's lifestyle and start actively preparing for pregnancy.

But if they are unwilling to bear the hardships of raising children, they may also become dinks for life. In a word, what kind of lifestyle they want depends entirely on their preferences.

In fact, it is a personal choice whether to have children or to be a Dink family, and there is no uniform standard. But because of all kinds of difficulties that may appear on Dink's road, I hope everyone must think it over carefully.