I don't know how to express my love
Scorpio sees clearly in love, and is very graceful and measured when expressing love.
Do you have such an experience? You really like someone, but he has no feelings for you. So, you became very good friends. You care about him and know him, but you won't bother him with love.
This kind of friendship between bosom friends or intimate buddies is a very precious friendship shown by Scorpio. When you are not sure about the other person's wishes, it is not that you don't know how to express your love, but that you don't want to cause others' anxiety or trouble rashly; When you are sure that the other person has no will, you can sublimate love into appreciation and care. Scorpio is really different.
However, this noble friendship is sometimes not fully understood. Maybe his lover or your lover will wonder, are you really just friends? Won't it interfere with his or your love? I think you should also carefully consider other people's feelings. After all, it's hard to tell right from wrong under He Li.
If he is not at ease but still rational, you might as well let him have more contact with your opposite sex confidant and dispel his doubts. If he is suspicious by nature, you should sublimate your friendship to a higher level-care for each other and don't have to touch more.
Love is the feeling and communication between the two sides. Since you value the feelings of people who don't love you, how can you ignore the feelings of people who love you?
Master proper limit and manners, and your opposite sex lover and confidant will feel your difference.
When you look directly into each other's eyes
Being able to watch you in Scorpio is one of the happiest things in the world. The most fascinating thing about Scorpio is its eyes. Both men and women can reveal fascinating magic. Who can forget Aaron Kwok's cool and handsome eyes after being splashed with a glass of water? Who can resist sharon stone's suffocating eyes in The Sixth Sense?
Not only these two, but also Brigitte Lin's iconic eyes in "Dong Fangbubai", Cui Taijing's sweet eyes when singing, richard burton and Charles Brandt ... the list goes on. Of course, your eyes also have extraordinary charm. When you think you are looking at him correctly, I think he must have noticed that there are a lot of deer in his heart.
So, you will soon know how he feels about you.
Generally speaking, your charm is irresistible. But there are also some people who are ungrateful, or have the heart and strong will, and may turn a blind eye. I don't know if there is any chance to continue to develop, and you will find the answer soon.
I want to remind you to control the discharge intensity properly. If the other person is a novice in love, or an infatuated seed who loves fantasy, when your radio waves are too strong, he may suddenly be at a loss and fall into his imaginary dream, which is unfair to him and very troublesome to you.
When looking straight, look clearly, think clearly and express clearly. Make friends? Is to enjoy meeting each other? Or are you willing to continue dating? Don't let him expect too much and be more disappointed.
At the time of first love
First love is a mysterious garden, and people outside are full of fantasies and longings. Especially in Scorpio, you have planned the key points of your trip and the places you must go; Although, you know nothing about the scenery in the garden.
If it's the first time for a first-time lover to step into this garden, of course everything will be chaotic, but you will try your best to cooperate and feel surprise and joy together.
This is a perfect combination, because Scorpio, the first love, tends to over-expand the right to love and put love first. Because of love, you can't look at other opposite sex; Because we love each other, we should report each other's daily detailed whereabouts; Because of love, we should share all the details and privacy of life; Because you love each other, you should try to satisfy each other's feelings about "love" and don't let them down.
If both parties are first love, maybe you can go all out with such enthusiasm, and Scorpio will find the scenery you expect in the garden.
However, if he has been in love several times, he knows that the garden of love has real beauty and a mirage, and it doesn't exist at all. He knows how to maintain his sovereignty in love, so he won't blindly follow your fantasy. So you got lost in the garden. Did you find the wrong playmate? Or is your plan unrealistic? In this way, the journey of first love ended in confusion and desolation.
When you fall in love
In the end, it will also embarrass you; If you wear the same clothes and beautiful clothes every day, you will be bored and others will be bored. Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world, but it still can't escape the law of diminishing marginal returns, and even produces the consequences of extremes meet. Therefore, when you are in love, you should know how to let go and know how to receive.
If you give him more time alone, you can show the preciousness of being with you; If you give him more freedom to seek life goals, his love will have the function of charging and amplifying.
You must have heard the saying "it is better to get married than to leave": You must have heard the winner deeply thank his partner for giving him the most space and tolerance at many award ceremonies. You should learn to master this skill of "mastering the right balance". Scorpio's love is like fire, please remember, just give him light and heat, don't burn his eyebrows and confidence. A while ago, there was a Taiwan Province song called "The deeper you love, the more cohesive your heart is". Although I don't know much about the lyrics, this title is very suitable to describe a phenomenon in Scorpio love syndrome. Why do some scorpios "love deeper and have a firmer heart"? The most important reason is uncontrollable possessiveness.
If you are in love, let your possessiveness expand with the growth of love, your love will become stronger and stronger, so that you and he can't breathe, and of course your mood will be condensed. Just like asking you to eat the same food for every meal, no matter how delicious the food is, it will make you hard to swallow in the end; If you wear the same clothes and beautiful clothes every day, you will be bored and others will be bored. Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world, but it still can't escape the law of diminishing marginal returns, and even produces the consequences of extremes meet. Therefore, when you are in love, you should know how to let go and know how to receive.
If you give him more time alone, you can show the preciousness of being with you; If you give him more freedom to seek life goals, his love will have the function of charging and amplifying. You must have heard the saying "it is better to get married than to leave": You must have heard the winner deeply thank his partner for giving him the most space and tolerance at many award ceremonies. You should learn to master this skill of "mastering the right balance".
Scorpio's love is like fire, please remember, just give him light and heat, don't burn his eyebrows and confidence.
Take love in a horizontal knife, okay
If you are facing a triangle exercise and you are the third person or intervener, will you win love in the end? I think you should ask yourself first.
First of all, can you defend morally? If they were originally a happy couple, or even a happy family, no matter how much you love him, he will have a good impression on you. I think you will feel uneasy when you face your conscience.
Second, do you really love each other? You should not only consider whether your love for the land has reached the point of no hesitation. Do you still want to know if he has such a strong determination for you? In the eyes of others, your love is quite negotiable. Is there a consensus to bear the pressure from outside?
Third, if you stand firm on morality and love, please think again: Is it worth it? Is it absolutely necessary? His empathy will certainly have many peripheral effects on you: the incomprehension of relatives and friends, the mental pain and practical troubles when breaking up with the original half, the troubles of re-adapting to life and so on. Every one of them may make your pure love suddenly fall into the secular mud. You must have seen or heard the story of a third party waiting for a lover to break up with the original half, right? Please consider whether these troubles around you are worth it.
Many people are very unkind to third parties and even label them vicious. In fact, as a participant, the pressure to bear is great. If it is only emotional and lacks foresight, the situation will be worrying. However, foresight is the characteristic of Scorpio. I hope you can give full play to this feature and evaluate it carefully.
When he doubts your loyalty
If he doesn't love you, he won't care if you are loyal to him. Now, you should feel a little sweet in your heart.
Scorpio, I have great confidence in you. Maybe you will take part in accidental amusement on some occasions, but it is not easy to cheat emotionally.
But you have a quality that I don't quite agree with. You like to see others anxious because they love you and uneasy because they love you; In other words, you want to see him anxious and upset to prove that you still have the most love from him.
Probably driven by your jealousy, paranoia and possessiveness. Scorpio seems to have a tendency of mental abuse.
Therefore, you can't help showing that some people have a good impression on you, and you can also show that you appreciate some people casually. This pressure is enough. Especially when there is gossip or misunderstanding outside, you deliberately act like a fool, just denying what you did wrong, but refusing to explain clearly. On the surface, you think you are behaving correctly, so why should he make a fuss? But deep down, you deliberately want him to be nervous. If nothing happens to him, not only do you not appreciate his rationality, but you may even lose something!
I rarely see Scorpio people willing to give their lover 100% guarantee, even if it is not others or him, I don't want others to sit back and relax. Alas! You are really like an evil cat teasing its prey. How long will that poor little mouse have to put up with it?
When love meets a bottleneck
Recently, the real estate is depressed, and many investors are trapped. Many people originally chose pre-sale houses with great value-added potential and sold them when they were ready to build them. It was too profitable. As a result, the purchasing power is too weak now, and there is no hope of future appreciation. In addition, the house is half-built, the property rights cannot be transferred, and a large amount of project money has to be paid every month. It's really a dilemma. It's miserable.
If your love is depressed now, it's probably like these investments, right? You have given so much, and your feelings are too deep to turn back. He just can't give you a reciprocal response. Although I am not optimistic about the future of love, I can't give up easily. You don't want to waste your hard work like this, and you are afraid that you will lose more money if you continue to spend it. This is really another "trap".
Has he always insisted on keeping his own space? Is he still unwilling to settle down? Does he still want to promise to enter the marriage stage? In Scorpio's love, these conditions are all important reasons for the predicament. Among them, there are differences in the nature of personality, and there are also troubles that the progress of love cannot be synchronized. Both are bottlenecks that two people must work together to break through.
Therefore, when you are unwilling to give up in your heart, you should adjust yourself properly besides communicating with him.
Scorpio nature will not give in easily, but you must weigh your priorities: lose this relationship? Or unhappy all your life? Or make some adjustments to find the happy time to fall in love with him again? I think the answer is clear to you.
When the old lover turns back,
I think my old lover will turn to you in Scorpio, and his chances of success are slim.
I will discuss the possibility of accepting an old lover from three aspects.
In the first case, he left you, and I think it's hard for you to forget the harm he brought you. If you had taken drastic action at that time and let him taste the lesson he deserved, it would have been more difficult for you to resolve the knot in your heart.
The second situation is that you break up on your own initiative, and he is very hurt. In this case, you won't believe that the other person really lets bygones be bygones and really loves you again. You can't accept his return because of the lingering shadow in your heart.
The third situation is that we broke up because of other objective circumstances. Usually this is the most likely situation to get back together. But Scorpio is not like you. You will blame him for his lack of determination and courage and perseverance to face the environment bravely like you. You still have a deep grudge against him, and the chances of getting back together are slim.
So, maybe he miscalculated. I want to remind you not to be too cruel to your old lover, especially not to hurt him with disdain. My old lover came back to see you. I don't think his recent situation is very ideal. Perhaps, the blank in love or the setbacks in life have hit him hard. Even if he was abandoned by you in the past, he has made some achievements to prove to you that he is fragile inside.
Doubt about love
I don't want to say that you are suspicious in Scorpio. I'd rather say that you are very interested in exploring secrets.
You don't like his hiding from you, especially his love, and you don't like his ambiguous or embarrassing attitude towards you. "Does he love me or not? When you have this question, you will try your best to find out the truth, so I don't have to worry about you.
I think I'm more worried about his feelings. If every trace turns out to be a mistake, how do you explain it to him? The facts may be traced very clearly, but every action shows that you don't trust him and have no resistance to unfounded and aimless rumors.
You think confession is the only way to maintain our relationship. However, if he thinks that trust is the most important foundation, your paranoia is already a very destructive factor. Every time you pursue too many actions, it will make him doubt your trust and reduce his change by a few points.
In addition, I remind you that when you have doubts, you might as well communicate with him directly and listen to his opinions first. Don't secretly search for evidence every time, so as not to startle the snake. The information obtained from this secret investigation often gives you preconceived prejudice and seriously misleads you.
Sometimes, you won't believe until you see love, but only when you believe in love. Scorpio, you should try to understand it.
Facing the choice of love and bread
Love and bread can't have both. Scorpio's performance makes me want to give a thumbs-up compliment. All the scorpios I have seen deal with this way: hug his love tightly, and then try your best to earn bread.
Imagine that a lover who is not good at making a living should be a perfect match when he meets Scorpio, who is emotional and can work hard to support his family. Most people, including those Scorpio who choose love, must think that the prince and princess can live happily together from now on. However, the real situation is not so easy to achieve.
Because Scorpio is very possessive. Now, you have the courage to say that you have no resistance to unfounded and aimless rumors.
You think confession is the only way to maintain our relationship. However, if he thinks that trust is the most important foundation, your paranoia will be a very destructive factor. Every time you pursue a big move, you will make him doubt your trust and make him love less.
In addition, I remind you that when you have doubts, you might as well communicate with him directly and listen to his opinions first. Don't secretly search for evidence every time, so as not to startle the snake. The information obtained from this secret investigation will often give you preconceived prejudice and lead to serious misleading.
Sometimes, you won't believe until you see love, but only when you believe in love. Scorpio, you should try to understand it.