Half a lifetime ago, a chicken feather turned into a butterfly in the second half of my life
I finally caught up with My First Half of My Life. At my age, reading such a story will always touch tears, or pain points or anger points. A divorced woman in middle age has experienced everything. For example, mistress, I met not only mistress, but also mistress, mistress, mistress, mistress, mistress, mistress, mistress and mistress. Luo Zijun is not the worst. At least for the first half of her life, she lived in luxury. And like me, it should be the worst for me to spend the first half of my life with others to fight the world and suffer a lot before going out.
Some experiences, such as before my divorce, I used to be a proprietress, not to mention how rich I was. I had a nanny, employees and a driver at home. After the divorce, I tried to go out to work, but I had a fight with Luo Zijun. Seeing her selling cosmetics, eating lunch boxes, cleaning and wiping the floor, I feel the same. After my divorce, I wanted to find a job close to home to take care of my children. There is a supermarket near my home looking for cashiers. I was whimsical to apply for a job. After half a day of training, I worked in two shifts. The internship period was three days. I was actually not allowed to sit on a stool and play with my mobile phone. I stood in the middle of a pile of drinks and snacks from 3 pm to 11 pm. When I came home at night, I felt that my legs would not bend and collapse, and I resigned the next day.
this year, I have tried to do a lot of things, suffered some hardships and walked some detours. There is no great achievement, the only thing to be proud of is raising a child with excellent academic performance. If this is not an achievement, then after more than ten years of divorce, raise yourself as well as possible, be healthy physically and mentally, and feel like a flower. I have learned many things that I haven't learned, such as psychology, tea art, cooking, beauty and health, and insist on fitness and writing. I have been to many places I have never been before, made many new friends, and tried many things I have never done ...
From a "disgruntled woman" and a "yellow-faced woman", I have cultivated myself into an elegant and calm woman. When it comes to the difference with Luo Zijun, there is no life mentor like He Han around. Stumbling all the way. If God gives me another chance, I will learn to rely on men and make friends with excellent men. Instead of wasting your time with a bunch of disgruntled women.
In The First Half of My Life, everyone read different feelings. A thousand people have a thousand Hamlets. Naturally, I am filled with emotion: a woman must have an excellent best friend first. The level of your best friend determines your life pattern. In addition to being a good girlfriend, she also has an ex-husband with an annual salary of one million and a girlfriend boyfriend He Han with an annual salary of five million. So Luo Zijun was obviously lucky and took a shortcut. He Han said: "You have a good relationship with me, and I will help you introduce your work, which is your best resource!" Some people are busy courting friends and attending various parties all day long. In fact, it is completely putting the cart before the horse and wasting time. We should know those people who are willing to help you with one to a hundred, or even with one to a thousand, rather than being busy every day.
Some people love Tang Jing after watching this drama. They think she is beautiful, capable, chivalrous and soft-hearted, which is perfect. When zijun divorced, he said heroically, "I support you!" " All kinds of help to Luo Zijun. When her boyfriend was robbed, she didn't cry or make trouble, but suddenly disappeared to grab a big client and take a higher position. Tang Jing's elegant revenge is really inspiring! Tang Jing is a good girl, but she is silly. Such a powerful girl-like man will stay at a respectful distance from others, but she will show weakness a little and dress up as a little white flower. Don't compete with He Han everywhere. Instead, they asked He Han for help when they met something, and their love had already blossomed.
a woman can do everything, even better than a man. What do you want a man to do? Also, she made an important mistake and asked her boyfriend to take care of her best friend. A wise man has long summed it up: don't bring your boyfriend to your best friend, she likes it, you have to break up, she doesn't like it, and you have to break up.
Why can Zijun win He Han's love? First of all, she is beautiful. At the age of 37, she was pampered for the first half of her life, and she had a nanny at home. Spending her husband's money, eating high-end food and enjoying high-end beauty maintenance. There are cars, food and fish. Often in and out of major shopping malls, shoes are privately made, and clothing collocation is naturally impeccable. In the first half of her life, she was only responsible for beauty. Men are visual animals. Therefore, as soon as she got divorced, she was favored by many men, such as the honest and reliable Laojin who has two houses, and even the married man Duan Xiaotian who is younger than him ...
Zijun is a woman who was enriched by her husband. Because she was enriched, she not only maintained her beauty, but also preserved her kindness and simplicity, which is impossible for a girl who works hard outside. It is also what successful men like. Coupled with her chicken feather family, the appearance of a little sheep at any time has aroused He Han's desire for protection, and the omnipotent He Han's super ability has been exerted to the greatest extent on her.
and even if Tang Jing is lovelorn, she will go out and grab customers. She will solve all the problems herself and bear them herself. What a real man! Unfortunately, it doesn't attract men's love. Guo's mother naturally said, "Tang Jing, you are so excellent. I wish you were my daughter, and you could find something better. Jun Jun, who can't do anything, is divorced with a child!" Begging her to give He Han to Zijun. You see, weakness is also a reason.
Speaking of this tough mom with a strong ordinary temperament, when she goes to the supermarket to buy food, she always brings a knife to the root of last year's cauliflower and steals a parsley. It's hard to look straight at. But her life experience is very real and has some merits. Many things she does are understandable. For example, she swaggered down the street with Zijun's brand-name bag and scarf and gave it to her little daughter. Finally, I left more than 3, deposits for my little daughter. She is actually a qualified mother.
She said to her daughter, "Jun Jun, He Han likes you so much, and the first prize has hit you. Go and get it quickly. This is an anonymous lottery ticket. Maybe this Tang Jing is the matchmaker and brought He Han to you." This statement is very philistine, but it is realistic and very optimistic. Many people call her selfish and have incorrect views. I think it is understandable. After all, as a mother, I am eager to protect my daughter. It is really rare for a divorced woman to meet a fine man who likes her.
Guo's mother said to Tang Jing, "Sometimes you have to rely on men." This sentence is life wisdom. Many years ago, I was also a valiant man, and I saw a lot of poisoned chicken soup. What women can last for half a day, who says women are not as good as men, and I don't rely on men to raise my mother, and so on. Looking back, it's really stupid.
Men and women are born differently. Many industry elites in this world are men, such as He Han, a wise life mentor. Make friends with him and rely on him. You can live easily and effortlessly, and take fewer detours. If you can fly, why take the train? If sitting in an elegant indoor tea can solve the problem, why run to the market in the scorching sun ... If a man is willing to let you rely on it happily, why not rely on him? The so-called not relying on men means that you give your life to a man to rely on.
if a woman wants to have a good life, she needs to be soft on the outside and steel on the inside. You can be as tender as water on the surface, and practice yourself well inside, not out of touch with the outside world. It is the right way to advance, attack and retreat. Someone once said, "If you think this man is unreliable, you can always find someone who suits you ..."
Many fake chicken soups used to tell us that success depends on yourself. I thought it was right. Until one day, a teacher said: success depends on others! This sentence made me wake up. It's easy to make use of your strength. In the high-tech era, don't go to Yugong to move mountains. There are some opinions: "A woman who is not successful is sleeping with the wrong man! "If a man is not successful, he is sleeping with the wrong woman! These titles look very shocking at first glance. Come to think of it, it makes sense. The person at the bedside gets along with you day and night. His (her) identity, status, vision, his words and deeds are directly related to the pattern and future of women. In addition to the pillow people, good friends around you, both men and women, must pay attention to quality!
Look at Luo Zijun's first half of his life and think back on his first half, so that he can have an epiphany and live the rest of his life well.
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