1. Girls don't want to talk and don't pester them excessively. If you want to make girls feel good through chatting, then this chat must be based on girls' good response, otherwise no matter how you pester them, it will be futile. You know, most of the time, girls don't want to chat, and it's also out of basic courtesy to reply to you, so don't misunderstand the girl's meaning, otherwise it is likely to be blacked out. Therefore, when chatting with the girl you like, if you try to find her several times and try every means to liven up the atmosphere, but she still replies in a perfunctory way, either a few words or an expression pack, or even does not reply, then we can't entangle ourselves too much at this time, and we need to cut off the topic actively and wait for the next chance to chat. And don't take chatting with girls as an exam. Too much worry that I can't talk well and that girls don't like this topic. The more I have this idea, the more I will panic. There is a saying that if you are serious, you will lose, just like fishing. If you are persistent in catching the fish, the more anxious you are, the more you will not catch it, because you have scared the fish away. The same is true for chatting with girls. As soon as you come up, you are hungry and want to eat your sister. How can people be willing to talk to you? Therefore, in the chat, if the other person's response is poor, then you should stop chatting first, show your cold side, patiently capture her next window appearance like a male god, and hit it again. Second, find the right opportunity to talk to my sister about what is the right opportunity, that is, the circle of friends, you can show your high-quality life, or you can like to comment on my sister's circle of friends and interact to start a chat. For example, my sister sent a group of friends who came back from a trip with the text "I'm back, do you have a wine appointment?" Faced with this situation, we can comment that "such a glutton for wine, little drunkard" arouses the girl's emotions in the chat, so that a slightly teasing reply can stimulate the girl's emotions to refute us. At this time, we can pave the way for the next invitation. Inviting girls here is not for you to ask people out directly, saying that they are invited to drink. It is easy to expose the sense of demand, and the purpose is too strong, so girls will not come out. The male gods all vaguely invite them with the words "You can fight for wine when you have time" and "Lafite in 1982 is ready, dare to get drunk". Third, I know how to invite girls in the chat. When I invite girls vaguely, the other party doesn't show great resistance, so we can start the next invitation. For example, M: I know there is a pub nearby, which is quite quiet. Woman: Why did you suddenly ask me for a drink? Man (laughs): It's a mass tweet. Woman: This is too real. M: Everyone is male except you. Woman: Then why didn't you go to your friend? M: Because I came to you. In the above passage, I played a trick on her with push-pull skills, and then suddenly said seriously, "Because I came to you," and the atmosphere instantly turned ambiguous. You know, what kind of boys do girls generally like? It's the kind of being serious with a little bit of rudeness, but it's not serious and it doesn't affect his seriousness. Push and pull, on the other hand, reflects the bad side of shorting, and the last sentence is to create an ambiguous atmosphere and show its serious and serious side. Three skills teach you how to chat with the girl you like. 2 How to chat with the girl you like can get her to want to chat with the girl you like. First of all, we must calm our minds and tell ourselves that we are not kneeling on a goddess, just chatting with an ordinary person, and we don't need to put too much pressure on ourselves. If you treat her like a god when you come up, and then you are passive and cautious about Nuo Nuo, how can you talk this day? Originally, you were a humorous, sunny and handsome young man. You didn't control the rhythm well, and you accidentally lost your pace. Did you become a man who only said yes? What are you doing? Drink more hot water and talk about punk. In fact, it is easy to tell whether you have become a dog licker. You can compare your chat records with your brother, see the chat rhythm between you and him, and then look at your chat records with girls. You probably know if you're licking a dog. The girls over there didn't return your messages, but you sent them in chunks here. Originally, the girls didn't think of you as a spare tire, but you were too competitive, and you directed and performed an annual self-satisfied drama, killing countless punk youths. This is licking the dog and not running away! We all know that girls don't like licking dogs. If she doesn't answer you, don't look for her. You can answer her as long as she answers you. Who is not an ordinary person? Only by keeping a good rhythm can we keep moral integrity. Lu Xun said that all success comes from a dream and unfounded self-confidence. If you want to pursue her, you must believe that you will be worthy of her. You are not asking her to give you a chance, but you are giving her a chance. Be confident, don't think about what comes to mind, and don't hesitate to send it directly after typing. Then, learn to forget the purpose of chatting with her for a while, and don't think about asking girls out after chatting for one or two times. Normally, just hold the mentality of making ordinary friends and talk generously. The problem is that many people don't know where they learned some obscene words. They started, right? About? Or all kinds of yellow jokes are clever, and then they are blacked out by girls. From then on, they are separated from each other, just like ghosts. Sometimes you may not need any coquettish words and routines. Being a normal person has actually surpassed many people! The reason why you are rejected is because you care too much about the result and you want to be with her too much. Isn't there a saying that you like it? People are human, but your love has plated her with gold. It's good to like it, just be moderate, don't have to go to the top, be generous, and be a spiritual guy, isn't it? Of course, there are some ways to chat with girls you like, such as the right time and the right topic. When is a good time to chat with girls? Many boys always like to chat with each other after work, thinking that it will be more convenient for each other at this time, but it is not necessarily so. Maybe the girl was still on the subway at that time, and one message after another was sent here, and the mobile phone there was in the bag, and I couldn't see it. Many people are more suitable for chatting at work. Many employees in many companies work eight hours a day, and not many people really work eight hours from beginning to end. In fact, those who can work four hours are considered model employees, and the other four hours are nothing more than fishing. Unlike going home from work, when the company is idle, there are not many things to interfere, you can't watch TV dramas blatantly, no pets suddenly come to make trouble, and you don't have to wash clothes and clean up. Therefore, if you talk to each other at this time, it will be relatively easy to talk from a psychological point of view. Of course, this is not absolute, because some people are really busy at work, so we should try our best to find out each other's work, life and study rules. In a word, try to chat when the other person has time, plenty of time, and there is nothing to distract her during this time. What's a good topic to talk with girls? Food, movies, music and travel are all ok. Find someone who is good at it, or you don't know much about it. You might as well do your homework for a certain topic in advance. Maybe it's a good way for you to master the glory of the king, stimulate multi-person sports such as the battlefield, and take your sister to score points. Or you are proficient in big data search, all kinds of domestic Hong Kong and Taiwan, Europe, America, Japan and South Korea, whether it's a romantic movie, an action movie or a romantic action movie, as long as a girl asks you for it, you can throw the seed link to her within 3 seconds. Business is not much, but fine. Mastering core technology is the strongest punk in 22. In our girls' view, if a boy really likes himself, he will instantly become stupid in front of himself. So, if you really like her, you don't need to learn how to say provocative words at all. The Lord needs to be a little more active and generous and give her a greeting. Just leave everything to time. How to chat with girls #