? In the endless gossip of women, it is always short of parents, and this number falls and that criticism comes. It seems that I am the only one who is tall and handsome, a moral model and a female model. In fact, I don't know that I am a full-fledged March 8th.
I once met a sister in a community group. My mother's family belongs to us, so I naturally feel more cordial. At first, I saw her group was very active, her voice was good, and her laughter was hearty. So I had a very good impression on her, added a little privacy and chatted occasionally. If someone comes out to talk in a group chat, she will immediately send a message in private to explain and supplement this person's past and help me understand the information. For example, what did you do, divorced and so on. What she did to me was even more so to others. In short, she is the gossip relay station of the whole community.
? Because of some things with the child's father and some broken family locks, I have also nagged her several times. In addition, there are some information about our family that she inquired about everywhere. She also added my child's father's WeChat, which is much more interactive than me, as small as sending a picture of what to buy, what to eat and where to go. When more and more information was collected, it kept spreading around for us, and finally many people told me in turn. Regardless of whether she said we were poor or good, in short, this behavior made me very uncomfortable, disgusted and even hated.
? Another reason is that what I said in the group, several screenshots were sent to my child's father, and it happened that my child's father came back and sent it to me. Once I said a few words in the group, and immediately received a message from my child's father saying that I started to be embarrassed in the group again. Because at that time, the father had already quit the group. I don't need him to say that I know that gossip sent him screenshots again. My daughter was ill in hospital that day. I was busy going to the company during the day and went back to the hospital as soon as I finished my work. I didn't sleep a wink or eat a meal, so I was busy alone. I was so angry that the group cursed me.
that time, she knew that I was scolding her, but she didn't say anything because she was seated. Not long after, when she became a moral model in the group again, I openly talked about her. Before long, I blacked her out. Is it inappropriate for me to pull the black this time, or am I not rational enough to deal with things? I just want to be clear about people and things I don't like as soon as possible. I can also think that since I blacked her out, I have become the object of being scolded.
on the other hand, my ears are clean, and I don't have to hear anything that affects my mood. The father and I quarreled less often. Although he will talk from time to time about what the gossip told him in the group and how many people's dirty laundry was revealed, it has nothing to do with me, so I have to ignore it.
? The day before yesterday, I saw that she was still very active in that small community, and there were several big male bosses in it. Among them, the father of the child was also inside, saying that he quit and was pulled in. I know that the father of the child is alone in the foreign construction site, and it is really lonely. Sometimes I don't feel at ease to chat. Let's chat casually. At least I have a good mood after chatting happily. I don't want to be so involved, men can't control it. Perhaps my generosity made the children's father feel that the conversation was boring, and called me to enjoy their little group's happiness. I felt sick after reading the contents, and the main protagonist seemed to be only the woman from morning till night. I haven't seen many other people talking.
? The debauchery in a small group, the moral flaunt in a large group. She shuttles between groups every day and enjoys it! I'm glad I woke up early and left early. I'd rather be accused of being an unsociable woman than live around other people's gossip. I don't want to be the one who expects to be the focus. I have self-knowledge. I have neither beauty nor rich wealth. I just want to be a simple woman. Reading books, playing sports, cooking food and keeping company with children in my spare time have made my beautiful and plain life. Don't disturb anyone, and don't be harassed. Talk about life and feelings with people who share the same views and interests, that's all!