She has become sensible. My wife and I were together for the first semester of college, and got married a year after graduation. We have been together for nearly 8 years now. As for changes, I don't feel any big changes myself. But if you think about it carefully, there are still some.
Before getting married, she had always been fond of all kinds of stuffed animals. Gadgets like this don’t cost much. Since she likes them, I’ll give them to her! From freshman to senior year, I helped her move things on her graduation day, including a large box of small toys! At that moment I realized what my own sin was, and it took up too much space!
On her birthday after we got married, I bought a cake, flowers, and of course a big Snoopy doll. As soon as I entered the house, I presented flowers and took out the cake. I thought she would be very happy, but I never expected that she pointed at the stuffed doll and said, "Why did you buy this? There's no place to put it. If you have the money, why don't you buy some duck necks!" At that moment, I just You know, when this little girl grows up, eating is more important than playing. Since then, there have been no more stuffed toys in the house. When I want to coax her, I just make duck neck and chicken feet ice cream, which saves trouble!
This sentence was a joke I made to her when we got married, asking her what if your parents suddenly regretted it and wanted to ask for a bride price from me? She frowned and thought for a while, then raised her head and asked me what should I do? I looked at her serious look and told him seriously: If my father-in-law and mother-in-law really regret it and want to accept the bride price, then I will definitely give it! It is very common to receive betrothal gifts, and it is not easy for the elderly, so they should be given.
After hearing what I said, my wife stared at me in surprise and said, "No! They are so rich and have no shortage of money. If they don't give it, the money will belong to our family!" At that time, I looked at her as a miser. He looked like he wanted to laugh. "That's not what you said before! When I was in college, I asked you, didn't you just listen to your mother in everything you said?" "That was before! It's different now." After hearing this, I was instantly moved.
When she was in school, she liked to watch TV dramas and go shopping with her roommates. Sometimes I can go shopping all day without buying anything! After getting married, she didn't like going out anymore. Shopping has turned into shopping on Taobao, and watching TV series has turned into chasing food. In the three years since my marriage, my cooking skills have skyrocketed. I still remember when we were in a rented house when I just graduated from college, I often tried her various dark dishes. The reason I am alive today is because of my good health. I watch food tutorials every day and tinker with it at home. Of course, I can cook anything. I really like to eat it.
So! I feel that I am very happy now. Meeting such a girl in this life is also a blessing I gained from my previous life. To sum up her changes, she has become sensible, stingy and family-oriented. Of course, I also followed her changing trajectory. Living life is, of course, different from falling in love.