People often have extremely strong self-confidence, which will definitely be shown in your measured self-deprecation, and will also be felt by the other person. In addition, if you use yourself as the opening topic, it doesn't hurt even if you don't know the right balance. It can also make the other person's attention more naturally focus on you.

Boldly evaluate each other. Most of the blind dates are slightly planned. Before the two meet, they have already understood each other’s basic information, such as their education level, job, personality, family composition, etc. When encountering conscientiousness, A conscientious parent or matchmaker will even count the number of moles on the other person's face from the photos. Ever since, the most important purpose of blind date is reflected in "whether it is pleasing to the eyes". The criterion of pleasing one's eyes may seem simple, but in fact it is mysterious and elusive. Fortunately, no matter whether men and women like each other at first sight, they still have the most basic ideas about how the person who comes for a blind date sees themselves. Curious. Therefore, you should take advantage of the other party's curiosity and speak out your evaluation boldly and pertinently at the first time. This is much more nutritious than a long self-introduction and unknown topics. Your sincerity can attract the other party's great attention in the first place. If she is really good-looking, you can say: "Nice to meet you, you are very beautiful." Remember to be very sincere. If she looks average, there is no need to lead her to be a beauty. You can comment on her temperament or dress.

When going on a blind date, some people have the habit of praising themselves into the sky and talking about how capable they are and how many people are pursuing them, thinking that this can attract the other person. Little do they know that this is just a sign of guilty conscience. Anyone with a discerning eye can see through that the feeling of falling from the clouds to the bottom of the valley is not pleasant. Truly confident people are good at self-deprecation. Bragging often makes the other person think "it's just that", while self-deprecation makes the other person think "it's not that bad". This difference in perception can determine the other person's rating standards for you. From another level , People who are good at self-deprecation often have extremely strong self-confidence. This will definitely be shown in your measured self-deprecation, and it will also be felt by the other party. In addition, if you use yourself as the opening topic, it doesn't hurt even if you don't know the right balance. It can also make the other person's attention more naturally focus on you. Appropriate display of humor Zhao Benshan said to Song Dandan: "I will tell you a joke to break up the awkward situation." Appropriate jokes and decent humor have always been good weapons to break up embarrassing situations. Blind date is a drama, even if it may not have an ending, at least the process should be made as enjoyable as possible, making it a "comedy" rather than a "drama". But humor is easier said than done. How to grasp the scale is the biggest problem, otherwise it will be bad. Specific and boring personal information should be understood before the two people meet. When going on a blind date, you don’t need to dwell on it like an interview. At this time, you should show your personality, hobbies, and what you have seen and heard. In short, you should show yourself as a living person.

1. Interesting anecdotes at work - Telling these can show that you love your job. 2. Travel experiences - If you have places you have both visited and similar experiences, this is naturally the most suitable topic. 3. Latest movies - Talking about gossip will always seem a bit bitchy, but talking about the latest movies is undoubtedly much better. 4. Hometown customs - People who love their hometown always give people a sense of reliability, stability and deep affection. 5. Looking forward to life - talk about the life state you most yearn for, and describe a future for the other person that you will work hard for. 6. Personal interests - You can understand each other's interests during a blind date. This is a topic that is important for the future and can easily lead to laughter. Pay attention to the scale. 7. Embarrassing things in childhood - Who doesn’t have embarrassing things in childhood? Telling them will not affect your glorious image and make people feel that you are kind and cute.