For example, some enthusiastic elders will give them delicious food when they see sweet-mouthed children, and they can easily be forgiven for making some small mistakes.
Yao Yao has a lively and cheerful personality and a sweet mouth, and people around her like her very much. On this day, my mother took Yao Yao downstairs to play. Aunt Sun, who met her neighbor, also took her daughter downstairs to play. Yao Yao saw Aunt Sun immediately come forward to say hello: "Aunt Sun is good!" .
Aunt Sun also smiled and said to her, "Yao Yao also came out to play. What a sensible child! " With that, she quickly took her daughter Lele and said, "You see how polite Yao Yao is. You should learn more from her and say hello to Aunt Li. " But Lele hid behind her mother and refused to come out. Yao Yao immediately said, "Aunt, I'm playing with Lele. You and your mother go there and find a place to sit! " Then I took Lele's hand and went to the amusement area to play the slide.
Aunt Sun said to Yao Yao's mother, "I really envy you for having such a good daughter. If my family is half as good as your Yao Yao, I will be satisfied! " Yao Yao's mother smiled and said, "Children can see everything, but they have different personalities. There is nothing to envy. " Grandmother Sun said, "No wonder Yao Yao can speak so well. Like mother, like daughter! " "
Sweet-talking children are generally kind-hearted They are polite, caring and considerate, so it is easy to win the favor of others. Sweet-tongued children usually have high emotional intelligence and always take care of other people's feelings in conversation, so they can have an advantage in interpersonal communication.
0 1. Why do sweet-mouthed children attract people? ■ Sweet-tongued children are good at observing faces and trying to figure out other people's minds.
We find that those sweet-mouthed children are good at observing other people's thoughts. They will say different things according to different people, making everyone feel comfortable after listening to him. Usually, such children are smart and will improvise, so it is easy to win the favor of others and win their likes.
■ Children with sweet mouths have high emotional intelligence.
Sweet-talking children sometimes talk like adults and will say to their father, "smoke less, smoking is harmful to health!" " Will tell grandpa: "don't drink too much, drinking is easy to hurt your health." "I will hug my mother when I make her angry and say,' Mom, I love you'. When they say these caring words with their mouths, no adult's heart will be melted.
■ Children with sweet mouths are generally more sensible.
Sweet-talking children are sensitive and delicate, so they will show maturity beyond their age. Sometimes, in order to please adults, I would rather be wronged silently and make my parents happy. Such a child is very distressing.
The reason for children's sweet mouth is partly congenital and partly the relationship between family education. A child with a sweet mouth feels polite and educated, so it is easy to win the favor of others.
However, as the saying goes, "if you talk too much, you will lose." If a sweet-tongued child speaks and tries to please others blindly, it will easily lead to great disaster.
02. Sweet-tongued children may unconsciously "curse comes from their mouths" ■ In order to please others, they will say anything.
Some children are apt to say things that hurt others in order to please the people in front of them, which is not a good thing. During the summer vacation, Huanhuan went to grandma's house for a holiday. Grandma often teases her in front of everyone: "Who is Huanhuan's favorite person?" Huanhuan opened her mouth and said, "I like grandma best." Grandma smiled from ear to ear after hearing Huanhuan's words, and then asked, "Do you like grandparents?" Huanhuan said, "I only like grandma, but I don't like grandparents." People around are booing and saying, "This child is really a thief." This makes Huanhuan even more proud.
What children sometimes say is totally unintentional, mainly to make adults happy. However, parents should not make fun of their children's innocence, let alone mislead their children into saying something they shouldn't say, and let them mistakenly think that it is a good thing to be outspoken.
■ Be careful for children to listen to sounds.
Children with sweet mouths make friends easily because they are likable. This also gives them the opportunity to share other people's secrets. If children are not careful, it is easy to share other people's secrets in order to please others, which will embarrass friends.
■ Blindly flattery is easily repugnant.
Some children have a sweet mouth because they want to get more benefits by praising others after tasting the benefits. If this behavior is done once or twice, others may think that the child is innocent and lovely. If you do too much, others will think that your child is too utilitarian. Saying good things to others is to seek benefits and leave a bad impression of insatiable greed.
Some things show high emotional intelligence, while others are just to please others and gain benefits. Parents should carefully distinguish and guide correctly. Don't let children leave a bad impression on others in order to please them.
03. How do parents teach their children to respect others, instead of being outspoken? ■ Parents lead by example.
If parents want their children to learn to respect others, they should pay attention to their words and deeds, especially when speaking in front of their children, they should think twice before you do, and don't let their children hear what they shouldn't hear. And consciously guide and educate children what to say and what not to say, so that they can develop the habit of being cautious.
■ Parents should encourage their children more at ordinary times and don't suppress their nature.
Some children are sweet-mouthed and like to please others because they are often suppressed by their parents, so they have developed a clever, sensible and humble character. This long-term development is very unfavorable to children's physical and mental growth. Parents should encourage their children to express their ideas bravely, and don't always cater to other people's ideas and lose themselves.
■ Educate children to get along with others and respect each other, without trying to please.
When parents educate their children again, please tell them that when others behave well, we can sincerely praise others, but if others don't do well, don't say nice things deliberately, just keep silent.
Parents should not always ask their children to be obedient and sensible when educating them. Children have their natural instincts. If parents insist on it deliberately, it is easy to overcorrect it, so that children can develop a likable personality, which is not good for their growth.
As the saying goes, "a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June." It's a good thing for children to have a sweet mouth and like to praise others, but it's a good thing to stop everything, and flattery will also make people disgusted. Treat people with respect, and don't cater to others' preferences.