? Once I had a chat with Xiaodai and talked about our friendship. She said, "Every time she is with me, she will feel a sense of belonging."

I said "me too".

People often ask what is friendship?

I think friendship may be like love!

Tolerate and understand each other, and make people feel comfortable when getting along. The most important thing is to be your truest self, and she will not dislike you for being bad.

It's like what Xiaodai calls "a sense of belonging."

What does your desired life look like?

I think having a close friend is indispensable.

And she is like the oxygen in your life, and is a part of your complete life like love and family ties.

Xiaodai and I came to Shenzhen by chance after graduation. What a coincidence.

We all lived in Nanshan at that time.

We make appointments to play together on weekdays, sometimes more than just weekends.

We will go to the beach, go shopping, and explore the streets and alleys of Shenzhen to explore various delicacies, like two free gourmets.

Full of expectations and yearning for life, even though I am still confused about the future, I am also uncertain about the work I do.

Like all recent college graduates.

Still in the exploratory stage.

After graduation, we all found a fairly satisfactory job.

I feel that we can continue to develop well and stably.

Then life is so quiet.

With a salary that is neither good nor bad, a leisurely job, and a pleasant relationship with colleagues, life seems to be satisfied.

Comfort, how nice it is.

But not long ago, I accidentally looked through a magazine, and there was a sentence in it that said, "When a person stays in the comfort zone for a long time, he will not strive for progress."

I don’t know if it’s a coincidence. Maybe the God of faith can’t bear to see me so comfortable and wants to arouse my heart. The entanglement and discomfort linger in my heart for a long time. Maybe my heart doesn’t want it to be like this, but

If you are unwilling to settle for the ordinary, what kind of life do you expect?

I asked myself this.

? A few days ago during the winter solstice, Xiaodai invited me to a Korean restaurant for dinner. The decoration in the store was very energetic, with a large area of ??green, which was very suitable for us young people.

As we ate, we talked about a street dance event I participated in that day. It was a street photoshoot organized by a group of friends who love street dance.

I've always loved groups like them.

Mainly, I like their love for dance, their persistence and perseverance in dance, and I like their undying passion for life.

I remember that it took us a long time that day from the outdoor MV shooting to the indoor personal close-up.

In order to cooperate with the director's ingenious idea of ??taking one shot to the end.

As long as a link is not shot properly, everyone will have to do it again.

And every time after one more, we do better, are more open-minded, and can find a state that suits us better.

I was really tired after the shooting, but also very happy.

It seems that their happiness is infected, and the whole body and mind become more free and at ease.

Think about it, isn't life also in this process of trial and error? Find the moment that suits you best from the endless one more, and live up to yourself and never give in.

Hopefully we can all be passionate about life, even if it's not as great as we thought it would be.

Maybe you are in a lovelorn stage, maybe you are dissatisfied with your job, maybe you are confused about life, maybe... it is far from your ideal life...

But life should always be what it should be.

If you are willing to pursue the life you desire, I think it will not let you down.

And all of this requires you to work hard and make yourself better.

If you are willing to take courses on psychology and emotional intelligence on your way to work every morning to improve your communication skills.

Use the time that others spend watching dramas after get off work to go for a run or practice yoga to keep your body in a healthy state.

Use other extra time to develop hobbies and learn English, etc.

Whether it's painting or dancing, it can make your life richer.

Quietly listen to your own heart and think about the areas in which you want to improve and enrich yourself to make yourself better.

Figure out what kind of person you want to be.

And doing all this requires your persistence and hard work, but opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, when the opportunity comes to you.

It won't miss you.

Whatever your heart desires, you can do anything.

Ordinary life is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you have been making do with it.

? The most ruthless thing is time. It is so fast that we are caught off guard. Before we are ready, we are pushed forward.

And the fairest thing is time, which gives everyone the same amount of time. Thinking about it, life seems like a dream. Life lasts only a few decades, which is amazingly fast.

Even so, we still need to make good use of this time and make our time pass meaningfully instead of wasting it!

For me, life should be about trying, tossing, and fighting, so that I can be worthy of my youth and myself.