The second season of Mother-in-law and Mother-in-law truly records the modes of four groups of families, namely, Eva Huang and her mother-in-law live in harmony, Chen Songling and her mother-in-law fight wits, RoyceWong and her mother-in-law respect each other, and Patty Hou and her mother take care of each other. These four groups of families all bring different feelings and experiences to the audience, which leads to many practical topics.
Is the son's daughter-in-law's home the home of his parents-in-law? Does the daughter-in-law need to be patient in the face of her mother-in-law's difficulties? How to deal with the husband caught in the middle when the mother-in-law quarrels with her daughter-in-law?
These are all topics derived from variety shows, and they are also the most realistic and enduring topics.
Among them, the Eva Huang family has the least problem. The mode of getting along with her mother-in-law is mutual respect and respect. Both of them know how to handle the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and they will not be too afraid of each other or too bored. It is very harmonious to get along with each other, and the audience will not feel suffocated after reading it.
In fact, the harmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the effort of two people and the sacrifice of two people.
For example, Eva Huang's mother-in-law can be very casual in her hometown, without taking care of the feelings of people around her, as long as she follows her inner thoughts. But when I am with my daughter-in-law, Eva Huang, I will be more accommodating to each other, and I will also accept my emotions and reduce my needs in all aspects, so as not to cause trouble to each other.
That's why her mother-in-law didn't make Eva Huang feel bored and distant. Love is mutual, and so is respect. All the behaviors of her mother-in-law make Eva Huang feel warm. How can there be contradictions between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law?
Eva Huang's mother-in-law, who is nearly 9 years old, agreed to record a program with her son and daughter-in-law, hoping to deepen her feelings with them and see her precious grandchildren.
On weekdays, my mother-in-law lives in her hometown, while Andy and her brother An Lin live in Shanghai for school, so it's hard to meet each other. Anyone who has seen Mom is Superman knows how much Eva Huang's mother-in-law, Andy's grandmother, loves Andy, and all her love is in action.
In order to make Andy happy to play, I built an amusement park and ski resort at home. In order to make Andy eat more delicious food, my grandmother chased after him to feed him.
My eyes are full of baby grandsons, and I love them very much. Because of this, netizens envy Andy for having such a grandmother, and Eva Huang's mother-in-law has become a celebrity.
considering the problem of going to school, Andy has to go to Shanghai to study, so he can only be separated from his grandmother. Every time we leave, grandma will hide and cry secretly. Even Andy knows this. Every time he leaves, grandma hides in the bathroom to wipe her tears.
Grandma watched Andy get on the bus, and told him to come and see him when he was free. He wanted to make video calls every day, and he couldn't sleep if he didn't talk one day.
Grandma's reluctance, her various performances reminded the audience of her grandparents, which produced a strong * * * sound. Therefore, when grandma records the variety show again, the audience also expects her to appear.
Sure enough, Grandma still didn't disappoint the audience. When she entered the door, she clamoured to see her grandchildren and repeatedly asked them where they had gone.
"I see my precious grandchildren are coming", "Where are my grandchildren" and "Where are the children?" The serial questions can't wait.
When Andy and Anlin finally arrived, grandma became happy at once, and introduced the delicious food she brought from her hometown to her grandchildren one by one. Even if she was inconvenient to move, she had to wash strawberries for her grandchildren.
After washing strawberries, send them to grandchildren's mouths one by one, and take care of Andy as usual, regarding Andy as everything. Even at dinner, grandma will sit with Andy.
Of course, Grandma Andy loves not only her grandchildren, but also her son and daughter-in-law.
When Eva Huang came back from outside, she was introduced to all kinds of food brought from her hometown, such as big strawberries, Chinese cabbage, cooked corn, steamed vegetable dumplings, and wowotou.
I can see that Eva Huang is a very happy daughter-in-law.
Similarly, love goes both ways, and Eva Huang loves and respects her mother-in-law.
As soon as I entered the door, I praised my mother-in-law for her beautiful hair style, beautiful clothes and spirit, and she was too busy communicating with her mother-in-law to leave her own mother alone. In order to let her mother-in-law eat hot meals, she cooks herself, who doesn't cook on weekdays.
I also personally cooked in the Food Confessions to thank my mother-in-law for taking care of Andy and her small family. At the dinner table, Eva Huang helped her mother-in-law with food and poured her wine, which made her feel happy, interactive and loving.
In the evening, Eva Huang bathed her mother-in-law, not to mention being regarded as the apple of her eye by her family since childhood, and being held in the palm of her hand by many fans when she grew up. Even ordinary people are not willing to bathe her mother-in-law.
Eva Huang's actions touched her mother-in-law, as well as her husband, Yangzi, and the audience.
Eva Huang's mode of getting along with her mother-in-law is doomed to have no contradiction, mutual respect and love, and the audience is also warm-hearted.
Mother-in-law is a kind old man who knows how to take care of her son's daughter-in-law's emotions, but she is also very sensitive. She once asked Eva Huang to apologize for a sentence. Once, Eva Huang was at home with her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law said that she would go back to her hometown later, but Eva Huang found that her mother-in-law had not left after going out, so she said, "Mom, haven't you left yet?"
I asked my mother-in-law out of concern, and Eva Huang didn't pay attention to it. It was not until someone told her that the old lady might have misunderstood that she realized that there was something wrong with her wording, so she immediately called her mother-in-law to apologize and explained that she didn't mean to drive her away.
Because of this experience, Eva Huang pays more attention to her words every time she gets along with her mother-in-law, for fear of hurting her sensitive mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law is not a person who likes to express her grievances. Everything is hidden in her heart and outsiders don't know it. Eva Huang is even more careful. Just like this time when recording variety shows, she also deliberately avoided things and words that hurt her mother-in-law.
Everyone knows that Eva Huang's mother-in-law loves Andy very much. As a grandmother, she looks forward to seeing her eldest grandson every day, so she is happy when she sees Andy, and when Andy returns to her grandmother's house, she writes all her disappointment on her face.
When Eva Huang told her that Andy wanted to go to her classmate's house to play, grandma was even more disappointed and asked, He won't play with us?
Grandma was disappointed but didn't complain too much when she came all the way here but couldn't stay with her grandson for a long time. She was so anxious for her grandson that she wanted to sleep with her baby grandson and got up the courage to ask Eva Huang for permission.
Andy was brought up by his grandmother, and she hugged him to sleep since childhood. Now, Andy has grown up and gone to school in a big city. Grandma still hopes to hug him to sleep, and whenever he is, he is her great grandson.
It's just that when the children grow older, they also have their own social circle and study circle. Even if grandma comes home, Andy wants to go to his classmates' house to play.
When Grandma asked Eva Huang for permission, this request was ignored by Eva Huang, and it gradually disappeared.
Eva Huang didn't answer this question, and quickly changed the subject. The sensitive grandmother's next reaction was distressing. Without response, she lowered her head and ate strawberries, her face was disappointed, and she never mentioned it again.
Actually, it's not that Eva Huang doesn't want to respond to her. It's that Andy, who grew up, just wants to play with his classmates and doesn't understand his grandmother's feelings for him. Grandma misses Andy, and Eva Huang knows that, but Andy has his own choices and has to take care of his studies at the same time, so he can't rest with her.
caught in the middle, she is in a dilemma. She can't stop her son from socializing, and she can't refuse her mother-in-law in person. She is afraid that the old man will be sad, so she chooses silence. Sensitive grandma didn't ask too much, but changed the subject along with Eva Huang, and didn't mention it again. Andy didn't go home when he slept at night, and only grandma fell asleep alone.
It's comforting to miss my grandson's grandmother, which makes people think of their relatives around them for a while, but it's inevitable that children will grow up and yearn for the outside world one day.
It's rare that they don't quarrel with each other because of these things, but they understand each other and leave the best state to their families.
Conscious old people are more sensitive and don't treat themselves as outsiders like Chen Songling's mother-in-law. Eva Huang's mother-in-law is a conscious person and doesn't want to cause trouble to her children and grandchildren.
Just like taking a bath, nearly 9-year-old takes a bath at home with her daughter's help, for fear of wrestling in the bathroom. When she arrives at her daughter-in-law's house, she insists on taking a bath alone without Eva Huang's help.
First, I am shy; second, I am afraid that I will trouble Eva Huang and that Eva Huang will abandon her. The more unwilling such an old man is to cause trouble, the more painful he is, and because of her, Eva Huang treats her like her own mother.
In life, Eva Huang and her mother-in-law understand each other, which makes the family more harmonious.
Eva Huang will take her mother-in-law for a walk on the streets of Shanghai, and she will also take her mother-in-law to visit the places where she lived as a child, so that her mother-in-law can know more about herself. In this process, it is not only her mother-in-law's understanding of herself, but also Eva Huang's understanding of her mother-in-law.
Eva Huang will also feel on social platforms that her mother-in-law is old, so she should be more filial and consider her needs from her standpoint.
In a word, Eva Huang is qualified as a daughter-in-law. Of course, the mother-in-law is also a kind old man and can understand her daughter-in-law.
At the beginning of the program, her mother-in-law gave Eva Huang a hundred points. Although Eva Huang seldom went to see her, as a mother-in-law, she not only didn't have any blame, but also felt sorry for her busy work.
Eva Huang can't cook, and her mother-in-law understands her, and tells her how to do it simply and don't force herself. After cooking, she will also take the initiative to ask her if she is tired, and even express her gratitude.
When she helped her put the bath water in Eva Huang, her mother-in-law also said happily: Thank you for your concern.
When Eva Huang helped her bathe, her mother-in-law resisted at first, but she was excited and happy later.
My mother-in-law always talks about "thank you for your care and concern", "not tired" and "very happy", which shows her high EQ.
The mutual understanding and tolerance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never been difficult. Such a harmonious relationship makes the whole family happier. It is said that Eva Huang is lucky to meet such a good mother-in-law, but the so-called good life is also based on her own Excellence.
Respect your mother-in-law, understand that her mother-in-law is a sensitive person, so avoid face-to-face rejection and be filial in other ways. Such a daughter-in-law deserves her mother-in-law's kindness.
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