Be a provider of a topic, not a requester. According to different personalities, it can also be divided into the following situations.

1, slow heating type.

If you are slow-heating, there will be no topic in your chat at first, and the chat will only stay in the endless cycle of meaningless topics such as "Have you eaten" and "Go to bed early". You can talk for two or three days, but you must remember to interact with your friends. I have a person who added me, and the chat was not very good, but the interaction of friends circle made me remember this person. This method can be used flexibly, and it does not have to be a circle of friends. Slowly invade her life and accept your existence bit by bit.

2, two types.

What kind of girl is Hal? She's just with a bunch of "hahaha" or ... no or. Such a girl, you just need to interact more "hahaha". Generally speaking, she is talkative, but it is not easy to get into her heart. You may think it's a good chat, but the two of them haven't made substantial progress. Then you have to do it another way.

3. Literary types.

In fact, it is not easy to define such a sister, because she may be a combination of the above two. Literary girls generally have high eyes. In a word, "beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million." You have to be special enough to keep your soul at the same height. Look at flowers as flowers, not flowers.

In fact, sister, if you are not disgusted with you, you can take your time without stepping on a special minefield. After all, you are talking. Chatting can't be hot at first, and the ending comes quickly. Real feelings come slowly. Personal charm is really important. If you have no personal charm, please be lucky.

Of course, you can't go out to meet for less than a week, unless you are very happy, you may consider meeting, but I am really moved by the behavior of not asking for dinner and movies. Don't ask out if you don't know your sister well. There is an infinite loop here. Some people think that I can't talk about anything, so I can only meet and show my charm. Some people think it is a very wrong idea not to ask my sister to talk about what she is doing. Don't touch the minefield.