Our family is happy to have a new house.

Two sets, good location, good floors, suitable size, happy.

At the dinner table, my husband and father-in-law were happily talking about the decoration.

My father-in-law heard someone say that there is a new kind of wallpaper now. "This wallpaper is great, beautiful, moisture-proof, and most importantly, cheap. It can be applied directly in one piece, which is very convenient." My husband said, "Who still uses wallpaper nowadays? You

I don’t need to ask too much. Wallpaper is hard to put on, easy to warp, and troublesome to replace. I don’t want it.” “What you’re talking about is old-fashioned wallpaper. Mine is new and different.” “No matter whether it’s new or old, wallpaper is the same.

They are almost the same, but the medicine is different."... Neither of them could convince the other, and in the end they had no conclusion. 2. My mobile phone has been used for about three years. Recently, the battery has become particularly weak and lags. It's so...

I have been using the Android system for many years, and every time I changed my phone because of lag, I always said that Apple is very smooth, so I wanted to try an Apple instead.

"Husband, I want to change to an Apple phone." "Why do I need to change my phone?" "It's stuck. It's very stuck. They say Apple is smooth. I want to try switching to Apple." "Electronic devices are the same after being used for a long time.

If you spend two to three thousand yuan to get a new mobile phone, you can get a new one in two or three years. How about Apple? If you spend six to seven thousand yuan, can you use it for six years? ""Do you know the feel?" "Actually?

They are almost the same, and Apple’s system will remain the same after being used for a long time."...3 In fact, you are right, and so am I, we are just different.

My father-in-law has never used wallpaper, so naturally he can't tell the quality of wallpaper.

His only source of information was from people who had used the new wallpaper.

My husband has never used wallpaper, but it is easier and faster for young people to obtain information. Not only can they ask friends around them, but there is also a huge amount of Internet information that can be consulted and learned from. However, in the end, this is also the experience of others.

It's not about right or wrong, it just depends on what you believe.

4. Everyone is unconsciously affected by the people and environment around them as they grow up.

Everyone is like a blank sheet of paper when they are born.

There is no so-called cognition, judgment, concept, or belief.

Your parents tell you that drinking milk is good. You accept this information and drink it every day. You think it tastes good. Your mother says that it is because of drinking milk that you don’t get sick and you grow taller.

Slowly and over time, I formed the belief that milk is good for the body.

However, some people are allergic to milk, and their understanding of milk is exactly the opposite to yours. They believe that "you must never touch milk."

For a child, it doesn't matter what the facts are, it's the feelings that matter.

Because in the world of little children, they are not yet capable of judging right from wrong, good from bad.

They will not eat more green peppers because they are good for the body. They will just think that this food is delicious, so I will eat more.

However, we cannot ignore these feelings. It is these first feelings that establish a person's most primitive view of the world and form the most primitive reaction to the outside world. If there is no one to guide, children will often form some wrong perceptions.

For example, when faced with their parents' divorce, children will attribute themselves to themselves and think that they are not good enough.

For example, if a younger brother or younger sister is added to the family, and seeing the mother's love for the younger siblings, she will think that her parents no longer love her.

What Wuyi people are looking for throughout their lives is a sense of belonging and value.

If a child does not have a sense of belonging and value in his or her family of origin, he or she will be easily isolated after going to school and may feel tired of studying and feel that his or her abilities are low.

And once you feel accepted, it's like the endless abyss suddenly has light and an end. Even if you fall down, you will believe that there will be someone below to hold you up.

Because he knows that there are people in this world who fully understand me, tolerate me unconditionally, and will not leave me just because I did something wrong or said something wrong.

With the belief of being supported and accepted, you can regain your courage and continue moving forward.

Six, you are right and so am I, we are just different.

We are different not because I want to go against you, we are different not because I want to win you, we are different just because we grew up in different environments, we are different just because of the beliefs we formed due to different growth environments.

different.

I’m not trying to “win” you;

Everyone will think that their beliefs are right. When facing different voices, they will instinctively firmly believe in and defend their beliefs.

Because we actually rarely hear different voices. After hearing them, we will think these voices are ridiculous. If we calm down and think carefully, we will feel that these voices seem to make sense. This will challenge our own values ??that have been solid and unbreakable for many years.

, this feeling of turmoil is unacceptable, so more people will choose to close their ears, not think, and strengthen their own walls.