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"I am willing to ride the wind and waves, just for the fireworks in the world" I liked this book by Brother Qing, initially because of the title, which I found to be very healing.

Riding the wind and waves is bound to have an upward momentum; the fireworks in the world are even more down-to-earth, and it seems that you can smell the steaming soup on the stove in the kitchen.

01. Working hard is to give yourself the right to have more choices

When a person should do something at any time, just try his best, not when he should work hard. If you choose comfort and let yourself go, you will deviate from the right track.

If you do what you should do well, you will have more opportunities to do what you like to do in the future, so you must distinguish the priorities.

I read a story about a boy in high school who was obsessed with cooking. He didn’t want to go to school and wanted to learn to be a chef. His father said: I respect your choice, but the prerequisite is that you must read After college, I will support you in whatever you want to do, even if you raise pigs and geese.

I just want you to understand that when you have knowledge, your choices will be mature, and you will also have more choices!

When a person works hard enough to have enough ability and capital to choose for himself, all the initiative is in his own hands, and he has enough confidence and strength in his life and future.

When accumulating energy, don’t be anxious. It takes time to hone your abilities and skills.

Even the farmer uncles know that spring is the season for sowing, and fruits can be harvested in autumn. Everything has a process, and as long as you work hard, everything will fall into place.

If you want a cheating life and live your life according to your own wishes, then put your knowledge first and invest in yourself first.

02. Growth is a lifelong thing

Everyone’s life will have unsatisfactory times, especially after becoming a parent, there are seniors and juniors, and a heavy burden on the shoulders. More and more, if you encounter problems in the workplace or business, you will feel even more stressed.

There is a neighbor whose sister is over 40 years old this year. She is pampered by her parents at home, and her husband hurt her after she got married. She never goes to the kitchen for three meals a day, and she doesn’t know how to pay the utility bills at home.

Suddenly one day, her husband passed away in a car accident. This sister felt that her world suddenly fell. She didn’t know how to live her life. She cried all day long. There was no other way, so she returned to live at her parents’ house.

She started by learning to cook and do housework, gradually growing up and finding confidence in life.

It’s a good thing to have someone to love you, but you can’t do nothing. Those necessary survival skills are a person’s strength and courage when facing difficulties. Only by learning to prepare for a rainy day can you be strong in the long road of life. Move forward.

Growth is a required course in life. Only by constantly improving yourself can you be able to withstand the various surprises and horrors that life brings.

Life has its ups and downs, and destiny has its ups and downs. No matter what happens, if you have enough strength to face it calmly, then the final outcome will not be too bad.

03. No matter what situation you are in, you must love yourself well

When we step on the moonlight and return home every day, we must give ourselves a hug and love ourselves before we can love This world, love everything around you.

We have all experienced difficulties at work, criticism from leaders, being squeezed out by colleagues, and being urged to move by landlords. We have to face them one by one and cannot escape.

We can have temporary mood swings, but we cannot stay in negative emotions for a long time, because we can’t lose our mood no matter what we lose.

Make yourself a cup of coffee or a pot of soup, smell the strong smell, and your mood will be different. When warmth and strength are injected into your limbs, you will be resurrected with full blood, and you will be able to resurrect yourself. Put on the jersey and go out, and the results will be different.

Love yourself well and let yourself be a person who can taste life. You will have different experiences of the sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty tastes. This is the taste of life.

It is hidden in every porridge, every meal, every vegetable and every vegetable. Treat your taste buds well. Even a simple breakfast can make you happy throughout the day.

Learn to be kind to yourself. If you have the right opportunity, give yourself a vacation, travel to see a bigger and more exciting world, see the sky and the earth, meet all living beings, and get to know another self in a parallel world. There will be unexpected gains.

"I am willing to ride the wind and waves, just for the sake of time and fireworks" allows us to see our own shadow and know how to love, live and grow in order to live up to our lives. It also lets us know how to Only by working hard can you meet your better self.

I like the paragraph about the girdle:

If you want to be in a daze, don’t force yourself to work hard;

If you want to enjoy delicious food, don’t worry about calories;

If you want to go out for a walk, go now, immediately, immediately.

Go see the busy world, taste the various flavors of the world,

Go experience the human world, and look for fireworks in the world.

To feel and live, do not let down others when you love, do not let down the scenery when playing, do not let down the bed when sleeping, and do not let down yourself when you are alone.

May you ride the wind and waves just for the sake of fireworks in the world.

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