16 table manners must be taught to children!
1. Pre-meal preparation
Before eating, let the children help place the dishes, chopsticks, and After the dishes are ready, children can invite their elders to dine, and remember to wash their hands before eating.
2. Invite the elders to sit down first and let the elders eat first
Respecting the elderly is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Parents should set a good example at ordinary times. When eating, invite the elders in the family to sit down first, and Serve the meal to the elders first.
3. Encourage children to help family members and elders pick up vegetables and serve meals
After the child completes the task, parents can praise the child by saying, "Mom, I found that you are very good at taking care of others."
4. Hold chopsticks correctly
It is best to talk to your children about the origin of chopsticks and teach them to use chopsticks correctly. Our ancestors invented chopsticks, a prop that can be used for all kinds of food. It contains the profound essence of traditional culture of adapting to constant changes and responding to complexity with simplicity, which we must inherit.
5. Don’t comment negatively on food
Don’t complain that the food others have worked so hard to prepare for you doesn’t taste good, and don’t make any rude comments. Enjoy every meal we have with a grateful heart.
6. Standardize sitting posture
At the dining table, children should sit up straight and maintain a straight posture. Not only does this look good, it’s also good for children’s digestion.
When eating, hold the bowl in one hand and cutlery in the other. Don’t lower your head to eat. Don’t rest your elbows on the table. Place your legs under the table. Keep your feet as even as possible. Do not cross your feet and keep them in line with the table. It is better to keep a certain distance so that utensils can be used easily.
7. Don’t bang the bowls and chopsticks or make loud noises when eating
Knocking the bowls, chopsticks and making loud noises are very uncultured behaviors. It is disrespectful to others and will cause the tablemates to eat. people's disgust and disgust.
8. Avoid tossing and turning on the plate
When picking up vegetables, it is not advisable to pick up too many dishes at one time. Eat what is on your plate before picking up the dishes.
Don’t rummage around on the plate just to pick out the dishes you like. Some people even pick out all the dishes they like and leave the unpalatable ones for others. This is very rude and seems selfish.
9. Try not to make any noise when eating
Chew slowly when eating and do not speak while the meal is in your mouth; do not suck with your mouth when drinking soup to prevent making noise .
10. Remember the etiquette of using chopsticks
Do not put chopsticks in your mouth or lick them, do not hold chopsticks in your hands and search around the table; do not pass over others to pick up food. Put chopsticks in the food. Do not point the chopsticks at others or use them to play or fight. Do not put the food back again.
11. Do not engage in uncivilized behavior in public
Tell your children to cover their mouth with one hand when coughing or sneezing, and to use a napkin or hand when picking their teeth or picking their nose. Block it so as not to disturb the appetite of other guests present.
12. How to eat is very important
Don’t waste food, eat as much as you can, learn to divide the food into small bites and eat it, do not bite or chew the whole piece, or eat the same food. Barbaric. Use chopsticks or paper towels to pick up the fish bones, bones and vegetable scraps you spit out. Do not spit them directly onto the table.
13. Teach your children to use honorifics, such as please and thank you
When someone hands a dish to your child, smile and say thank you. If family and friends gather together for a meal during the Chinese New Year, they will inevitably drink alcohol to add to the fun. Parents can encourage children to toast to their elders with drinks or boiled water, and say toasts such as "Happy New Year and good health."
14. Don’t do other things while eating
Meal time is a time for family and friends to get together and communicate. Remind children not to play with toys, watch TV, or play games while eating. iPad, try to keep children from leaving their seats and moving around during meals.
Mom and dad should also set an example by not using mobile phones.
15. Express gratitude to the person who prepared the food after a meal
Express gratitude to the person who prepared the food. This is not only polite, but also grateful.
16. What should you do after eating?
If you want to leave the table first after eating, you should say hello to the elders and help clean the table, put away the dishes or wash the dishes after the meal.
This is also a basic etiquette.
If the child finishes eating first, he should stand up and say to everyone, "I have eaten, please take your time" before leaving the table.