The "pot-bellied" teacher Huang is back again.
"Noodles with scallion oil", "Braised lion's head", "Three fresh potatoes" and "Pickled bamboo shoots" ... No, no, I can't stand it.
How about? Order a takeaway to calm down the panic
Teacher Huang is not only a good cook in the program, but also an out-and-out "home cook" at home.
It is said that no matter how busy you are at work, you must try to go home and cook every day.
After all, there are four hungry mouths at home waiting for him to feed.
In addition to Duoduo, his younger sister, his younger brother who came last, and his wife, Sun Li.
Sun Li, yes, she is now called "Huang Lei's wife Sun Li" the most, not "actress Sun Li".
Although she graduated from Beijing Film Academy and made her debut as an actress, she has been performing the drama "Peach Blossom Garden in Secret Love" in recent years.
When it comes to actress Sun Li, more people are strangers.
Also, after marriage, she seldom appeared, and devoted herself to teaching her children at home, becoming the woman behind Huang Lei.
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Sun Li grew up in a well-off family and was sent to learn dance by her parents when she was very young.
Sun Li under the care of her parents is like a little princess.
Huang Lei recalled on the show that when Sun Li, who was 18 years old, came to Beijing Film Examination, she just sat there, and her father helped with everything before and after running.
They also met in this exam.
That year, Huang Lei was 24 years old, and she was still a graduate student at Beijing Film.
Huang Lei, who helped in the examination room, saw Sun Li in the crowd at a glance, because "she sat there and was different".
At that time, Huang Lei made up her mind that if she was admitted, I would definitely chase her.
Sure enough, Sun Li was admitted.
One day two months later, Huang Lei greeted his roommates in advance and asked them to come back later today because he "had a big event to do".
Huang Lei has an appointment with Sun Li.
He cut to the chase.
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
? "No."
? "I don't have a girlfriend either, so if you think it's ok, let's fall in love!" ?
Seeing that Sun Li blushed and bowed her head, fearing that she wouldn't agree, Huang Lei quickly said, "If you want to agree, just nod, if you don't agree, just shake your head."
? As a result, Sun Li nodded like a garlic.
The relationship between the two is also smooth sailing. During the period of love, Huang Lei was considerate to Sun Li, and arranged everything.
Sun Li likes to eat cold tofu, and Huang Lei keeps it in mind. This dish is indispensable for every meal.
When they go out to play by bike, they are afraid that Sun Li will catch herself, and Huang Lei will put a towel on the back seat cushion.
The poster in Sun Li's dormitory was also nailed by Huang Lei.
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1999, Sun Li graduated from the Film Academy and became an actress.
In the same year, Huang Lei starred in the TV series April Day on Earth, playing the talented poet Xu Zhimo.
Huang Lei is also popular all over the country because of this image.
The two wanted to get married after Sun Li graduated, but later they were delayed because of "the first year of the century is not suitable for marriage" and SARS.
Finally, on March 8, 2004, the two officially received the certificate in Haidian District Civil Affairs Bureau.
In 2006, their first baby, daughter Huang Duoduo, was born.
In the year when Sun Li was pregnant, Huang Lei put down all the work at hand, concentrated on staying at home with his wife for labor, and started Sun Li's "yellow kitchen" wholeheartedly.
Beautiful boy, who used to sing "I think I am the sea, the sea in winter, and my mood is light with the wind", has since been willing to be "washing my hands to make the bridal soup" for someone.
After marriage, Sun Li never cooks, not because she is lazy. Huang Lei explained that "I'm afraid she will cut her hands".
He cooked, and she praised him. It seems pretty good, too.
Although she is not interested in cooking, Sun Li's baking skills are first-class, and even Huang Lei is full of praise. The baking works that I have worked with my daughter a lot also look decent.
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Sun Li is very tall, full of 172cm. But she has a tall figure and a long neck. The whole person's manners are very good.
This has a great relationship with practicing dance since childhood.
The tall Sun Li gives the impression that she is very gentle and serene. ?
Someone recalled the scene when Sun Ligang joined the group for filming, and said that Sun Li was very gentle and restrained. When she was not acting on the set, she was always quiet. Even if she laughed, she felt like a little jasper, just like Huang Lei, who was lively and outgoing.
The personalities of the two people are really quite different.
Huang Lei is a caring and talkative person, while Sun Li doesn't like talking, so she just sits there quietly.
The two people get along very well.
Knowing one thing and being quiet, this is not only reflected in their behavior, but also in their personality. Just as the two complement each other, they influence each other and get along with each other very tacitly and easily.
Huang Lei himself said that in the more than 20 years with Sun Li, they almost never quarreled.
It is really "you are joking, she is laughing".
In "A Woman Like My Wife", Huang Lei wrote that "in daily life, she almost never interferes with my work, and I don't like asking her. Since we were young, we have developed the habit of giving each other independent space".
With complementary personalities and knowing how to give each other space, it is no wonder that Huang Lei said that in their love life for more than 20 years, they almost never quarreled.
After having children, Sun Li slowly faded out of the entertainment circle.
Men live outside and women live inside, and their lives are dull and comfortable.
I think it is because there is too much happiness and more people need to share it. In 20 17, their third baby was born.
Sun Li's Weibo is also a quiet and good painting style. Besides drying babies, she is drying her husband and food.
Sun Li, 42, has regained her hobby of dancing. po is on Weibo. In the video, she is slim, beautiful, girlish and envious of others.
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In recent years, the attention of Huang Lei's family on the Internet is very high, and Sun Li has naturally been pushed to the public's eyes.
Many people criticized Sun Li, saying that she was "doing nothing". An actress didn't act well, but she became a housewife at home.
It seems that we have always been deeply hostile to the word "housewife".
In our habitual thinking, the word housewife means failure, no status and sallow face.
Since when has being a housewife become a guilty thing?
Being a housewife doesn't mean being idle at home.
Like all jobs in the world, it also requires physical and mental labor.
Fukuhara Ai, a retired Japanese table tennis player, once told his coach that since he was very young, his dream was to marry a husband and wait for him to go home every day and cook for him.
Sure enough, after retiring, Ai Jiang soon married a wife, and now she has two little babies.
Last year, when I filmed "The Trio of Happiness" with my husband, their sweet interaction was also frequently searched.
In fact, a society that truly respects women recognizes the value created by women and women have the right to choose.
As a woman, no one will discuss whether she is a housewife or a corporate executive.
As long as she is creating value, she deserves to be respected.
Because of this, women are free to choose their favorite and good jobs.
For Sun Li, isn't a happy family and three lively and lovely children the best proof of her achievements?
When her daughter appeared on the show, she was even more numerous, so Huang Lei was nicknamed "the national father-in-law".
Sun Li contributed a lot to teaching such a versatile, considerate, kind and responsible daughter at an early age.
Her own answer is the best proof.
When a reporter asked Sun Li if she cared about the title "Huang Lei's wife", she answered very wisely and frankly, "We are inseparable, and what I have is his and what he has is mine. His achievements are my pride. "
Yes, even if the eagle spreads its wings, it can't do without the help of the wind. But the wind, it is never silent.
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Sun Li said that she is a person without goals. Everything goes with the flow and is not forced.
I am also lazy about acting, and I have no extravagant hopes.
But this "aimless" person has become the happiest person in the world.
At home, I have a father's pet, and when I get married, I have a husband's pet.
Why can Sun Li?
When I set about writing her, I had another thought.
"Are we asking too much of ourselves?"
As women of this era, we demand or are required to be excellent in everything, successful in everything, capable of writing and martial arts and pervasive.
But have we really settled down and asked ourselves, what exactly do you need?
Perhaps, because we strive for everything to go smoothly, we miss the real beauty instead; Maybe a good thing is a magnet. If you have one thing, the others will come unexpectedly.
Finally, dear you, I don't want to say "I hope you live like Sun Li", but please be happy.