First, the long drought meets the rain.
After a long drought, it means that what you longed for has finally been obtained. It seems that something has finally arrived, and later generations often use it to describe the sudden arrival of something urgently needed. In today's life, we often encounter some difficulties, and some things are suddenly solved, just like a long drought meets rain. Isn't it wonderful?
Second, meet an old friend in another country.
The second happy thing is to meet an old friend in another country. This is because in ancient times, traffic was very inconvenient. Unlike now, people can take the high-speed train by plane in distant places and take the bus or car in nearby places.
In ancient times, the traffic was inconvenient, and it was difficult to meet people from hometown when going out, so it was really a surprise to meet an old friend in a foreign country at that time, and it felt like seeing relatives. This is why it is the second happy event!
Third, the wedding night.
The third happy event, the wedding night, is definitely the most important of the four happy events in life, whether it is ancient or modern, so some people even think that the wedding night is the happiest event.
Fourth, be the first time.
The fourth happy event is to be the first. Whether in modern or ancient times, people have been studying hard for ten years at the cold window, and finally they are the first day for themselves, the first time for themselves, and the second time for their parents. In ancient times, the imperial examination was the only way to realize their ten-year hard study and another gradient in life.
When I was on the gold list, I gave myself an account of my efforts for so many years. The harder the goal is, the stronger the sense of accomplishment and joy will be. Therefore, being the first will be one of the greatest happy events in life.
Related life insights:
Life, long or short, always goes through many things. As the saying goes, many things grind people. In our life, we have experienced many happy events and many difficulties. In fact, we should keep a good attitude and enterprising spirit in our daily life, so as to make our life more colorful.
Struggle for one's own goals, in order to live out the four happy events in life, in fact, look back at one's own struggle process, which can be used as a talk after dinner when one is old. Is it beautiful and fast?
The meaning of life is what live high likes, and he has no regrets all his life. On the road of life, leave some time for yourself to pursue your dreams. Create a better living environment with both hands and give yourself a richer spiritual home. Whenever, refuse to pay too much.