It can be seen from a letter from home that Mr. Fu Lei is not only a wise, knowledgeable and upright scholar, but also a careful, kind and strict parent. In my opinion, Mr. Fu Lei is a successful father first, and then a well-known scholar. In those letters, there are not only his meticulous care for children, but also his kind encouragement and strict requirements. He will always pay attention to Fu Cong's piano study, praising his achievements and criticizing the problems. It was his father who, through inculcation, inspired and urged Fu Cong to keep advancing on the road of art.
Yes, it is the aspiration of parents all over the world to wish their children success, which is always reflected in the exhortation.
So is the father of saints. After Wang Yangming's father, Wang Hua, saw that Wang Yangming was appointed as a new doctor, a doctor of Guanglu and an official of Nanjing Ministry of War, he said to Wang Yangming: The responsibility is great, so we must be modest and prudent. Later, Wang Yangming followed his father's advice, but after all, he did not jump into the trap of the courtiers and escaped the disaster.
Aren't we ordinary people like this? My father once said to me in a conversation: at your age, you are indomitable, but remember not to be too impetuous. It is actually a very clever thing to look back on the past once in a while. At this time, I am very distressed and helpless. I just wanted to bite the bullet and use brute force to clear the way, but I failed. Dad is using this sentence to remind me to look at the difficulties I have overcome in the past, sum up my experiences and lessons carefully, and then go all out to overcome them. Finally, after a period of thinking and hard work, I successfully broke through the bottleneck.
It is Mr. Fu Lei's concern and teaching for his son that solidified every line of words with the pen in his hand. Father's love is particularly delicate and touching between the lines.
Every sentence reminds me of my father's love. It is the exhortation of the poet Du Zimei to educate his son to improve his literary quality. The poet Lu You told his son the importance of practice. It is Zhuge Liang's expectation for his son to be able to cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order and rule the country. These words are the father's teaching to his son and the father's expectation to the younger generation, which contains deep and sincere fatherly love.
Fatherly love is not as gentle as maternal love, but as great, selfless and strong as maternal love. If maternal love is a clear spring, fatherly love is a deep rock. Being firm and persistent in silence gives us the strength to move forward.
Fu Lei's letter touched me much more than that. I will always remember this book, remember what my father taught his son, and remember such a father. Maybe I can't be as successful as Fu Cong, but I will try my best. Let my father be proud of having an industrious and sensible son.
Thank you for your letter from Fu Lei! It was you who showed me the great father and made me really understand the mountain that my father loved.
Notes on reading Fu Lei's letters II
A letter from Fu Lei? This must be a letter from Fu Lei. Then which family are these letters addressed to? What will he write in the letter? I took a series of questions and opened the book to find the answer.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I found the answer to the question from the book. Originally, this letter from Fu Lei was written by Fu Lei and his wife to their son Fu Cong and daughter-in-law Milla, edited by their second son Fu Min. The purpose of the Fu Lei couple writing these letters is nothing more than to express their parents' concern for their children. These letters began in 1954 when Fu Cong went to Poland to study, and ended in1June, 966 when Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei committed suicide. In the past 12 years, Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei wrote more than 100 letters to their son Fu Cong and daughter-in-law Milla. They showed modern people how to educate their children correctly with practical actions.
The author Fu Lei's educational method makes me feel refreshed. His way of education is different from that of modern parents. His love for his son is rational. He cares and understands his children in his own way. However, some parents spoil their children too much, even spoil them, which often leads to their being self-centered and arrogant. In the end, it will only backfire and make them lose at the starting line.
So how should parents love their children correctly without doting on them? The book of fu jialei answers for you. First of all, we should respect children and don't make decisions for them without authorization. Respect for others is the premise of being a man. If a person can't even do this little thing well, it can only prove that his life is a failure and meaningless. Secondly, we should instill correct values in children and don't let them go astray. Young and frivolous children always make mistakes and need a guide to guide them to the light and illuminate the darkness. Parents are the beacon of children's growth. Whenever a child is in trouble, parents must be the first person to help you solve the problem regardless. Stop saying that your parents don't care about you. They're just silently protecting you in ways you don't know. Finally, encourage children to do what they want to do and do what they like. The journey of growing up must be difficult, so children must want to give up, but as long as you give them proper encouragement, they will have a strong motivation. It's like a game. The enemy always comes at you in waves. Only by constantly throwing weapons at the enemy and destroying them will you have a chance to pass the checkpoint.
When we were young, we always grew up under the generous wings of our parents and could live a carefree life. However, it is impossible for everyone to live as a child, children will grow up and parents will get old. This is the unchangeable law in the world. If you can't grow from a small seedling to a big tree, you will be blown down by the storm sooner or later and die from now on. Even if your parents are willing to help you, it can only be weak. But you have the heart to watch your elderly parents break their hearts for you, and you have to clean up your mess when you are old, so you can't enjoy your old age? If you can't bear it, please make a strong tree and protect the old tree with sparse branches.
Vivi, please thrive and protect that old tree that has been sheltering you from the wind and rain.
Notes on Fu Lei's Reading Letters 3
My son went abroad to study, and my father stayed in the motherland. The two places don't know thousands of miles, so letters from home have become their way of conveying love. No matter where they are, that feeling will never change.
After reading the whole book, I still vividly remember this sentence: A naked child doesn't know loneliness. If he is lonely, he will create a world. As he said, you should have a pure heart, stick to what you love and work hard for what you yearn for. Throughout the book, Fu Lei is conveying this spiritual wealth to Fu Cong. Instill. Thanks for your hard work.
Fu Lei can be described as loving to the extreme and caring everywhere. From the placement of a suit to the size of curtains at home, there are photos in the letter; From concerts to emotional marriages. Remember the words in the letter and always give help. The deep fatherly love makes people move. The beginning of a letter always counts the interval between letters, the number of letters received last time, and the exact date and number, which is full of thoughts. Besides caring about life, Fu Lei also likes to talk about art with Fu Cong. At this time, he regarded his son as an old friend, discussing poetry culture, the expression of painting emotion, the difference between classical and western art, and the skills when playing the piano. It can be described as hearty. After their quarrel, Fu Lei wrote, "I will always give you an alarm and be a faithful mirror. My father just wants to be your shadow. I want to help you and protect you anytime and anywhere. " . Don't bore you with this mirror. Indeed, Fu Lei's love was too meticulous and bound his son. Therefore, he reflected that he had written this passage. It's a little sad to read, but it's also a microcosm of how many parents love their children deeply, but he is afraid of boring them. If we say that this meticulous care is a gentle breeze and drizzle, it will slowly moisten the children's hearts, and a severe reminder will make love stronger. He once criticized Fu Cong's temper, Fu Cong's bad habits and frequent concerts. But the reminder is to make him better. Parents want to make their children better, so sometimes criticism can make people progress more than praise.
The love between Fu Lei and Fu Cong is quiet, pure and charming, which makes me unforgettable for a long time and reminds me of my father.
He is not good at words and always cares about me silently. But as I grow up, my communication with my father seems to be less. On the day of school, I used to go back to my room after dinner. In the dark, I rubbed my pen on the white paper, leaving traces of struggle. Time passes by, but in less than an hour, my father always knocks on the door gently and pushes it away slowly, as if afraid to wake the sleeping child, puts a cup of tea on the table, goes straight out, and then slowly closes the door. This seems to be an unwritten rule at home. Day after day, this cup of tea seems to be our silent love. Shallow tea fragrance around me, floating into the shape of love, overflowing the room, accompanying me through the long night, giving me silent warmth.
My father loves nothing, but he can let me know that no matter how things change, there will always be someone with me.
I don't want to splash ink, this is a father-son relationship.