Children in kindergarten after the expenses will become bigger, not only to pay for the child care fees, kindergarten from time to time will also organize some activities, where to go to play, or to give the child a unified order of high-grade milk, in short, all need to be paid by parents.

Some parents are happy to accept this fee, but some refuse, thinking that the kindergarten to get all these are to eat kickbacks, especially for the child to order high-grade milk, so that parents pay the money is high, so there are parents do not give their children to pay.

About the kindergarten fees, in addition to the nursery fees and food costs are required to pay, the rest are voluntary, pay the child will have, do not pay the child is not, is so simple a reason, the kindergarten does not have a hard and fast rules.

Teachers send children drink milk video, the only thing that can not find the son, the teacher replied to the parents difficult

Bo Xuan's kindergarten recently began to give the child fixed milk, the mother felt that the kindergarten fixed is not as good as their own home to buy, so they did not give Bo Xuan fixed, every day to Bo Xuan from home to bring a bag of milk, the mother thought that there must be a parent is also like this, but did not want to only Bo Xuan! I'm sure there are parents who feel the same way, but I didn't realize that Bo Xuan was the only one who didn't order it.

The teacher sent a video of the children drinking milk to the class group one day, and Bo Xuan's mother watched it several times but couldn't find her son, thinking that the teacher was treating him differently because he didn't have a milk order, so she asked the teacher, and the teacher replied that Bo Xuan refused to take the video when he saw that he was not the same as the other children and didn't drink his own milk. The teacher's response was that "Bo Xuan saw that his milk was different from the other children's and refused to make a video and did not drink his own milk.

Hearing this, the mother was a little heartbroken, not realizing that her decision would bring harm to Bo Xuan. At the end of the school day, she got the same answer from Bo Xuan, and decided to pay for her child to drink the same milk as the other children.

In fact, many parents have encountered this situation, there are quite a few words about it, even if you pay the money but the heart is still uncomfortable, the parents are suspicious of the main reasons are these.

1. Feel the kindergarten in the charge

Many kindergartens in the enrollment of the time, not to charge for the standard, so once the kindergarten let the parents pay, although there is no hard and fast rule must be, but the parents still feel that the kindergarten in the charge, and the parents also do not know the real price of the milk, suspect that the teacher is in the eat kickbacks.

2. Milk quality is not guaranteed

Parents are also concerned that some kindergartens order milk for their children, parents have never heard of this brand, the kindergarten is good to say, but who can guarantee the quality? In case there is a black hearted kindergarten, take some inferior products to the children to drink how to do.

3. Children do not like to drink white money

Some children at home do not like to drink milk, so parents do not give the child fixed, for fear of wasting money, parents can understand the mood of thrift, but the child has a kind of other people's things are good psychology, so the child will not eat at home, to the kindergarten to see the other children in the eat, they will want.

Children in the kindergarten, parents had better not make special good, the child will not understand the heart of the parents, the child sees only their own and other children are not the same, so in order to let the child's mental health, parents sometimes still have to spare money.

What are the bad effects of having a child in kindergarten who is "special"?

1. The child hierarchical differentiation, that they are not as good as others

The child's mind is not so mature, when you see other children have only their own time, will automatically hierarchical differentiation, that they are not as good as others, parents save money at this time, is to hurt the child's heart "a knife", even if the adults face this disparity, they will be able to see the child's heart and mind. Even adults, in the face of this gap, the heart will be more or less uncomfortable, not to mention the children.

2. Children are discriminated against by children

In the world of children, there is no consideration of so much, the child sees only have and have not, if only a child does not have, then the other children will laugh at him, although the child is not malicious, but the heart of the sensitive children more or less affected, the child's self-esteem has been very strong, and once laughed at by other children, it will be very aggrieved, and the child's self-esteem is very strong. The child's self-esteem is already very strong, and once he is ridiculed by other children, he will be very aggrieved.

For the kindergarten need to pay another money for things, parents have a must be normal, but suggested that parents had better pay the money for the child, otherwise the impact on the child is really great, if the price is too expensive, parents can not afford a moment, you can give the child to change the park, do not let the child because of this matter affects the health of the body and mind.

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