Quarrel between lovers has a certain influence on feelings. How much does it affect feelings? It depends on whether two people say anything embarrassing when they quarrel.

Frequent quarrels will make good feelings disappear. Get along well and try not to quarrel.

We old couple have never quarreled for years. Never blushed. At most, I just don't like to hear each other talk, and no one talks to anyone for a few days.

Later, our unit met an old lady. Knowing that we hadn't spoken for a few days, she called us together and said:

"How lucky this young couple is! Love has made you meet in my life. Love is not enough, why are you still angry? "

"The young couple is angry, who also ignore who. In fact, whoever speaks first is the strong one! "

The elder sister's words have made our couple almost useful for life! We will be married for 50 years next year, and we have never quarreled or got angry in person.

One side said "rush", which was not pleasant to hear, and the other side immediately changed the subject and stopped talking.

In that conversation, the elder sister told us something that made her very sad: the elder sister was the old star of our troupe. Her sisters are the pillars around her. An actress who plays "Baby Life" is called "Xiaoyangzi" (a cross-dressing actress disguised as a man). In a modern play, Xiaoyangzi plays a boy (a boy in the play) and unfortunately dies. The hero picked up the boy, sang a few words and walked to the center of the stage. At that time, when rehearsing, Xiao Yangzi's lover suddenly came over at the band's place (he was accompanied by the band) to stop the design of this stage action. He can't stand his lover being picked up by another man to sing a few words. At that time, many actors advised Xiao Yangzi's lover to stop fooling around. The acting skills of the troupe are all fake, so why take them seriously? But no one can say that Xiao Yangzi's lover wants to change the plot of this scene and can't let the actor pick up the little soldier. Xiao Yangzi was really angry with her lover at that time, and they quarreled at the scene. The boy angrily said:

"You have to hit this little soldier, then you don't blame me for being rude! Here we go! Play whatever you want! Out of sight, out of mind! "

At that time, Xiao Yangzi was also very angry:

"It seems that whoever leaves can't live!"

Then the two really broke up. The boy later found Yoko with remorse and admitted his mistake, but Yoko told him, "It's too late for you to say this! You were rehearsing. Why haven't you thought about the consequences? ! I will never make up with you again in my life! "

The elder sister and some of her sisters tried their best to make up for the young couple.

A couple had an irreconcilable quarrel.

No one can exaggerate, whether it is a couple or a young couple. When the noise reaches its climax, some unpleasant things may appear:

"You have today, not just by my relationship? Without me, you are nothing today! " If you have such a similar language, you will completely deny the subjective efforts of one party for many years and attribute all the achievements to yourself. This kind of discourse is a very sensitive language. If one party doesn't say anything, the other party will always be grateful. Once said, it will make the parties lose face. This language cannot be spoken under any circumstances! After that, have fun. In fact, this phenomenon will hurt the truest feelings between couples. )

There are also young couples who say the language that their families are most unwilling to hear when quarreling:

"What does this mean in your home? ! I have to write my parents' names when buying a house, which obviously excludes me! ! ! "(One party pooled all the money in the family for a lifetime and bought a wedding room for the children to get married. I'm afraid that young couple quarreled and got divorced. If you don't do this, the other party will take away half of the house. So, I came up with a' go all out' plan, not to write the name of the young couple, but to write that the old man is the master. This idea is actually a helpless move. The house hasn't been built yet. Why write her name on it? Take half the ownership of the house? If two people have a good life, isn't this property owned by the young couple? )

Don't hit people in the face, don't say anything. How can two people be together all day without contradiction? Solve contradictions with contradictions. Talk about things, don't dwell on old scores. Just turn this page and you'll be fine.

Don't turn over old scores when quarreling, these are all things that affect feelings.

Between lovers, it should be "mutual respect and mutual accommodation." You can't call a spade a spade. Frequent quarrels do great harm to your feelings.