When I was a child, my father and mother taught me that in order to become a strong person in life, I must learn to be strong, persistent and never give up. With this belief I walked through the student years, strong life, persistent pursuit, never give up, become a good student in the eyes of the teacher. However, when I gradually tried to live independently, I realized that I could not develop more hobbies, could not realize some good wishes, and could not get good grades in some aspects. I used to doubt myself for this and the power of never giving up, until a teacher told me that there is a kind of strength called giving up. He said that human beings have limited time and energy, and it is impossible to have the potential to be tapped in all areas, and very often we need to learn to give up. Giving up does not mean a dereliction of duty to life; it is an opportunity for life. Because a complete rejection of a direction, you never need to waste energy thinking and judgment, but can have more self, that is also a kind of "liberation".

In fact, learning to give up is more rare than learning to persist, because it requires more courage and wisdom.

Giving up is a kind of wisdom, a kind of boldness, is a deeper level of enterprise. The reason why we sometimes struggle, because the burden is too heavy; the reason why the burden is too heavy, because it will not give up. Fame and fortune often smile and put people to death. The poet Rabindranath Tagore said: when the bird's wings tied to the gold, will not fly far. Learn to give up, in order to unload all the baggage of life, lightly loaded, to meet the turn of life, through the storm; know how to give up, to have a mature, will be more full, frank and easy. Give up the sorrow, and happy companion, give up the fame and fortune, step into the transcendent situation.

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The shimmering light of the morning fades away from the stars on that day. In the last moments, the stars are still in that far away to tell us that last night's dream, soothing the people who are about to wake up and those who have woken up to face loneliness. The stars tell us what is quiet beauty, what fantasy, what is romantic ......

I am the first to wake up for the stars to say goodbye? I hope it is and I hope it is not, because I long for the stars and quiet conversation, say some moving hidden in the heart of the words, but at the same time who do not long for that delightful soulmate it, and they together to send off the stars,, is not better?

Chen is about to go away, go to that far away from us on the other side of the shore, I and my dear friends together for him to send off, in the sky in the ethereal, in the dreamy thinking ...... There was no sadness in all of us, except that faint sentimentality, for we all knew that there was another world on the other side of the eons.

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Cable factory came to an equipment engineer, originally in Hubei, a large enterprise, with more than twenty years of experience in equipment management, I do not know how to bring his wife and daughter to Hangzhou to find a job.

When applying for a job, he specialized in picking those remote industrial enterprises, and eventually reached a preliminary agreement with the cable factory, the wage, he almost no requirements.

The personnel manager was surprised and politely asked why his requirements were so low, but he kept his head down and kept quiet. The HR manager let it go, but who doesn't have a little privacy these days?

A few days later when he signed the contract, the man said to the personnel manager, "I think I should tell you about the question you asked me a few days ago."

He said, "I was fired from the original one, and I knew too many people there to hang around. The HR manager immediately put the contract away and told him that he couldn't make the call, and that the chairman of the board needed to agree whether to hire him now.

He then came to the chairman of the board, who, after listening to his explanation and looking at his resume, pondered for a long time and said, "I've still decided to hire you."

This took the HR manager somewhat by surprise. The chairman said, "Experience is valuable, and honesty is even less so."

This story was told to me by the friend who was the personnel manager. He said that equipment engineer is now the company's power section chief, the work performance is very outstanding, now a number of private units want to dig him, he did not go

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When the nameless trouble attacked, then throw the book, in the cool wind, leaning against a tree, holding a yellow leaf abandoned by the season in his mouth. Tilting his head, gazing at the far-reaching sky, letting the gentle, bright blue reflected in the bottom of his heart. Just like in my childhood, when I was tired of playing, I looked for a piece of grass dyed golden by the sun, lay down, and let the smiling sunshine spread over my cheeks, and over the heartland without a little wrinkle.

When deep disillusionment plagues you, push open the window and slowly inhale the fresh air with its earthy aroma. Snow-white pigeons hover and fly, flowing down a string of pleasant whistles. Just like when I was a child, I carefully pinched the dandelion's thin whiskers with surprise, puffed up my cheeks, and blew away the parachute-like dandelion children. Close your eyes, make a sincere wish, and then open your eyes, full of relief and longing.

When the boredom of the rogue surged, they left the house, far away from the hillside, watching the sunset magnificent sinking. Wind and insects, filtering the heart of the murmur, as in childhood, night, in their own small courtyard, quietly crouching in the flower garden to listen to the song of the golden tortoise, wrenching hand index of the sky twinkling stars.

So, the noisy world gradually hidden, with a quiet heart ----

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Happy walk

This time the day is very gray, large clouds evolved into impure of white, like it was about to run to a great death. I sat here and tried to wash the gray skies with my blank mind and bring them back to their blue color.

So the clouds were bleached and the sky took on a haunting blue color. I have to say that God is so favorable to me, letting such bright and elegant sunlight refracted on my face, enjoying the golden feeling will make the body and heart warm.

There was no sand, no storm, no torment, no tears, everything seemed quiet and exquisite. Take a deep breath, what a mood for memories. All the love, all the hate, all the smiles, all the sadness, as if in the moment after closing the eyes like a flood flood came. So many scenes, so bright traces, just remembered which beautiful details that make us so strong, yet so fragile?

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Precious Gifts

Doc was a messenger who always believed that his mission was to deliver happiness to people. Therefore, he always carried many small notes in his pocket with encouraging words. As he delivered letters and telegrams to people, he also left them a little note telling them, "It's a beautiful day," "Smile a lot," and "Don't worry about it.

Doc was too old to enlist in the army during World War II, but he volunteered to help save lives at a field hospital.

One day, on a whim, he wrote on a hospital wall, "No one dies here." His behavior caught everyone's attention; people at the hospital said he was crazy, while others thought the phrase was harmless and didn't need to be erased.

The phrase was never bothered, and it stayed on that wall. Later, not only the wounded, even the doctors and nurses, including the dean, gradually remembered the words.

The wounded and the sick stayed strong to keep the words alive, and the doctors and nurses tried their best to give the patients the most careful treatment and care for the sake of the words. This hospital became a hospital of strength, with a look of hope and fortitude on everyone's face.

Sometimes it is not giants who work miracles, but perhaps just an ordinary word. And a word of encouragement is a free but precious gift to the other person. It is insignificant in our lives, but often weighs as much as a thousand pounds

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Three words that last a lifetime

I've been my brother's "follower" since I was a kid. ". Every time my brother took the first place in the exam, I was as happy as if I had taken the first place myself. When I saw people, I said, "My brother is great, he always comes first in the exams." That kind of joy is something no one can appreciate. Once my father said to me, "It's not you who came first in the exams, why are you so happy! Remember, don't show off yourself with other people's things!" So I remembered the first words about "showing off"--don't show off with other people's things!

After that, with my own cleverness and diligence, I always got the first place in the exams, and I was secretly happy. I feel that everything has become small in my eyes. Classmates asked me questions, I also love to ignore, but also skimmed the mouth and said, "so simple questions can not, you are really stupid, look at me!" While I was gloating, my father spoke again, "You can be confident, but not arrogant, remember, don't always flaunt yourself!" So I remembered the second sentence about "showing off" - don't show off all the time.

After entering college, I won a prize in a chess tournament organized by my school and brought home a trophy. My little nephew saw it and took it to play with. He took the trophy and his buddies "bragging", said his uncle how how great, his friends immediately on his "worship". When my father saw him, he said to me, "Don't let him hold your things, it will only spoil him. Remember, don't let others show off with your things!" So I remembered the third sentence about "showing off" - don't let others show off with your things!

My father's words were just three short sentences: but they have benefited me for the rest of my life.

Embrace the sunshine

Life is like a puzzle full of discursive colors, and everyone's attitude towards life determines your color. Sometimes we like the positive enthusiasm of red, the joyful exuberance of orange, the lively wit of yellow, and the vigor of green, but sometimes we also love the calm serenity of blue and the silence of black. Sunshine is such a colorful, to create such a rich and colorful world of life. Embrace the sun, give life more brilliant; accept the shadow, let life full of expectations.

I remember a poet Kahlil Gibran said, joy and pain, joy and sadness, just like light and shadow, tightly interdependent line. Rain is clear, if there is no parting tears, there will be no reunion smile; if there is no defeat hanging head, there will be no victory head; if there is no taste of bitterness, will not taste the sweetness. Yes, there are shadows on the back of anything, and shadows cannot be denied, but when you are faced with splendor, why should you care about the hardships and difficulties in the beginning? From the point of view of the event, these shadows set off the color of sunshine, let us understand, embrace the sunshine of the mind is how valuable and praiseworthy, and accept the shadows of the frank and is the quality of life firm dashing (sprightly).

Light and shadow are also like a person's strengths and weaknesses. The more you stand in the sun, "the shadows will be more noticeable." It is true that the absence of flaws is the greatest flaw. One novel symbolically depicts the story of a child who removes his shadow and thinks he is comfortable and pleased with himself, only to be feared and reviled by the crowd, and then finally gets it back. When people look at the brightness of the sun, they will find the grayness of the shadow, and the contrast is so strong that we often have to turn our backs and walk into a bigger shadow in an attempt to erase the marks that cannot be washed away. At this point we are "also wrapped in a gray and black". Knight Wang Xiaobo said, I don't want to be a rat again, drilling back into the dark warehouse. Embrace the sun is a kind of courage, in the shadow above, the light is always clear; embrace the sun is a kind of self-confidence, don't be afraid of the side effects of the darkness, besides this shadow, is also a unique scenery.

However, it is in the weather that can not see the sun, people still have to go to accept the shadow. Gu cheng said the night gave me black eyes, but I use it to find the light. When we can not resist being wrapped in a gray and black time, do not lose the desire and yearning for sunshine, and strive to find the bright spots of life, one day will get a clear sky.

Let's be a person who loves and embraces the sunshine, pull open the curtains, take off the sunglasses, get out of the closed, show and enjoy the beauty of life! Success begins with paying attention to details

--Speech at the flag-raising ceremony

In the Chinese character dictionary, the most infectious word is "love", and the most attractive two words are "success". ". From ancient times to the present, who does not want to get the feeling of success and enjoy the joy of success? So, is there a secret to success? If so, what exactly is it?

Recently, a businessman put forward a new twelve-word recipe for success - respect the system, pay attention to details, and act now.

For "respect for the system" and "immediate action" is not difficult to understand: the process of social development is actually the process of continuous improvement of the rule of law, respect for the rule of law, respect for the system, respect for the rules of handling is a person to do something about the Foundation and prerequisites; and a great ambition but just wait and see people naturally will not have any success. So, why do you need to pay attention to details to succeed?

Eighteen years ago, on January 28, 1986, the Challenger space shuttle lifted off from Cape Canaveral in the United States, and the last words heard in the flight control room at the Space Center were the Challenger's pilot, Lieutenant Commander of the U.S. Navy, the pilot par excellence, and the test pilot, Mike John Smith, who said, "Understood, full ascent! ". It was only a second before the explosion. All seven American astronauts, including a teacher, were killed. According to the investigation, all that caused the crash was a tiny seal that ruptured after the rocket ignited. If we compare our life's work to a space shuttle, then everything you do is actually a part of the airplane -- every detail you do today determines the success or failure of your future ascension.

In the school sports meeting held last week, sitting among the students, I can feel the excitement, excitement, but also can feel the words and deeds overflowing out of the love of school and love the spirit of collectivism, but extremely discordant is that, from time to time, I hear individual students will say some swear words, which makes a person think a lot.

Success does not require us to do a few big things, but to do everything today and pay attention to the details. Do not swear or spit on the floor as insignificant, do not think that a late or sloppy to cope with homework is not worth mentioning the smallest thing, do not think that the night is not a good rest or class "desertion" is just a matter of habit, these will be your "life space program "The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.

Success, only the opportunity is not enough, I hope you learn to pay attention to their own details, from the little by little start, and strive to be a high-quality people, a person responsible for their own to others in the world.

Unforgettable details

The Olympic Games have been over for some time. And yet everyone is still talking about the outstanding performance of those athletes - breaking records, winning medals ...... What about me? Those medal-winning moments, I slowly all faded into oblivion. But there is a scene, but y imprinted in my mind, and more and more clear, how unforgettable ......

Just remember the scene of the men's 50m air pistol three-position shooting final. The United States player Emmons once again stood in the brutal competition scene - although he four years ago in the Athens Olympic Games because of the last shot missed and make him and the gold medal passed by, leaving a long-lost regret. But he was not discouraged, and four years later stood tenaciously on the Olympic stage once again.

He played well in the earlier matches and was far ahead of his rivals. All he had to do was to shoot the last shot at the level of a professional athlete's very average marksmanship, and he would have won the championship and regained the honor he lost four years ago. But this time, God seemed to play a little joke on his fate -- he missed again on the last shot, hitting only 4.4 rings, once again missing the gold medal.

I, in front of the TV, thought he would lower his head y and complain about the injustice of fate ...... But he didn't. He did not get the amazing medal, but he still bowed y to the whole audience to show his gratitude. After that, he walked towards his wife and hugged her tightly! They also said something together, and although I couldn't hear them, I could feel them encouraging each other, saying that this was nothing, and that we would definitely be able to get through this! By this point, the whole room erupted into a long-lasting applause! I was also y moved.

Perhaps, with the passage of time, those athletes who have won honors in the Olympic Games, I will slowly fade away. However, he, but to me on the road of life well on a lesson. He, at two important junctures in his life, suffered major setbacks. But he never complained, but also so optimistic to face life, which has to have how broad-minded, pay how much courage ah! Think of ourselves, sometimes encounter a little difficulty, or trouble, will not be able to forget, grudging, can not be extricated. His confidence, courageous spirit, but also a great Olympic spirit ah. In fact, there are many such details in life, are worth discovering, feeling and learning ah. Each of us is a little more optimistic and cheerful, our whole world will be a little more harmonious. I hope we start from now, from the small things around us, more understanding, more tolerance, more sympathy, the future contribution to society.

The bridge to success ---- details

Details, is the deep night sky crossed a shooting star;

Details, is a layer of ripples on the surface of the turquoise lake;

Details, is the verdant branches of the green leaves drifting down.

Details are so beautiful --- like a glimmer of light in the mist of confusion, such as a wisp of fragrance sent from the quiet valley

, like a minor tune played by the lofty building.

Details have no fixed friends. There are failures and successes; there are disappointments and hopes; there are sadnesses and joys ......

The fragrance of wine, singing, sword and sword, Chu and Han heroes will drink Hongmen Banquet, talk about the past and present. Killing Xiang Zhuang sword pointed at Liu Bang, Liu Bang vaguely feel quite wrong, Zhang Liang according to the word out, led to Fan Hui into the Fan Hui to clang bold words to win Xiang Yu appreciation, take the opportunity to pretend to facilitate the opportunity to take Liu Bang out of the tent, told the truth, Liu Bang just realized that "Xiang Zhuang dance sword, intention in Pei Gong", so he intends to go into the tent to say goodbye, Fan Hui to Fan Hui, with the famous saying of "A great deed does not care about the slightest detail, a great gift does not resign to a small concession", persuaded Liu Bang, who insisted on keeping the etiquette of his resignation, to leave with the dust. At that time, the king's tent has been cross swords, just waiting for Liu Bang to enter the inside will be chopped into mush, it is because of Fan Hui's not stick to the details, to the overall situation of the practice is ultimately make Han Gaozu sing "the wind rises and the clouds fly up" on the Nine and a half. Xiang Yu, who is a woman's heart and stuck to the smallest detail of etiquette and righteousness, could only be defeated at Gaixia, splashing blood on the Wujiang River, and chasing after Yu Ji with the mighty wind of "Powerful mountains are covered by the world".

"The dike of a thousand miles collapses in an anthill" has always been cited by people who pay attention to details, but too much attention to details is not a desirable method.

"Gong cover three countries, the name of the eight array map" Zhuge Liang since Liu Bei Baidi City, after the orphans, for the phase between, everything must be a detailed look at the party to approve, up and down the country, every day, as many things happen as hairs. Zhuge Liang set of power in one, both military affairs, but also in charge of political affairs, but also in charge of palace affairs, than the Qin Shi Huang is much more diligent, but ultimately not only did not complete the restoration of the Han dynasty of the cause, but instead of exhaustion, died young, leaving a weak and incompetent Liu Zen to do the king of the country. Imagine, if Zhuge puts some small chicken feather assuredly handed over to the Shu talented people to handle, will be able to live a few more years, to support the cause will be very likely to realize, and will not "long make the heroes tears full of lapels".

Being attached to the details, Xiang Yu returned the tiger to the mountain, so that the four sides of the Chu song, the King of the Farewell Girl, cut his own throat on the Wujiang River, the whole army was wiped out.

Unconcerned about the details, Liu Bei survived the crisis, finally turned the danger into a safe and sound, and rose again, making a comeback, invincible.

Being trapped in the details, Zhuge Liang sleeps and eats, and takes care of everything, so that the people died and the government is not, and the success of a basketful of things, which makes people long to sigh.

Life has been through countless, treat the details of which can not be equated with the view, but only meditate and think about the specific circumstances of the specific treatment, in order not to be miserable to the capsize. As Liu Bei said: "Don't be evil, don't be good," which may be treated as we should have the attitude of the details!